If you decide to give and she doesn't take, stop giving.

But don't take from her.

There's value in You, there's value in your kiss, there's value in your touch.

Give her samples of you and if she's only neutral, stop giving and make her come back if she wants more.

Make her chase. Don't do the chasing.

This takes a lot of pressure off of you and puts you at ease with the whole seduction thing. You simply throw bates and watch what catches.

If no one takes, perhaps you have to build more value.

Increase your value baseline that "unlocks" higher tiers of women, makes them easier for you to seduce.

I'm not putting beautiful women on a pedestal here. I'm just saying that the less you have to offer, the more work you have to put in and the more exhausting will keeping a relationship be. More difficult the shittests (exhausting to a newbie), more competition.

Work out, spend time on your hobbies, take care of your bros, build a community, organize events. Stop fapping, build energy, consume less, create more. Build value. Share, give.

It's more worthwhile in the long run. When people say "the women will start coming", they mean "suddenly you will start catching more and more women's attention by just being. And some of them will be more beautiful than you're used to.

I'm not saying wait until some point in the future when you grow and seduce then.

Keep seducing, go for the approach when you see a hot one, but be aware of your current value and be realistic at what you can achieve at this point in time. Be real on what you can afford.

But don't feel bad if you get rejected. Sometimes it's incompatibility, sometimes she might have things going on. Stop being angry about rejection. Perhaps you're not just ready for her, and that's okay. It's motivation to grow. Hard work pays off. Part of why we work hard is to have access to top tier women more easily.

Chill out about the whole seduction thing. Do you.

At some point you won't be the fisherman, you will become the bait itself.