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Fundamentalsbosslessmindset/r/seduction08/04/20 03:38 PM
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bosslessmindset/r/AntiFeminists11/01/21 10:48 PM
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Conversationbosslessmindset/r/seduction07/04/20 05:18 PM
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bosslessmindset/r/AntiFeminists17/10/20 12:40 PM
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bosslessmindset/r/AntiFeminists27/11/20 02:11 PM
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Fundamentalsbosslessmindset/r/seduction27/03/20 12:30 AM
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Inner Game bosslessmindset/r/seduction01/04/20 08:35 PM
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bosslessmindset/r/AntiFeminists17/10/20 12:38 PM
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What made you think otherwise?
/r/AntiFeminists24/12/20 03:56 AM
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I will be updating that over the holidays. As the name of the sub states, it is about long term relationships.
/r/AntiFeminists24/12/20 03:31 AM
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Why are you MGTOW? And what does it mean to you?
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/20 06:46 PM
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Isn't that the entire reason for 'cross-posting' or posting in general? For more people to see it. So the answer is yes and it is related so the answer is yes again. How about not asking idiotic questions?
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/20 04:40 PM
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This is some amazing reasoning and well thought out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/20 02:47 AM
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Well said, a lot of people are defaulting to deception these days.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/20 02:47 PM
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it is about making good/better decisions when dating.
/r/AntiFeminists07/11/20 04:04 AM
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nothing. That is why it is posted in ANTIfeminists, right? Where, "this sub is not hate against women, it is pointing out problems with feminism and tying to raise awareness for mens issues."
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/20 04:39 PM
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what?!
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/20 04:32 PM
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Good points. I would put, "Shes just checking how attractive she is by mesuring how much attention overall she gets from men" in the she has options category and "She feels bad that day and its just fixing her negative emotions with you" in the personal issues category. "She is too selfish" and "She enjoys playing with your time, attention and emotions for fun" can be placed in the shit test category or I might just make a new category of not being a good person. Thanks for the input.
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/20 04:31 PM
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I can't argue against your statement because you are right. The best thing to have is compatibility and respect. She needs to see you as an apex man aka alpha. Without that in a world of unlimited options, your chances of experiencing a great relationship is up to chance.
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/20 01:45 PM
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You raise some good points for discussion. Many men do not realize in a marriage, on average, you get less sex year after year. To avert this some guys 'spin plates' or just make sure your compatibility is as close to 100% as possible.
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/20 01:28 PM
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I will give you a citation. Do you have a site to link to?
/r/seduction09/04/20 10:40 PM
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lol. exactly.
/r/seduction09/04/20 07:45 PM
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I have no idea how a quick retort would be considered creepy under any circumstance except if the words used came across as weird.
/r/seduction09/04/20 05:26 PM
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Okay, I will. This parallels in terms of building up on social skills as I have videos on that here
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:49 PM
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You are welcome. Is there anything you feel I have missed?
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:48 PM
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You are very welcome.
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:48 PM
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Content comes from built up experiences and how you use well is also based on experience. That is why human interaction is imperative. You may use examples from other people and incorporate that into yourself and make it your own. But experience trumps all.
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:47 PM
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who told you that?
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:46 PM
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exactly.
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:45 PM
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There are so much guys with the same narrative doing the same thing and they are being taught by certain guys, especially on YT.
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:45 PM
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yes, that is why you shouldn't spill everything through text, just text to set a meet.
/r/seduction09/04/20 04:00 AM
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I got some texting rules here
/r/seduction09/04/20 03:59 AM
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LOL.. whaaat? I like the line though, "The King doesn't perform, the court jester does" Here's one, "What's a King to a God? What's a God to a nonbeliever?" ​ I will say this, if you believe being witty is a thing to do rather than being witty becoming a part of you then it won't work out. Digest and absorb the information; assimilate it and let it be part of you.
/r/seduction09/04/20 03:01 AM
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I think if anyone is at the top of anything in today's society then they got a lot of intelligence or had people that did.
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:57 AM
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If you didn't purse being an astronaut or football player from a young age, it is pointless to try when you are older. That is just a fact. People paint the picture of older women all not getting an attractive guy yet we see the exceptions to that everyday. Women are indeed judged by beauty and have better chances when they are younger. That is true. But not every older woman can't get a man her age.
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:16 AM
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Yes, of course the better looking you are the easy things are. I will mention that being physically fit/muscular plus having a good wardrobe will add to your attractiveness/SMV
/r/seduction09/04/20 01:51 AM
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Awesome. I appreciate a woman that can have a man say he made a mistake and not look weak in her eyes. Many people can't admit to wrongs these days.
