Gaining attraction from a female you are interested in won't work every time. Understanding girls is like learning a new instrument. You can't pick up an instrument and play any song you want. The same.principle applies. It takes practice. I'm not an expert, I don't reel tail but I sure am proud of the friends and relationships I've built over the years. Here are a few tips to stop overthinking interactions, improvise, and stay normal.

1.) If you're attracted to girl and want to get closer with her, be friends with her! Fellas seriously, if she ends up being into you it'll happen naturally which is what you want anyway. You can never have too many female friends. 2.) If you think a girl is out of your league-wait you won't know until you try. If you follow the first step and she doesn't even show interested in being friends then congrats, you just saved yourself dead weight. 3.) I've heard this so many times but until I did it myself I didn't believe it. Stop thinking about what to say in a conversation. LISTEN with your ears not what your dick is telling you.

If I missed any other simple tips please add to the list! Hope I was of help :)