Figure the douchebags of this subreddit might help, haha :-)

But seriously, unlike some guys who have no clue, I'm actually quite good around the ladies. Not shy, talk to them, they trust me to go out one on one, etc. For a long time I was in a relationship so I had no "agenda" but alas, that relationship has ended so I'm starting to think about the future. Not trying to jump into anyone's bed tomorrow, but you know. Other fish in the sea.

So, while I'm good at meeting women and have no issues with getting them to come to dinner/drinks/etc, that's where I fall off. Because of my long (9 years) relationship I never practiced going past the point of getting them to like me and being flirty.

So yeah...advice would be nice.