Now I'm going to be asking the self improvement part of this subreddit and not the seduction part. Here's the thing, I hate everything about myself, how I look, act, sound, my personality, how needy I am, my depression, anxiety, the only think I like about myself is my quick wit. I do have a SO so this isn't about pickup, but even though I have a SO I am afraid of her cheating on me even though she isn't like that. I need advice on how to improve myself, how to become someone everyone can look up to. Please.