First I want to say thank you seddit. The goldmine of information in this sub has really helped me develop who I am and understand the dynamics of social interaction. Anyways, on to the important shit.

To start let me give you a little backstory. Yesterday, the first day of biology class, I spotted a cute HB8 blond in the very back all by her lonesome. I walk over to her and sit down, talk to her, tease her a bit but it ends up going nowhere, as she's too fucking entranced by her facebook messages or whatever it is that is so distracting on her computer. Or hell, maybe my devilish good looks made her nervous. Who knows. In the end though, I didn't see enough attraction for it to be worth trying to force a number out of her (maybe a mistake? Idk).

Today I was determined to make something happen. As I stood outside the Biology building waiting for the crowd of students to disperse so we could enter, the usual AFC thoughts take over. And of course, the more I think about it the worse it becomes. I'm standing in this huge crowd of people trying to convince myself to strike up a conversation with at least one of the girls waiting out there with me. Shit, even a guy. I just needed some sort of interaction, something to help get me "in state" and away from the merciless bitch that is approach anxiety. I decided to wait until I was inside to make my move. I walked into my 250 person class and saw her, a very cute HB7 brunette once again sitting in the back alone. I actually said "Fuck it" (I'm cool, I know) to myself and walked over to her. As soon as I get there she is putting her backpack in the seat i was about to take at the end of the row. Awkward right?

Her: She looks up and says -"Oh were you about to sit here?"

Me:"Yeah, I can take this one though", as i sit in the one on the other side of her

Her:"Sorry, I have work soon so i need to leave early"

Me: "Haha, thats ok(probably should have teased her here for making me move). Where do you work?"

Her:"I work at -----, It's 45 minutes away in ----"

  • We talk a bit about her job, nothing important really, then she brings up how she has taken this class before

Her: "Yeah, I took this class last semester and made a C so I'm taking it again."

Me: "That sucks, I'm not much of a biology person myself, I'm much better at chemistry."

Her:"Me too! I love chemistry!"

Me: "Haha, I wouldnt say I LOVE chemistry, thats going a little far."(slight teasing?)

  • at this point we get pre-quizzes from the teacher to test where we stand or some shit

Me: after we both answer a few questions, "Do you know any of this?"

Her: "No, not really. you?"

Me:"No, you're the one who's taken this class! I can't believe this, I sat by you because you looked smart!" (shit eating grin)

Her: Laughing pretty hard at this point "I told you, I didn't pay attention!!"(qualifying herself?)

  • we finish the quiz and the teacher begins to lecture. we have a little small talk every now and then and pay attention for a bit

  • she pulls out her phone and begins texting or facebooking or whatever and I joke with her

Me: "You wonder why you got a C in this class."

Her: laughs and blushes "It's so boring, I can't help it!"

Me: "Yeah I know, its ok though i looked her up on rate my professor and she's the easiest one by far." This makes her laugh and we talk a little about how hard he last professor was.

  • a little more small talk and eventually class ends and I hand her my phone with the new number screen open (thanks for that one seddit) and say "You're going to need someone to teach you biology" with a smile (making it seem like it's in her best interest? what would you call that?). She looks surprised but enters her number sure enough and off we go.

-About an hour after class I text her "hey, you're going to need this humber when you realize you forgot about our first bio test because you were too busy looking at your phone haha" (that seems stupid as shit now, but whatever)

Good: Eye contact- I used it. Try to keep steady eye contact for a lot of your conversation. Don't be afraid of seeming creepy or anything. As long as you're smiling, all it shows is confidence.

Teasing- I made her qualify herself with the jokes and teasing. This isn't insulting, this is teasing. Teasing is everything. It makes you look fun, makes her qualify herself, but most importantly make you look very alpha. (you're not constantly asking her interview questions, agreeing with everything she says, and feeding her compliments like most AFCs). You stand out from most every other guy and demonstrate your detachment from the outcome. This detachment gives you value, don't underestimate it.

Conversation- outside of the teasing, we did have some decent conversation (as much as you can in class) with which i tried to involve humor as much as i could. You want to keep her laughing. Just do anything other than the boring shit guys do and say to her on a daily basis.

Context texting- try and tease her about something that you can later text her about. It almost always ensures that she will answer.

Bad -text game could use a little work for sure -should've probably kino'd more and somehow tried to lead the conversation into a more sexual arena but I'm not entirely sure how that would work in class

Any tips would be appreciated. If I need to clarify anything, just let me know.

Hope this helps!

TLDR- Bitched out the first day. Got HB7's number the second. Just read it.