/r/seduction09/04/20 01:35 AM
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easy right?
/r/seduction09/04/20 01:33 AM
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I think the other way around. As with cuffing season, due to the corona virus, "Texting Season" is upon us. Show the ladies your text game.
/r/seduction09/04/20 01:33 AM
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Well, it does take a lot of smarts to launder money effectively. Playing football isn't easy, athletes work hard to try and reach the NFL. Singing isn't easy as well since there are tonnes of competition and a lot luck is needed. Being an entrepreneur is hard as well. I feel you are describing some bad boy archetypes that young women fall for yet mostly never go with for the long term as they mature.
/r/seduction09/04/20 01:32 AM
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Examples are tricky since advice is super specific to a person and what type of person they are dating or trying to date.
/r/seduction09/04/20 12:05 AM
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Everything is considered. Especially the fact that many women find intelligence to be a big factor.
/r/seduction09/04/20 12:04 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction08/04/20 09:04 PM
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thank you.
/r/seduction08/04/20 09:04 PM
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What aspects are too vague? I would say any type of interaction is learnt and gets better through experience.
/r/seduction08/04/20 09:04 PM
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Thank you for the comment.
/r/seduction08/04/20 09:04 PM
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Furthermore, water isn't actually wet because ‘wet’ means being covered or saturated with a liquid. Water is not that, it in itself is a liquid, but it cannot be covered or saturated in itself.
/r/seduction08/04/20 12:51 AM
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What might be obvious to you isn't for many people.
/r/seduction08/04/20 12:46 AM
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She is just not feeling your sexual energy. Try projecting in an appropriate manner through escalation this energy of yours. I have an article about this here.
/r/seduction06/04/20 01:26 AM
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I would wait to ask when you see her in person.
/r/seduction06/04/20 12:56 AM
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This "game" is always changing. Dating back in 2010 is a whole lot different from now and will keep on changing.
/r/seduction06/04/20 12:53 AM
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Well if you are still interested then why don't you text her back and not let her aloof texting bother you much. I am considering all factors, especially the one that India has a different cultural dynamic. I have some rules on how to text and handle flaky girls here.
/r/seduction06/04/20 12:50 AM
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Words to live by
/r/seduction05/04/20 07:54 PM
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Yes, if she is willing to be FWB and willing to come over then she is willing to make the move if you don't.
/r/seduction05/04/20 07:52 PM
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Usually I would say he is not interested BUT he messaged you about what he likes, comic books and sent you video. I would say that is a clearer sign than anything that he likes you, he just didn't know how to react. You should escalate with him and see what happens.
/r/seduction05/04/20 07:25 PM
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Why don't you make her make the 1st move. If she wants FWB, there is a good chance she will.
/r/seduction05/04/20 07:22 PM
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Think about the failed connects from your run and the next time you run, don't even think, just approach and talk
/r/seduction05/04/20 07:20 PM

Why do you "worry about sex? What stops you from acting normally around women?
/r/seduction05/04/20 07:17 PM
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What are some cougar bars in Ontario?
/r/seduction05/04/20 07:14 PM
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I would escalate when she is single and approachable and would reciprocate if I was in your position.
/r/seduction05/04/20 04:50 AM
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I would wait until she is single to avoid bad blood, confrontations, and being an orbiter.
/r/seduction05/04/20 04:46 AM
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That might be a part of the problem.
/r/seduction05/04/20 03:21 AM
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Well I would generally say people in the club act differently once they step in. Pretty girls can be pretty mean once they enter the club and guys tend to extend themselves too much and brag about what they have (or don't have). Check out my video on this Here.
/r/seduction05/04/20 03:10 AM
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Do you watch every 1 to 3 days?
/r/seduction05/04/20 03:07 AM
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Do you watch a lot of porn?
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:56 AM
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I would say to focus on your life and success more. At 18 I can understand where you are coming from but also consider putting some focus in other areas of your life.
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:54 AM
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Great points for the OP to consider.
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:53 AM
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Good read
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:50 AM
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I would say increase your mystery. Check out this article on that.
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:48 AM
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I would say change the memorization and routines into natural action. Practice that and you will be well ahead of the game.
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:46 AM
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How are you good at day game yet not at night game? Just curious. I am just trying to see your reasoning.
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:42 AM
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If you are looking for a friend then why does it matter if it is dry texting? I would say it would be more of a problem if you are trying to date.
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:39 AM
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Stay away from dating and work on yourself. As OP said, pictures for online game is imperative, check out this article about this.
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:36 AM
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Great advice
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:34 AM
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It all has to be relative to your specific situation and the specific girl. Check out this article to increase your attractiveness.
