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Fake.
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:27 AM
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Russel Brand always had some crazy charisma, but I dont really think one could emulate him
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:31 AM
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Jeez that’s an insane situation!
/r/seduction26/10/22 01:55 AM
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I did about a month back, then out of nowhere I got a phone call saying they just weren’t that into it. We’ve been friends for a few years and decided to try it but she never really gave me a chance 🤷‍♂️ on to the next
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:58 PM
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Dude I’m on your level! Sex is great and all but fuck a good partner to enjoy their friendship would be nice. Haven’t had a gf in like 2 years.
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:47 PM
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No chance you’re not going to see sex in your future. I find the older I get the more experience I gain and the easier it is to put myself in a situation where sex is on the table. Just keep practicing your game and putting yourself out there. Find what works and what doesn’t and learn along the way. 25M, 30 notches
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:42 PM
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This is the only advice you need to read. I’d say your biggest fuck up was when she didn’t want to leave you. Not sure what time it was but if this was an evening date she literally wanted to go to your place and you just sent her home 😆
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:48 PM
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Wow these guys are absolutely not helping you on this. I’d say yes but to a point. They see you as more of a challenge. You’re not an open book and they portray you as whatever their imagination can come up with because of the mysteriousness. It makes you more intriguing and in turn makes them want to find out what you’re all about. If you’re just playing the mysterious vibes they will figure that out the second you slip. They always do so don’t be overly mysterious but let them get to know you …
/r/seduction14/09/22 06:50 AM
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I had sex at 17 with my girlfriend, I don’t consider it a milestone. It was sloppy but fun. We were learning. When you get there you’ll have to learn too, it won’t be any different at a later age except maybe your partner will be more comfortable and communicative with you which will actually help you. I’m 25 now, have 30 notches and now pretty much just look for actual connection rather than hookups like I did in my younger years 18-22. I used to see every 10 girls as a milestone. I’ve learned …
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:07 AM
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Lmao came here to read about getting laid at a club. Making out with girls while dancing is easy, it’s getting past that that’s the hard part. I don’t consider making out “hooking up”
/r/seduction08/09/22 02:24 PM
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From my experience, the best hook ups are friends of friends. It’s a often a new connection who feels comfortable around you because of the social proof created by having a good mutual friend. If I hit it off with a friend of a friend I usually flirt a bit then grab there number and set up a date at a later time unless it’s at a party or bar and you have the option to escalate to the bedroom or your place. Strangers I find extremely hard to pull from bars and night clubs because they don’t reall…
/r/seduction07/09/22 06:33 PM
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Hahaha fair bro, just gotta figure it it like the rest of us have. Good luck!
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:43 PM
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Thigh, legs and hands? What kind of little bitch gave you this info. You wanna physically turn a girl on you have to get to these much more intimate spots. Neck, lips, nipples and clit. You’re not going to turn anyone on by touching there hand.
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:37 PM
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OP doesn’t even know what the clit is yet
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:31 PM
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Women can smell a fake like your friend from a mile away. Keep doing what you’re doing and there will be success in your future!
/r/seduction25/08/22 08:52 PM
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This 100%
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:31 AM
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Three dates sheesh, I haven’t had a first date without a kiss since high school. You guys play a slow game!
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:56 PM
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Canada
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:03 PM
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Swing dance
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:01 PM
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Thank you
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:11 AM
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Definitely agree with this. This is the best route to take. On another note nice work making the move. You would have been friend zoned 100% if you hadn’t. Now she at least looks at you as a possible option for dating.
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:07 AM
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The absolute best way I’ve found for me is dancing. If you’re good or fun to dance with you can escalate extremely quickly. Personally I swing dance with girls even in tight areas and they love it. If you learn the moves you’ll have a blast and so will she. At that point all you have to do is pull her in close and go for the kiss.
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:02 AM
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As a Canadian i can honestly tell you this is a very rare occurrence hahaha In my 30+ I’ve had this happen maybe once or twice
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:19 PM
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What’s an Avn?
