I keep getting told that I am asking them out to much, or am overly persistent. For example I planned to maybe meet up with a girl a couple of days ago but we werent sure if she could make it, so the next day late in the afternoon I asked her out again for the next day again she said she would let me know in the morning (today). Now we ended up talking on FB this morning and she mentioned she wasnt doing anything today and I thought fuck it, she mite not be able to make it tonight so why not today for lunch? As soon as I messaged that she said "you are really persistent to go out with me arent you", now I blew the shit test by saying something else, but what im more worried is that this isnt the first time this week!

Now I know you are going to say wait longer before asking them out again, however whenever I wait they seem to completely loose interest no matter what im do and then its game over. So thoughts?

Also how should I recover from this? Just not say anything for a while? (How long is a while?), how long shall I wait to ask her out again? ect.