23/M, got prosthetic legs, I’m not an amputee but I need them to walk outside my home.

I’ve been on one date in my life, kissed a few girls in nightclubs that I haven’t even found attractive and that’s it.

Without being cocky, I’ve been told I’m slightly above average looking. I catch girls looking at me from time to time and when I’m in clubs have girls catch my eye and then come dance close to me. Even so I won’t make a move unless they do first, which has led to me only kissing women I’m not attracted to cause I feel bad rejecting them if they’ve made the first move.

I’m confident in all other areas and most people wouldn’t guess I’m a virgin and not successful with women. I’ve got female friends and can talk to women fine but I don’t escalate because I’m scared of rejection. I don’t approach women in bars because I don’t really know how to start off a conversation with a random women I find attractive.

If I’m honest with myself I’m just scared that if I did hit it off with her I’d eventually have to explain about my legs and I just can’t see anyone being attracted to me after finding out about them. I just think if she wasn’t after finding out, it would just put her in an awkward position and make her feel bad, which I wouldn’t want at all.

Not going to lie, I feel pretty desperate now. I feel like I’ve wasted my youth. All of my friends have had girlfriends, short term flings, one night stands, and I just feel like I’ve missed out and I’ll never make up for it or meet anyone in the future because I’m lost. I’m looking for any advice.

Thanks in advance!

Tl;dr - 23/M disabled guy, confident otherwise but low self-esteem when it comes to women and relationships. Looking for any advice.