This post is something I told myself and I believe is true.

I feel like I always ask peers, my family, books, and reddit for advice. Today is the day I stop asking people for seduction advice I will just be myself and respond to women the way I naturally do. Isn't that what females want anyway? A guy that is himself? I took a girl on a date and she told me she isn't use to talking to a guy like me and she liked me. I didn't have a plot I just asked her out and was just myself.

I recommend you just be yourself, the main reasons you don't get girls is because you're either scared of rejection or you read too much on how to pick up girls with pick up lines and strategies making it hard to be yourself. Here is the technique, be yourself.

One thing I learned is that it isn't always you if things don't line up you can't control how the girl feels about you then have to take the L or keep pursing her and become needy you don't want to become needy.

You'll have girls:

  • Obsessed with their EX
  • Someone in their family died so they don't want to talk to you
  • Recently got their heart broken

I can go on and on with the list nevertheless so many possibilities out there that makes a girl not want to talk to you. I use to think there was a magic trick to get any girl and I just didn't know the magic trick. There is no magic trick, either things line up or they don't.

I'm 21M sheltered as a kid never had serious girlfriend, went to school came home and played video games I had no girl experience I didn't know how to flirt and I'm just learning this while talking to this girl now. (same girl that said she isn't use to talking to a guy like me) I subconsciously told myself this stuff after reading "Models - Attract Women With Honesty" so I thought I'd share I know I can at least help one person, I wish I saw a post like this years ago. Let me know your opinions about being yourself and things lining up with females. I want a different perspective. Do you agree with me? If not, why?