Since starting in the community about 6 months ago I've definitely gotten better at thinking on my feet, how to be playful, etc. which has lead to several lays with virtual strangers. However, for whatever reason these relationships don't make it to the next level of seriousness. It's like they are trapped in the playful side, despite my solid rapport, and fizzle out after 4 weeks. Do you think it's just because we don't have that common friend to link us together? Is it because we sleep together too fast? Anybody have experience with this issue...