I have a question, and it's complicated. I got laid alot because I was the shit at my old school and because I was confident, but I transferred to a new school as a sophomore and I'm having a harder time making friends, this school is larger. At my old school, I had mutual friends from HS that I branched out from, but at this school I have one mutual friend and he is very introverted and doesn't know anyone.

I also had a floor that was very friendly last year but this year everyone on our floor keeps to themselves and doesn't talk to anyone and keeps their doors closed. I joined a frat but it's kind of cliquey and I don't get invited to parties (or have as many friends) nearly as much as I used to. In fact, I just realized that everyone who pledged knew someone in the frat and the only people that I'm friends with are the pledges who don't know anyone in the frat (and aren't as social for some reason, that's shitty haha)

I'm thinking about joining clubs next semester ( I thought the frat would be enough...) what else should I do to expand my circle? The building I live in nobody keeps their doors open and noone chills unlike other dorms so it's reaaaaly hard to make friends on my floor. I invite people out to eat and ask them to chill but they're always busy, when I was extremely popular at my old smaller school I would chill with anyone who texted me; I guess it's not reciprocated here haha! now that you guys have the background details, where do I go from here?

I've only been getting consistently laid by some girl who I invited to eat with me in the begining of the semester, other than that, I've only hooked up with two people here. I know I have more potential: where do I go from here?