I’m tired of getting ghosted

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sentientsea · 2024-05-22T04:15:58+00:00

Happens to me a lot now as well. Too many men are too accessible and girls are too flighty. The excitement of meeting someone new is always greater than a known quantity and if they keep getting served new people day in and out, it's always available. Also, hate to say it but the massive increase in female narcissism could also be the culprit.

Lakedrip · 2024-05-22T03:31:30+00:00

Nuts. I’ve learned going all in sexual vibes got better results only if it feels natural in the moment. Like I rather just have the girl associate me with sex. Maybe not better women but who knows. Most of these girls are all playing field and slutting it up thanks to social media.

The times i balance it out with sexual and funny, and coy, is fine as well. Just bring it back to im a sex object to her without saying it. More importantly, when I’m not sure of my self (maybe I’m not in the moment, and I’m thinking about something else, “that guy keeps trying to cock block” or thinking about how to get her home while on the dance floor. ) Sometimes it doesn’t end well.

The two that come to mind were in work outings where one, it was a coworker and the other just random local at a bar during a work outing. I think it got to my head that my other coworkers were watching me, so that took me out of be comfortable in the moment with the girl.

I think about it a lot. What did i do wrong. With the local girl, i had already isolated her, made out separate times around this bar (multiple floors, big place) then lingered around the karaoke floor, I got the work buddies and work people who i barley know watching us grind on the dance floor. Idk. The the girls like let’s sing. I put our name down, doesn’t get called cause last song is already happening. And we should of just left to my spot wayyyy earlier.

I still remember her aunt who was with her and said to take care of her I trust you. Then 1.5hr later, the girl is saying sorry I got to go while her aunt is in the background. Dropped the bag.

You need to be comfortable in the moment, whatever is happening. Be sure of your self. I don’t know how to better explain that bit. Go with flow is cliche. Sounds lazy.

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Title	I’m tired of getting ghosted
Author	EdUNC-
Upvotes	4
Comments	3
Date	May 22, 2024 2:46 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1cxpyim/im_tired_of_getting_ghosted/
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