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[–]xxxHeathcliff 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Go find a nerd girl and vibe, stop chasing basic bitches, they dumb as fuck even tho they pretty. Nerd girls may be thicker n awkward n say no hella but they only say no because they are afraid cause they dont know how to flirt either.
Try, thats all you have to do to succeed. You dont need to win, just to try
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I suppose it’s tough to complain if I have not even tried
[–]xxxHeathcliff 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah man, complaining is you trying to get past yourself. Its like the old saying
He who conquers himself, conquers the world
Tip 1, when talking to a girl (not flirting) if she glances at your mouth she likes you. Full eye contact the whole time is them being respectful, its the glance to look for tho
[–]MysteriousBrain2318 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Don’t focus on women, focus on yourself. Let the women come to you.
Workout.. go lift some weights. It’s a primitive biological function that women will seek men they perceive capable of physical strength because they still have that subconscious biological need to want a protector.
Work on your financial stability. You don’t have to be a millionaire. You just have to be independent and be grounded.
Be discipline. It’s a representation of masculine strength.
Get styled. Always be well presented.
Learn to be so grounded in your own strength and solidarity that you give 0 fucks about them. That will make them attracted to you.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Thank you I needed that. But here is the problem. I’m 28 years old so the clock is ticking. What terrifies me is the fear of failure. Of putting so much effort towards one pursuit/goal only to fall flat on my face. Failure is a part of life but unfortunately you cannot get lost time back. This is greatly discouraging for me. I want to pick the right path and be a man I can be proud of more than anything. This will quell my desire for sex and love and subsequently boost my confidence.
It’s just the fear of failure and looking like a fool that holds me back.
[–]MysteriousBrain2318 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You have 28 years of learned lessons and 50 plus years left to live. That time was valuable because you now know what life is based upon your previous decisions. Now make new ones, we all have a fear of failure but that uncertainty is what gives life its magnificence.
Why do you care if you look like a fool to others. Fuck them, they aren’t paying your bills. If your on your grind and improving yourself, let them judge. Remember judgment is a reflection of unresolved issues from within. They judge because you are doing what they fear to do. GO GET THAT BREAD.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have my thanks
[–]jimmie-russler 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’d take it with a big pinch of salt, however at one of my lowest points with much similar thoughts this old YouTube series really helped me out of it and after I started having more success with people:
https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL717B88636529A92D
A lot of the guys on there make some pretty interesting and thought provoking points on the whole seduction thing. It is old though so some of the things might be outdated today.
A point btw the first guy on there in a later series changes his mind on a few of the things he said originally and advocated being more natural.
I’ll give it a look see. Thanks. I’m feeling a bit better.
[–]ClarkMann52 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sounds like a dude that hasn’t thought of looking for another dude.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eff that
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