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:30 PM
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Yes it was
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:48 AM
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You clearly have no good buddies…
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:29 PM
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So true, they have no clue what they actually want
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:25 PM
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Definitely agree
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:41 PM
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Chances are you’ve already entered the friend zone if you’re speaking like this and I’d assume you’re pretty young. You may think you love her because you’ve never felt that way about someone before but with more experience in dating you’ll find out what love is. Play it cool. Don’t go and tell her you love her. Ask her on a date or to do something one on one without any friends around. If she accepts, on the date start slow with something like asking if you can hold her hand. See where it goes …
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:26 AM
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Some of the features are super helpful and the algorithm loves you when you pay. One of the best features is choosing to be shown to the girls you’ve already right swiped on imo Switching to platinum I went from about 25 matches to 80 in the small town that I’m in and surrounding ones and the odd trip to the city which is about 300k people
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:00 AM
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Sounds like someone needs to get laid but is having a hard time with that attitude 😬
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:11 AM
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Kinda hard with a long time friend when new feelings come up like this. She was obviously having second thoughts
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:09 AM
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Did all that when we were on the dock but I feel like by the time we made it back to bed she was unsure
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:08 AM
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I totally agree and next time this is going to happen
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:07 AM
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You know, you can’t always be so negative when you weren’t in the situation. She called me out of the blue yesterday just to ask me to head back there this weekend
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:07 AM
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Haha nah mate you got it all wrong, we both have pretty wild personalities and find things like skinny dipping to be a good time even when we’re just friends. You should try it sometime, me and my friends go all the time.
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:04 AM
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I totally agree and that’s the way I’m viewing it! She even called me out of the blue which she never does just to ask me if I wanted to come back this weekend 🤷‍♂️ I’d say it’s a pretty good sign
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:02 AM
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Yes I totally agree
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:30 PM
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I feel like this is the most reasonable comment based on how the emotions were that night! She invited me back out to the lake this weekend probably to see where things go. I’ll ask her how she feels about the way things are going, say that I’m enjoying it and want to see where it could go if we did start dating. So glad there’s ladies like yourself here to answer these questions and help us guys out!
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:27 PM
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Lmao I hope not 😆
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:11 PM
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I think you’re totally right on this one. Probably just didn’t build up enough intimacy for it to get me there. I haven’t studied this stuff like it seems you have haha. I was just hoping someone could point me in the direction of where I went wrong so I could look into it! Thank you for that!
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:07 AM
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Worth a shot!
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:04 AM
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Just didn’t move. We’ve been friends for a long time and I didn’t want to make the situation uncomfortable so I chose to stop before I was told to.
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:03 AM
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Lmao I hope he doesn’t use math lingo in his game
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:46 AM
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That’s it? And you’re settling down already
/r/seduction25/07/22 04:09 AM
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Lmao doesn’t matter what beach you go to mate, the signs are there all you had to do was escalate the situation. Look her deep in the eyes during a moment of silence in conversation and lean in for the kiss. Easy as that
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:52 AM
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As a guy who’s body count is in the upper 20s I’d have no problem with 8 and might even consider you inexperienced. If that number was in the 50s+ I’d have some concern but everyone is different and sees life differently. Don’t be ashamed of 8.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/22 05:11 PM
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Not worth the watch since it’s just about what everyone on this sub posts about. CONFIDENCE
/r/seduction27/01/20 02:48 AM
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I actually find the M3 method works fairly well like you said. The 4-7 hour rule has a lot of truth behind it
/r/seduction22/01/20 08:06 PM
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Everyone has their own opinions, I’m not going to judge yours.
/r/seduction17/01/20 08:20 PM
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Lmao I’m a guy, but I understand how you got that mixed up. When you do this though you’re using your sexual power against him. He will not respond well after 2-3 dates without sex if he’s not interested in what you’ve got to offer.(just looking for sex)
/r/seduction17/01/20 03:35 PM
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No this actually happens
/r/seduction17/01/20 02:45 AM
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I use this rule. I make the moves usually by the second date sex happens and if it doesn’t happen on the third I have a hard time seeing her putting out because I will have made my advances more than once. She’ll usually have an ulterior motive like trading sex for a relationship or these odd jobs like you have said.
/r/seduction17/01/20 02:45 AM
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Wow this sounds like some witchcraft to me right now but maybe I’ll have to try it Hahahaha
/r/seduction09/01/20 05:07 PM
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Couldn’t agree more but I wish it wasn’t so hard to introduce new people to a new social circle. Everyone has to mesh together properly, you can’t just force things like this together.
/r/seduction09/01/20 04:32 PM
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This just means you aren’t escalating enough and making things sexual. Focus on kino before the end of the date.
/r/seduction09/01/20 10:20 AM
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I too would like to know if anyone succeeds this way
/r/seduction09/01/20 05:47 AM
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I find it’s not about the number of dates but the number of hours spent together. I go by mystery’s age old example of 4-7 hours. It’s pretty accurate. 4-7 hours gives enough time to build comfort and keep them coming back without regretting it.
/r/seduction09/01/20 05:43 AM
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Haha not sure these little things are good
/r/seduction30/12/19 04:41 AM
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Kinda need more than 2 people for it though...
