I have been working a great deal lately. I have improved so much from when I was in high school, (I am 21 now). However I just cannot shake the feelings of doubt. There is my coworker who I have very strong feelings for, but I cannot shake the feelings of not being good enough to gain her interest. Its definitely a struggle keeping my confidence up each day. But thanks to you guys I'm a lot better off than I once was. I even realized yesterday how am I supposed to gain the confidence to go after the woman who I am attracted to when I have no experience in the first place. I certainly am not a "pussy is pussy" type of guy or just go out for random hook ups, but maybe I need to start otherwise is there another way for me to gain experience? Sorry I guess I just needed to rant that out, thank you to anyone who reads this