For the longest time in my life, I refused to admit that I needed ANY help.
✅ Business❓ Pffft I already know EVERYTHING
✅ Fitness❓ Pffft I already know EVERYTHING
✅ Women❓Pffft I already know EVERYTHING
The "I don't need help I already got this" delayed my progress.
I would tell people I was doing better in all those 3 areas than I actually was. Even if I wasn't able to get a date I'd lie to friends (and to myself) that I had recently gotten laid.
Why?
Because I felt embarrassed to say that I didn't know something.
For some reason we are expected to just KNOW things.
Especially in our dating lives do any of the following give us good advice?
Our parents? ❌
Our friends? ❌
Teachers? ❌
Society? ❌
Movies? ❌
NOPE! We're supposed to just figure it out.
The day I decided it was ok to ask for help, was the day that I finally started learning.
I started looking at mentors who were doing well in their dating lives.
I reached out and asked them for help!
I asked them questions, I implemented what they taught me and then I would try and test out my own things.
The result?
I was getting results. I was getting dates.
I attribute my successful dating life to 2 things.
1.) Asking for help.
2.) Implementing the advice.
On your journey your ego will try to get the better of you.
Don't let it.
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The day I dropped my ego and reached out for help, was the day I started exponentially growing. Don't be embarrassed. Reach out & ask for help when you need it.
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