There's a short cut to having success with women, and no it's not what most people preach. This doesn't even require you to go to the gym, work on yourself, or go to bars (not that these things aren't important.
First off, just take a look at most people. Who do they hang out with? That 1 friend from highschool, maybe 2 coworkers, and then a friend of a friend who is now our friend. Most people are content with this and don't really venture further than that.
As a kid making friends is easy. "Hey want to be friends?" "Fuck Yea!" (not actual words of an 8 year old. As an adult we take what we get, and don't really work on growing that. Having a good social circle is one of the most underrated things adults don't focus on. If you had a strong social circle, 5 guys 5 girls even, where every other weekend you all went out and did something, be it karaoke, going to a bar, rock climbing, anything really. You tell everyone to bring a friend along, then a few things happen.
1.) You have an awesome group that always wants to do fun stuff.
2.) There's potentially someone there you have chemistry with OR they bring someone else who you connect with.
3.) People on the outside want to be part of this fun tribe you've created.
So if you're feeling a little frustrated, and you don't have an awesome dating life, or aren't having that much fun in life in general. Start by taking a good strong look at your social circle.
Quick Tip:
To build your own awesome group. Go to a meetup/ facebook event/ networking event and introduce yourself to people with the sole purpose of making friends.T hen invite them all to an event you're hosting. Be it a house party, karaoke, or even an out door day event.
Take the initiative and be proactive.
( P.S I'm part of an awesome facebook community where we discuss dating and self development tips. Feel free to join, ask questions or even give advice to someone else who has a question https://www.facebook.com/groups/moaforum )
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