I am somewhat of an eccentric who is really talkative, somewhat a mix of nerd and jock. I have no problems telling a girl pretty much whatever the fuck I want, and that is the problem. It stems from being really self conscious at some point in my childhood and then kind of snapping at the realization that there is basically no reason to give a shit. I can still bring on that mentality when I wish but I cant seem to find a balance between caring too much about what I say and not giving a shit and letting go. Sometimes I think I just need to shut the fuck up more often and ask more questions or something. Im new to this sub so I haven't read through that many posts but no one seems to have the same problem as me. Any tips?