/r/seduction30/12/19 04:38 AM
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Yeah it’s a tough one because it’s possible that you want something more from her than she’s willing to give. If you push your needyness on her she’ll probably ghost and regret the decision she made. Play it cool give it some time and act like nothing happened
/r/seduction26/12/19 04:23 PM
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Okay so as a girl you’re going to have to almost play game the opposite of how we play game to find a relationship like you’re looking for. Most guys are looking for sex and when you give them what they want before showing your true colours they will break it off with you because the challenge is gone and the conquest is over. (Sounds harsh but it’s true). To keep a guy make sure you refrain from sex for a few dates but don’t make him think you’re impossible.(if I’m not super interested and sex …
/r/seduction26/12/19 09:41 AM
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Main IOI’s Kino: extremely obvious when you can escalate and also receive physical escalation from your target. Keeps the conversation running: signals she doesn’t want it to end if you leave pauses or she starts asking intimate questions. Strong gazing eye contact, licking lips, fidgeting, higher tonality and (my favourite) the hair twirl and flip ;)
/r/seduction26/12/19 09:28 AM
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This is exactly it. Also if it ends up being the second one, one usually gets attached and crumbles the relationship/ makes it uncomfortable.
/r/seduction26/12/19 09:22 AM
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Okay just going to let you in on a couple tips friend. You should know your limits when drinking. If you’re a lightweight keep it to about 2-3 max. You don’t want to be drunk. You sound like you have the mindset this is going to come quick and easy just by having a few drinks and going to a bar. I can almost guarantee that it will not. Going out solo will take some practice. I’m working on it myself rn and it’s a struggle. When you do meet a cool chick game her pants off and report back to us 😉
/r/seduction17/12/19 09:16 AM
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Haha this war never ends
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:25 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:24 PM
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Thank you for this. I think you might be right about switching up the venue. Even if it’s just until I progress further!
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:24 PM
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Rip to this soldier
/r/seduction15/12/19 11:07 AM
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Done deal will report back
/r/seduction15/12/19 08:34 AM
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Head straight to the bingo hall
/r/seduction14/12/19 08:10 AM
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That’s the spirit!
/r/seduction14/12/19 04:34 AM
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Todd is actually a great pua it looks to me like he was just trying to stay in set for as long as he possibly could
/r/seduction14/12/19 04:16 AM
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Anyone can do it, we all suffer the dreaded approach anxiety that you say is stopping you. Your appearance may set you back short term but working on your conversation will help you big time long term. IMO: don’t wait, start ASAP and shoot your shot. It’ll suck until you get some positive momentum but it’s worth it.
/r/seduction14/12/19 04:06 AM
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I think this is reference to Neil Strauss aka Style. He wrote “The Game”
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:57 AM
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I definitely am hung up on the idea. Good for you being older and still juggling man
/r/seduction02/12/19 01:49 AM
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I remembered this method afterwards! Would have been a good play!
/r/seduction01/12/19 06:13 PM
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Thanks man, I needed this
/r/seduction01/12/19 06:12 PM
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Definitely agree but, I do feel if I played it different this could’ve happened fairly easily.
/r/seduction01/12/19 02:37 PM
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The longest of rides
/r/seduction01/12/19 02:35 PM
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Nothing was more exhilarating than the final mission of halo 3 jumping off the halo into the pelican
/r/seduction25/11/19 08:05 AM
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I still have nightmares about the flood
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:50 AM
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This helped me almost immediately. Thank you very much! I have a date tomorrow morning!
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:20 PM
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This meme is seduction related my friend
/r/seduction23/10/19 10:31 PM
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Neil Strauss
/r/seduction27/09/19 05:27 AM
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Okay listen up, I’ve been in your situation. It is so hard to do but this will work wonders for you. The first step is to delete her off of everything which essentially wipes her from your life. Don’t just block her, delete the contact. Unfollow and block on insta. Remove her as a friend on Facebook. Doing so will basically force you to give up communication and fantasy with her. After this is done, you’re already in the right place. Study up on some new techniques and get out there! Approach so…
/r/seduction25/09/19 07:00 AM
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This is a sick scene! Good share!
/r/seduction25/09/19 06:28 AM
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This is inspirational man. Thank you! Props on the three way this story is nuts!
/r/seduction14/07/19 05:06 AM
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I second this. Sounds like she wants more.
/r/seduction10/07/19 02:35 PM
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Or pursue and see what comes of it. It’s up to you man. You can always pursue and keep steady with your approaches and working on your game. There’s nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction06/07/19 08:09 AM
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Well that’s the tough part about it. Not every woman can be trusted but one you find a good one they won’t put you in those shitty situations
/r/seduction06/07/19 08:02 AM
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Man you don’t have to use women solely for sex. They can be your friends too, they are human after all. You sound narcissistic and that’s not a good thing, give her some validation and hang out with her if you want. Don’t push away just because you’ve read time and time again that you need to have the “scarcity mindset”. Do what makes you happy
/r/seduction06/07/19 07:59 AM
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Nice work man, these are the field reports I like to read. You’re confident but just need to tweak your game to get them invested more it sounds like! Well done :)
/r/seduction06/07/19 07:53 AM
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This is a good start! Oneitis is hard to overcome it took me months and I was still talking to and seeing other girls 😬
/r/seduction06/07/19 07:47 AM
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There is no ideal personality, every girl is going to like something a little different. Find one that likes you for you. You’d never be able to keep a relationship with a chick if you’re faking your personality.