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:33 AM
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Online is the best venue right now for this sort of stuff. If you have trouble with online game then check out these rules. If you get too much flakes then check out these rules.
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:30 AM
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Try escalating appropriately. Where do you. Know the female from? School, work, social life?
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:26 AM
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Yea you have a different energy when you don't need to date or see anyone else. Women can pick up on that.
/r/seduction05/04/20 01:17 AM
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I will clarify I meant once novice "game" is done and OP is comfortable with it, then start with intermediate.
/r/seduction04/04/20 06:36 PM
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Why don't you just tell her you want all this stuff
/r/seduction03/04/20 04:40 PM
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I wouldn't bother
/r/seduction03/04/20 02:04 PM
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I feel what is meant is to work on yourself such as achieve things in your life, eat healthy, go to the gym, educate yourself, start a business, do better at work. Etc
/r/seduction03/04/20 12:54 PM
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Great words of advice
/r/seduction03/04/20 12:23 PM
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What?!
/r/seduction03/04/20 12:22 PM
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I think a mix of old school thoughts and wisdom is getting mixed up with new school dating. If you have a wife you should respect and treat her well. Many older people have great relationships. BUT, dating is now completely different due to social density. So that is where not pedestalizing a woman comes into play. Check out my rules on dating here.
/r/seduction03/04/20 12:12 PM
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It would all be about timing and escalation. You have to escalate properly. Check it out Here.
/r/seduction03/04/20 12:08 PM
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If she messages you, maintains conversation, asks you questions and wants to see you offline then she is pretty interested. If one of these is correct then she is interested, if two or more is correct then she is definitely interested. If all are correct then why don't you escalate to a date? Check out my texting rules.
/r/seduction03/04/20 12:03 PM
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His store is most likely essential.
/r/seduction03/04/20 12:00 PM
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Build comfort and escalate wisely. Check out this tips on how to do this Here.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:55 AM
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I would follow the suggestion of laying back more, letting her message you and letting her talk more.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:54 AM
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Good points raised.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:54 AM
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It means not interested in most cases. You could be texting too much, not being interesting, being overbearing, or not escalating to a meet quickly enough. I would say to reevaluate your dating strategy and try something else. Read this on how to build attraction.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:47 AM
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I say to people, it is always better to approach in person than online.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:33 AM
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You always have some good advice. I would say both of you are right. Guys need to find, know and respect their boundaries as well as not let flaking behavior get to them.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:31 AM
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What is your end game in spinning plates?
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:30 AM
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Here is some info on building attraction.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:27 AM
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Yea, support or entertainment.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:24 AM
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I have seen this done to guys before. As mentioned, you are either entertainment or kept as an orbitor to move to if said relationship goes sour.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:24 AM
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Makes sense to me. I have seen this done to guys before.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:23 AM
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Goodluck. At least you chose a place where you can find a nice and good guy.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:21 AM
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In the context of current isolation. Replying back right away is okay as long as it is understood said person is off work (laid off, furlough or company is temp. closed)
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:17 AM
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In a Covid-19 setting with isolation it should not be a problem. But once everything is back to normal. It can be an issue depending on the circumstances.
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:15 AM
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Why do you think this "His success is not from a set of beliefs and behaviors that can be learned, internalized, and repeated".
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:14 AM
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You don't have an issue picking up coworkers and not having it turn shitty?
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:13 AM
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How are you escalating?
/r/seduction03/04/20 11:11 AM
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gotcha 👍
/r/seduction03/04/20 12:23 AM
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Good ideas but OP seems more novice so this intermediate "game" should be done when comfortable.
/r/seduction02/04/20 10:07 PM
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I would say the opposite. Being nice is your personality but you shouldn't naturally display it. It attracts predators, manipulators and liars that want to take advantage of you.
/r/seduction02/04/20 10:04 PM
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I would say you might be wearing yourself too thing. Everybody gets ghosted online, even me. The key here is to identify ghosting behavior and cut short or cut off the conversation and move on as fast as possible. Concentrate on women worth your time and that respect your time. That way you can emerge eventually in a relationship and not waste time. And energy on people who don't see you as worth it. Furthermore, women mainly have looks to judge guys on online if she is receiving 100 messages a …
/r/seduction02/04/20 10:00 PM
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Very interesting read with a different angle on things. How long did it take to formulate these thoughts and ideas? What is up with the race mixing stuff though? People will be put off by it. Why did you think to put it in and keep it? Many of your ideas come off great but once again, the race stuff especially in a social atmosphere will come off negative.
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:49 PM
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How long do you text before you set a meet?
