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[–]Neezy_ts 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Look I’m going to give you my opinion on it I’m no expert just a dude trying to help by the experience I have made in my own life.. maybe nobody will agree but this worked for me.. So first of all since it seems that you’re not comfortable with yourself that is what we should focus on first. Social interactions and other people ALWAYS come after you in this “focus” regard. Your not comfortable with your teeth? That’s the first goal right there.. Save money to do that.. you’re at a point where you have to realize hanging out with people might be fun but won’t get you closer to many of your goals and may even work against it. Use your time WORK now, you’re young and you have time get a second job, save money, get ur own place, screw a car ( you seen the gas prices?) be lucky that you can ride a skateboard and get from a to b for free.. Most importantly I’d say get used to the “grind” and feel good about everyday you spend grinding work,sleeping and if possible working out is a fucking blessed day.. I know it’s heart at this young age to really see the value in something that doesn’t immediately give you results but people like you and I with no real degree don’t have any other choice.. We have to grind until we Safe enough to then invest in something that can give us an easier and better life. You don’t need a ton of friends what you need is family and maybe 2 close friends. At the end of the day you have to be the most important to you. By the way cleaning your room and having it organized is so unbelievably valuable for your mental health. Before going out and fixing your world you have to fix your own room if you will a extension of your brain and thoughts keep it clean there and you’re thoughts will also get cleaner and better. All these books on how to do something are a waste of time IMO it’s time to do! Not to read. Never forget that failing is the only way to succeeding. Get motivated by it! Next time you got if it didn’t work out! And if next time it doesn’t happen make sure to give it you’re all after that! Every try your chances get better and better that’s the only thing you need to feel good about yourself constant improvement! I hope that helps Have a blessed night
[–]Careful-Conclusion69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man, I didn’t know where to start or what to focus on with all these information in books and stuff. Guess I’ll start by cleaning and setting a goal to achieve. The only thing that’s always stopping me is my low energy and anxiety.
Really, Thank you and I’ll start working on it!
[–]SpecialPowerss 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro,
You just need to reinvent yourself and start from scratch.
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