/r/seduction24/06/19 02:43 PM
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Comfortable*
/r/seduction11/06/19 04:41 AM
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I notice how much you put yourself down based on your looks and just this perception of yourself could be why nobody considers you datable. You shouldn’t be so caught up with looks, if someone generally enjoys your personality and you know how to move past basic small talk and onto flirting with success you have a chance with them. Another thing, have you actually asked any of these women to go on a date or are you waiting for them to initiate everything??
/r/seduction10/06/19 11:46 AM
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This doesn’t have anything to do with being good looking to women. This is about gaining confidence through cold approaches. With the confidence you will become more attractive. The way you put it, it sounds like you have an extreme lack of confidence if you consider yourself undateable to anyone because of your looks. The truth is, it’s not just about looks and you probably lack personality on top of looks. Improve yourself.
/r/seduction10/06/19 11:24 AM
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Thank you for this! You reminded me of some old habits I unfortunately forgot about.
/r/seduction06/06/19 09:34 PM
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This technique does work well because it signals the intent of wanting to kiss her when you look at her lips as well the deep eye contact sends very strong signals of interest towards her. You can also notice she wants to be kissed if she’s looking at your lips. It’s the subtle things ;)
/r/seduction24/05/19 04:17 AM
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Anyone else stop reading because of bad grammar? :(
/r/seduction24/05/19 04:01 AM
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Be careful with these ones, many girls do this just to f*** with us and aren’t actually going to put out. They get satisfaction from it.
/r/seduction22/04/19 04:43 PM
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Bro that’s awesome! Well done, keep it up. I’m on my own journey to this success right now!
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:36 AM
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I mean there is one advantage to going out to these places and that’s that women dress them selves up and sort of want to be approached so don’t get discouraged. You just have to learn have to game it.
/r/seduction24/02/19 05:23 PM
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The bar/clubs in a big picture are essentially exactly what you said. The reason they’re so popular is because there is an abundance of women.
/r/seduction24/02/19 05:08 PM
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Solid post op I’m going to try this as I currently have a problem with flakes rn
/r/seduction22/02/19 02:23 AM
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Damn that’s awesome 👏
/r/seduction30/12/18 12:51 AM
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How did you manage to get yourself into this sweet party! It sounds great op very well done 😊
/r/seduction30/12/18 12:28 AM
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This post says it
/r/seduction11/12/18 08:07 AM
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This man has balls
/r/seduction11/12/18 08:03 AM
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Much oneitis
/r/seduction04/12/18 06:25 PM
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Hahaha absolutely savage, I love it!
/r/seduction03/12/18 07:07 PM
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If I listen to her and wait I’m going to end up having 5 dates and a girlfriend out of her. Not what I want thanks 🙏 why are you even in seddit
/r/seduction03/12/18 12:38 PM
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Thank you sir that helped me!
/r/seduction03/12/18 12:34 PM
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I especially like the part where you suggest just being an idiot because like you said you’re in control and you can choose when to end the interaction. Good tactics.
/r/seduction02/12/18 09:16 PM
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Man you’re going to have to get risky and find a park or a private place like a rooftop or something if you’ve got nowhere to go! These are honestly my favourite, the thrill of getting caught makes for so much excitement.
/r/seduction02/12/18 09:10 PM
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Go and approach with no expectation of anything coming from it. Confidence will be gained when you meet someone interested in you. With confidence comes attraction.
/r/seduction02/12/18 09:06 PM
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Do you speak to women with that grammar?
/r/seduction02/12/18 12:27 AM
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I would suggest building you’re confidence. There is a tonne of great posts on here you just have to look! Learn some pua tactics for approaching women or groups and how to keep them interested in you. YouTube is also great for seeing how people do it. Search for “infield pickup” and try their techniques. Start getting in shape and eating healthy. This takes a tonne of effort but the reward is worth it! You’re never too far gone, don’t doubt yourself just work at becoming a better you :)
/r/seduction02/12/18 12:23 AM
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Quality post OP. Going to try and incorporate some of this into my game 👍
/r/seduction27/11/18 08:13 AM
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Hey man thanks for the reply I’m 21 and she’s 20. I am so glad you pointed out that she may be inexperienced. It never even crossed my mind and I believe this could be the reasoning behind the night or possibly that she’s caught up on something else. But either way it’s all in good fun 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction27/11/18 05:32 AM
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