So there’s this girl I’ve worked with for a while and things were always really fun/stupid/good time when we’d work together. We’re both a little awkward so it made it all the better. I recently left that job but still would go up there and hang out with her when I could. Anyways I didn’t hit me until about a week before I left that I really liked her. Like I get butterflies and I haven’t felt this way in a long time. I’ve built myself up so much since my ex that feeling this way is weird to me again.

My issue is that she’s stated a few times in the past that she doesn’t want to date anyone till she has her shit together. . Which I get and respect but I can’t help but feel the chemistry that’s there. I plan on shooting my shot with her regardless of the outcome... but could anyone give me some tips that might help ya boy land this one?