I'm having trouble instigating the 'models' method of overcoming approach anxiety.

Fuck_Dacts · 2014-08-07T12:06:29+00:00

I did this actually - to make it less awkward and unrealistic I would use the line of "my phone died on me - do you have the time"? Asl don't do a train station - I personally did a shopping mall, where the excuse of clocks everywhere isn't AS relevant.

xray777 · 2014-08-07T15:52:03+00:00

Worked for me.

Go to a specialty grocery store like Whole Foods. You will instantly notice the sharp increase in fit bodies and yoga pants. Don't let this faze you.

Pick an aisle/department and select a lovely woman. Pick a group of products (non-GMO chips or something) that you don't know anything about. This is your secure place. You just want to know about non-GMO chips. Walk up to her from the side and just as you're about to touch her arm very lightly say to yourself "I just want to know about chips". That's all its about. The chips.

Tell her you're new to eating local/organic/non-GMO and you want to know if she's tried any of these chips and which ones taste the most unlike cardboard. She'll chuckle and say something. You should easily be able to get a conversation going about her health/eating habits...most people at Whole Foods or the like have strong opinions on it.

And always remind yourself....you're just interested in the food or her opinion about it. That's your laser focus and your enormous plausible deniability.

Roll out after a brief convo. Don't give her any indication that you are interested in anything other than the chips and seem genuinely lost on the topic.

You can probably find a way to happen upon her several times though the store (protip, if she has a cart, she's not just there for two things). Ask her about the things in that area....again, now its just about local rutabagas. Rutabagas are your safe place. Call her your tour guide or something like that roll out again.

If you're clever, you want her to happen upon YOU the next time. Once is happenstance, twice is coincidence, three is enemy action. Every woman is an expert intelligence officer on male interest, remember that. So place yourself somewhere that she has a high probability of passing through, probably near the checkout lines. If she says ANYTHING to you, tell her she's clearly stalking you/wants to make fun of you for being such a noob, etc.

Close it by asking for her number so that you can call someone the next time you're bewildered by free-range chocolate bars and that you in no way intend to ask her out.

EDIT: if you want to feel even safer, talk to one of the very lovely ladies who work there. Because 90% of your conversation is about the products and philosophies behind them, she likely won't feel like she's taking up work time to talk to you. She is working. Advantage is that you literally can't be anxious about opening her. Disadvantage is that you'll have a greater level of professional-niceness to penetrate/read through.

EDIT 2: Unless you manage to very deftly find out if she's single before asking for her number, that is where you might get blindsided by the boyfriend line (you shouldn't have approached a woman with a ring to begin with). If she does, you turn it on her instantly. "Whoa, we barely know each other....I definitely said I don't want to ask you out." in a playful way. If it was a shit test, this might get past it. If she's telling the truth, tell her its totally ok, you'll just have to find a new tour guide/etc next time and thank you so much for helping me out." Because, of course, it was only ever about the food, right?

SmokestackSlattery · 2014-08-07T13:05:16+00:00

If you live in a city where there are lots of tourists, then approach people who are looking confusedly at maps and help them out. That should get you started at talking to strangers, bound to be some hot tourists as well.

Title	I'm having trouble instigating the 'models' method of overcoming approach anxiety.
Author	Fuck_Dacts
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Comments	5
Date	August 7, 2014 10:29 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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