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[–]WIA20XX 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Few problems.
1) Scarcity mindset.
2) Your life is boring, so you have too much Idle time to both reply to a chick, and think about why she isn't replying immediately.
3) You are trying to control how another person perceives you. The best you can do is Influence.
4) On the more advanced side, Your texts are dry as fuck (subject matter and delivery) and you don't captivate your audience.
Fix any one of these things, and your life will be improved
[–]bosslessmindset 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In the context of current isolation. Replying back right away is okay as long as it is understood said person is off work (laid off, furlough or company is temp. closed)
[–]WIA20XX -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Caring "if something is understood or not", is the problem.
Texting with the mindset of precision when the nature of the medium is imprecise leads guys to get bogged down
[–]OctoberRain88 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
depends if it adds to the vibe or not
[–]bosslessmindset 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In a Covid-19 setting with isolation it should not be a problem. But once everything is back to normal. It can be an issue depending on the circumstances.
[–]FJackxd 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. Replying immediately all the time is not good. Its okay to do it once in a while though.
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