first of all, i am not sure if i am posting this in the correct subreddit, but i think the story is interesting/weird enough for you seduction specialists to think about it and hopefully tell me what's going on.

so, here is the deal: about a year ago i fell in love with a girl who we will call H. H is absolutely amazing - intelligent, smart, excellent taste and shares pretty similar views on many topics with me. i added her on facebook and started talking to her for a bit and saw that she was the real deal, and i really wanted something more with her. we could chat endlessly about whatever and i think we really clicked. so, 2 months in, i told her that i wanted something more with her, which she declined saying she did not want a relationship with anybody (bull, i know). i was in the friendzone and i knew it. but regardless, we continued talking and hanging out, even tho she started becoming more and more cold. one night i drunkenly stated that i loved her which kinda hit her, and 2 nights later she did the same, but took it back the following morning.

one night the 2 of us went to a radiohead auditory, but H was late and brought her friend with her. i was kinda pissed but let it slide, and so we sat down and ordered a beer. as we were sitting there she completely ignored me and just talked to her friend. she asked me if i wanted to go outside to grab a smoke which i declined, and both of them left. they were gone for about 20 minutes. i got mad, picked up my stuff and told her i was going home. she was like "fine, whatever". as soon as i got home i deleted her off facebook, skype, number - everything. this is where the story starts to get interesting.

for around 4-5 months i cut all contact with her, and she would occasionally send me texts asking me what the hell was up with me, to which i would just reply as short and as emotionless as possible (i truly did not care about her at that point). her msgs go on for some time and 3 weeks ago i get an email from her in response to something i sent her like 8 months ago, in which she thanks me for it and asks me if we could talk. i said "what the hell" and told her ok. she told me we should meet to which i agreed, but before that we re-added each other on skype and had a very long conversation in which both of us confessed that we still had feelings towards each other, but since she was in a committed relationship for almost a year now, we would just be friends (she also apologized for being a bitch).

we go out the next day and everything is going normal, no tension - nothing. just a friendly chit chat. as soon as we were done sipping coffee, she suggested we go out for a walk around the town. we get to a neat little secluded place and sat on the bench. as we're sitting talking about something she just hugs me all of the sudden. i ignore it as being a friendly gesture but then she starts looking at me, dead silent. i'm sort of confused since she has a boyfriend she claims she loves but is giving me obvious signs to go in for the kiss, and i do. we make out for around 3 minutes and she gets really upset about how she always fucks thing up blablabla. i ask her why she did that and after a bit of a thinking pause she proclaims that it was "a closure to our unresolved past" that she needed.

3 weeks have gone by, and things are pretty much the same as before: she does not want to go out (she is a pretty introvert person tho, who enjoys being alone), we chat for a bit on skype and i'm exactly where i was a year ago. my questions to you are:

  • what was the actual reason for the kiss (because i honestly doubt it was closure and that she would risk her 1 year relationship just for it)

  • do you think i have a chance?

  • how should i act in order to get what i want ?

sorry for the long post, but i believe it was necessary to understand the situation.

TL;DR: fell in love with a girl, she friend zoned me for half a year, i cut contact, she comes back, soberly makes out with me even tho she is in a 1 year relationship, now the things are pretty much the same.