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So yesterday I 25M went out alone...walked around some outside venues, chatted up like 4 different groups of some girls and even guys to warm up...I usually ask them if they were inside and hows it looking or I ask if they know some good venues in the city and pretend that I'm new to the nightlife...which I am, but I already know the venues...whatever.
Then as I'm walking to my go to venue I pass a venue that is mostly for older people like 35+and I chat up 2 girls (maybe late 20s) that were just leaving... and again I ask them how's it looking inside they said it was terrible and then I asked if they know some good place. They said no and that they're here for 3 days and don't know the city that well. Then we talk about where they're from and the other venues in the city...at some point 1 girl (the uglier one) said that I should join them and go with them to my go to club. I was slowly walking away as she was saying it and I said that I will check a few more places and perhaps we will meet again.
I left and walked around for like 40 minutes and sat down on a few benches here and there to read some Mystery Method book.
After that I went to my go to club and it was pretty much empty. Nobody on the dance floor and only a few tables of maximum like 20 people.
I saw those 2 girls sitting at a table which was next to the dance floor and came up to them...half hugged the prettier blonde girl and greeted the uglier one...I immediately took them dancing....and then 2 other girls that were at a neighboring table joined us.
So now I'm the only guy on the dance floor with 4 girls forming a circle with me...the other 20 people just look.
I dance with the blonde hold both hands, interlock fingers, touch her hips, get her really close to me while dancing, spin with her and also sing along to the songs. Here and there I also give some attention to her friend and I ignore the other 2 girls that joined us...because I recognized one of them and this girl rejected my dance offers like 3 times in the past. All 4 girls talk to each other here and there on the dance floor.
After 10 minutes of dancing I want to sit down for a little...the uglier girl also sits....the blonde wants to keep dancing (at this point I wanted to sit down with them and build some comfort) but the blonde keeps dancing...I joined back in after 2 minutes...the blonde doesn't smile as much and gives me a weird look when I want to spin her again.
After 1 song she also sits down and the other 2 girls also sit down...I try to chat up the blonde that sits across me but I don't want to peck...so I ask her to sit next to me...she said no. Then both girls start leaning towards the other 2 girls and talk to them like I'm not even there...after a few minutes I leave and go home.
Now...I felt so much pressure as I was the only one guy dancing...and I hate dancing...I didn't know what to do...go for the kiss when she was hot? I was nervous escalating because of all the other people just watching and me being the in the spotlight...I think it would be easier if we were surrouded by people on the dance floor.
Like I said I didn't know what to do... escalate when she was hot? Leave and chat up other groups? Make the other 2 girls join our table?
What would you do?
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