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:37 PM
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Light-years bro. Don't hit with the advanced game so fast.
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:22 PM
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So basically you are not escalating, showing body language of disinterest and not carrying a conversation.
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:19 PM
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Are you looking for a wife a gf or just an FWB?
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:16 PM
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It can be very hard to hold a camera and talk for 10 minutes or more straight and get your ideas across in a logical manner. So, sometimes I have to think about what I want to say and have to say about that specific topic, but as with all things I will get better at it. I am doing a new setup soon to make the videos more presentable.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:16 AM
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That is a very good way of putting things. I like your take on things.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:13 AM
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I got what you mean but I myself would never call it game as to describe myself as it isn't game to me but me being me. And as I said before and it is a subtle but distinct difference.
/r/seduction01/04/20 10:16 PM
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Okay i get it. I don't consider this all to be "game". I consider this me being me and having a strategy that works. If you consider this game then that might actually be the problem. No one is gaming, this is about being social and being good at being social.
/r/seduction01/04/20 09:17 PM
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Can you clarify what you said.
/r/seduction01/04/20 08:52 PM
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what do you mean by "trash"? The women are low quality or the idea of how to pick up is low quality?
/r/seduction01/04/20 06:34 PM
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Yes, that is a good point.
/r/seduction01/04/20 06:32 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:48 PM
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Volume is a factor and is key since it does not plateau but I would suggest you work on those social skills because the women you are approaching have better social skills. I have explained this HERE. \you already know your problem, " The biggest problem is my lack of extreme self-confidence I think. I hesitate a lot and I am not really bold in that manner " So work on that second, first, you should work on peaking your social skills because that is a big foundation as well as your confidence. A…
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:42 PM
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Helping guys be put on the "plantation" so to speak.
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:24 PM
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hey OP, are you a seduction master?
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:39 PM
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Why don't you believe in the friendzone?
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:28 PM
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So are PUA garbage men because they want you to pay for content and paywall ideas or because their artistry does not work?
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:27 PM
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Damn... the way back machine. Back to 2013 with the Blackberry
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:26 PM
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LOL....
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:25 PM
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cold approaching in the clutch
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:01 PM
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you should get her interested and invested in the conversation. If she isn't initiating a conversation at least half of the time then she is not interested and will ghost soon.
/r/seduction01/04/20 02:52 PM
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well, you already have the mindset to change and know what to do so you are already half way there.
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:09 AM
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you cold Hisokuh
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:07 AM
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you are not ugly man... and this is coming from another guy. Just work on you. Improve yourself, make your life better, gym it up, eat healthy and it will all work wonders. With some pro pics, you definitely can get dates online.
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:02 AM
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I just wanted to point out one more thing about dating apps: Try putting some cash towards pro or at least semi-pro pictures. The only thing that a woman that gets 100 to 200 messages uses to judge all the guys messaging her on is your looks. She won't be reading 200 profiles a day. So increase your SMV by getting some photos. Here is the article on that: https://www.bosslessmindset.com/the-truth-about-dating-when-it-comes-to-money
/r/seduction01/04/20 04:55 AM
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Yes, work on your "game" as many call it. I call it working on my social skills. Your skills will plateau unless you add or remove new or old elements to it. One thing that does not plateau is volume.
/r/seduction01/04/20 04:38 AM
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Why don't you embrace a negative outcome? Approach with the knowledge you most likely will get rejected so that when it happens it isn't a shock to your ego. And when you get a positive outcome it is all good. Have you tried randomly talking to people where there is no sexual tension? Such as kicking it with other guys or striking up a casual conversation with random guys in public.
/r/seduction01/04/20 04:32 AM
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What are some of your inner game hangups?
/r/seduction01/04/20 04:21 AM
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I would say, yes, use dating apps but get off of them as soon as possible. I even have an article on it HERE.
/r/seduction01/04/20 04:17 AM
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Save all your energy for bigger and better. Put all that energy into something else.
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:50 AM
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This is how you have an easier life and you save all that energy for bigger and better things.
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:49 AM
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LOL, this is actually a pretty good answer.
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:47 AM
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I guess she wants to be seduced guys. who us up for it?
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:45 AM
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Well, think about it like this bro. Why would an attractive women approach a guy when she gets guys approaching her? It happens to me too bro. Girls that are super attractive don't NEED to approach because they get approached and do the choosing. So all in all, there is nothing wrong with you. Just how the current dating dynamics have been.
/r/seduction31/03/20 04:50 AM
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I made a video today about your last point. Practicing social skills with attractive women will always have some sexual tension so it is best to cold approach anyone else just to chat it up and get better at that then start again or continue with cold approaching hot women.
