I'm a tad older than a lot of folks here, also I don't drink. I'm looking for venues where I can have a lot of potential targets, relatively low social pressure, and get the opportunity to desensitize.

I'm considering trying to get a wingman. That may help, on the other hand, it may just make me more dependent on them and it may backfire. Maybe a dance club? What do you guys think about taking the plunge and just signing up for a singles event of some kind (got a few of those in the area I live in)... ? Anyways thanks.