since i'm a shy guy to begin with, is there any way avoiding certain girls, especially the ones you are very into, can be used as a form of game itself? i'm in college, these are in particular a couple girls i knew briefly in the past but i realized i needed to set a new foundation if i wanted a shot with them. i'll do shit like either pretend to not see her, or make extremely brief but intense eye contact ...i think this is very advanced level though since it is basically done without speaking and entirely by fine tuning your body language. posture makes such a big difference....if i have shitty posture walking down the street no one bats an eye....if my posture is good and my eyes are up i notice the girls driving by checkin me out.

the thing is, i have found that TOO much interaction with the very hot, very alpha, knows-shes-pretty girls is what can sink your ship. if you are trying to get close to her but just fill the dialogue with bullshit filler without having any substance or impact, you will fail by corrupting your formerly clean slate with her. so for now...i'm thinking of trying out just haunting the periphery and working on ways to increase or inject tension