/r/seduction30/03/20 01:10 AM
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Generally attractive women have good social skills in terms of knowing what to say and do because they get interacted with so much. I would also say good social skills doesn't mean pleasant social skills. They don't need to be nice to you. They know when to be mean, how to be mean and when it is okay to be mean, hence, "good social skills".
/r/seduction30/03/20 12:58 AM
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Definitely. You are exactly right.
/r/seduction29/03/20 10:37 PM

I have talked about this specific situation HERE and (part 2) HERE. Over-all, if you have weak social skills then you won't be able to interact effectively with women. Especially since women that are attractive have strong social skills since they get hit on ALL THE TIME. They are really good at interactions and can chew you up if you are sub par. Furthermore, men and women see socializing differently in terms of sexual dynamics. Check out what I mean by this HERE.
/r/seduction29/03/20 10:13 PM
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don't worry bro; here are some wise words " Every girl is Bi... you just gotta figure out if it’s sexual or polar"
/r/seduction29/03/20 04:03 PM
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thank you.
/r/seduction29/03/20 03:04 PM
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Focus on your life my friend and not dating. I take dating as only an option.
/r/seduction29/03/20 04:45 AM
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It seems you already answered your own question. I would think as a man, you always have a "type" but life is way easier when the woman chooses you rather than you choosing and chasing after a woman.
/r/seduction29/03/20 04:40 AM
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What are your passions in life?
/r/seduction29/03/20 04:29 AM
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The questions should be. Is the woman really busy if she says she is busy? Is the woman really not ready for a date until she gets to know you through texts? The thing is, some women BS and say they are busy when they really aren't. Some women say they wanna know you because they got too many guys and dates lined up and wanna slow down some guys or she has a guy in mind and if that turns sour then she goes on to you or the next guy. Being in quarantine is a very particular situation. But, I woul…
/r/seduction29/03/20 04:25 AM
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I would ask for the number just so that I know where I stand. i.e. if I was just a boredom conversation piece or there is actual interest. They can still ignore you once you move to text or whatsapp or kik. But the thing is, I would text as minimal as possible as to not remove the mystery or say anything that might get misinterpreted.
/r/seduction29/03/20 04:15 AM
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Perfect points presented.
/r/seduction26/03/20 02:02 AM

You did nothing. It is a supply and demand issue. There are a few available and attractive women that seem date-able with hundreds of guys messaging them. While all these women have to judge a guy on, because they will barely read profiles is your looks. So, if you don't have the exact look they want, you won't get a response. If you do get a response you and the dozens of other guys get messages until she chooses who to discard. That is the state of current online dating. So just move on if you…
/r/seduction23/03/20 06:43 PM
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What is your ratio of in person game vs online game?
/r/seduction22/03/20 01:57 PM
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Did you shut her down after she re opened?
/r/seduction22/03/20 01:53 PM
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Why can't it be both?
/r/seduction22/03/20 04:18 AM
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Great points to absorb. Thanks for the read.
/r/seduction22/03/20 03:08 AM
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Great advice. I would also add that a relationship shouldn't solely be something that makes a person happy. Especially since it is something that takes 2 or more people and not under your full control.
/r/seduction22/03/20 02:51 AM
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Unlock all your potential my friend. In life, we can fail, but we only need to succeed once. Dating is the same. All we need to do is win once.
/r/seduction20/03/20 07:09 PM
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I wonder... Either they do have a gay friend that came in and you didn't notice because you are not gay OR They were hitting on you and wanting to rule out if you were gay because you were so god damn sexy.
/r/seduction20/03/20 03:03 PM
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Damnnnn... nice retort.
/r/seduction20/03/20 12:19 AM
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I would say seduction is both. Don't stagnate in the Grey area. Get out by either getting the date or getting friend zoned and move on. In fact, the friend zone right now is that Grey area. You are boxed in and categorized as movie friend, date friend, text friend, talk friend, emotional pillow or the free taxi friend.
/r/seduction19/03/20 05:17 AM
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Yea that works too. Relationships are commitments
/r/seduction17/03/20 11:56 PM

Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships.
/r/seduction17/03/20 01:24 AM
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He gets girls because of his looks. Other people did not win the genetic lottery so they have to use their social skills to be able to compete.
/r/seduction16/03/20 12:46 PM
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Some people don't even come to this realization. I myself talk about how social skills is imperative in dating and that RSD, dating coaches and PUA all do the same thing but in a different way.
/r/seduction15/03/20 03:23 PM
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This is exactly right. What works for you may not work for others.
/r/seduction15/03/20 03:08 PM
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