Some guys are looking for a hookup. Some guys are looking for the longterm. Some guys are open to anything. Good. Great.

The biggest turn off is trying to treat a girl like she's the only one you'll ever meet in your life. I'm not saying "the one for you" but "the only one, period."

Don't create a false narrative. Base your attraction to her off of SOMETHING. Prettiest eyes? tell her. You both like the same tv show? Tell her you love that you both can talk about it together.

The worst thing you can do is be super vague while pursuing her. Feeling like you're just a warm body to them is super unattractive. Feeling like they're fostering feelings of love for you, with all their declarations being nonspecific, comes off like you just need the validation.

It feels like to know there's a connection or an attraction. Not just a standard.