I feel stuck

kfudgingdodd · 2018-01-05T14:22:16+00:00

If youre getting all the contact info and they seem eager to give it, not you seem eager to get it, then your doing plenty right. Your gonna have to find a nice transition from "We're all having fun." To a more personal sexual approach. I usually do this gradually, over the course of an hour, once the basic rapport is made. This helps you get past the "slut defense" of a girl realizing he just wants to hook up. Once you two are "friends" and the rapport is made, it can be easier to re calibrate.

Disclaimer: This isn't the only method of approach and im sure some guys would totally recommend the opposite, however its working for me so I figured I would share.

nycxjz · 2018-01-05T15:46:07+00:00

So you’re not sure if she’s interested. Maybe she is. Maybe she isn’t. You don’t know based on your interactions thus far. You will have to do something more than what you’ve already done to test out the waters.

Gently touch her arm in conversation. How does she respond? Is she reciprocal? Ask her out. How does she respond? See her reaction. Compliment her. How does she respond? Flirt with her. Does she flirt back?

Now you have more information to determine whether or not she is interested.

Title	I feel stuck
Author	TrevorWy
Upvotes	3
Comments	2
Date	January 5, 2018 7:34 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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