This is next level girl shit

Unfilteredclub · 2017-08-04T12:52:32+00:00

I had a similar problem. If she's continuing to give you attention it doesn't necessarily means she likes you but she is interested. My suggestion is invite other girls. Invite your boys and tell them to invite some friends with them! And instead of asking her just say what is going on and see if she will make it. Point is, don't single her out. Girls don't want to be the center of your attention they just want to be a part of something going on. Don't get trapped in that "oneitis" where you only think of this one girl. She may be terrific but she's just a girl. Men lead, so don't come at her with the "ball is in your court, you decide" approach. Be affirmative. A decision maker. Live by what you decide and she wants to be a part of it cool. If not, cool. See this is why girls date "assholes" or people that don't give a fuck. People that just do their thing anyway. It shows you are self driven. I know it's a bit much for a small question but it's important! Good luck!

ThePUA_Baddie · 2017-08-04T14:22:51+00:00

she's fucking around with you. she's probably a young girl, 18-20 age. these types of girls for the most part are still figuring out what they want. make the invite and then move on

fooku_fookme · 2017-08-04T16:23:38+00:00

stop validating her.

Go out and meet other women. Sounds like you're coming down with a case of oneitis

midnight_toker22 · 2017-08-04T14:40:00+00:00

You are being way too impatient dude. You just posted about this same damn thing a couple days ago, you texted her yesterday, and now you're freaking out because she hasn't responded yet.

Chill the fuck out. She got your message- she'll either respond or she won't. Nothing you can do to make her respond, and anything you try to do to force the issue is just going to turn her off.

Women are like cats. The harder you chase, the more they're going to run away.

iIIumi_naughty · 2017-08-04T16:28:37+00:00

My ex from a couple years back had a moment of honesty one day and she straight up told me "sometimes when I don't get attention from the guy i want it from, i seek it from other guys. I do all the tricks to get there attention (flirting) but I have zero intentions of hooking up or being friends". So to sum it up, she is just looking for attention and making sure her powers to gain attention are still there.

PreFrontalClarity · 2017-08-04T20:26:00+00:00

The #1 Rule in the game: Only focus on the girls who focus their time and energy on you. The girls who pick up when you call. that respond when you text.. that always say things like "you never call me" "youre always busy" .... the ones that show you that they're thinking about you.

the rest are hoes dude or don't care about the same shit you care about.. they don't have the same mindset of male/woman dynamics as you.. and shit wont go anywhere unless you put more effort in than they do..

Jack__Knife · 2017-08-04T13:00:12+00:00

Have more options than just her. Invite her sister, or any other random one million girls.

Doglin · 2017-08-04T16:09:23+00:00

Dude chill and forget her. Sounds like one of my girls on snap. Super into me... well at least she snaps that. But she'll never meet up. She's USING YOU FOR VALIDATION, they all are. Start having fun in groups, and then you'll be less-needy. Invite her to group things so she doesn't feel pressure. If she still doesn't go, then she's either too nervous to be real (warning sign, highly insecure) or just not interested in you. IN my personal case, she's def. into me, but too nervous to meet. She almost flaked in a group event that someone else setup and invited me to just because I was going. She avoided me the whole time with her gay best friend. I THINK she's into me- but I could be wrong- and she's just highly super insecure. NOT WORTH IT. Move on buddy

TheWaffleMan96 · 2017-08-04T17:42:24+00:00

I wanted to answer to one of the previous posters, and I dont think I can give some unique advice, all things considered you seem to handling it all well, but just to summarise:

a metaphor i am quite proud of, if I may say so myself

Live your life, do fun shit, enjoy it and treat girls as a topping to an already delicious meal. if its there, great, if not oh well the meal is already delicious. But remember, each topping is still different.

Zoidberg22 · 2017-08-04T16:01:07+00:00

Snapchat creates too much drama for my liking

sungho22 · 2017-08-04T16:29:53+00:00

I have a female friend of mine I met a few years ago that started to doing the same fucking thing since last year. Brother, if she continues to give you this BS, I recommend you to just ignore or even delete her on snapchat. I just began to ignore her on snap and I could tell she tries to get my attention to make me chase her. When she does this, just ignore her. Don't give in. Find another girl that actually values humility and respect.

DadOnDabs · 2017-08-05T01:42:43+00:00

She is shit testing you and making you an orbiter. Ignore her, invite other girls, post it all over your story. She had her chance and blew it.

pbgswd · 2017-08-04T17:26:14+00:00

a flake. next.

eightbic · 2017-08-04T19:46:15+00:00

So next level.

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2017-08-04T19:54:37+00:00

Invite other girls (even if they are just friends), take pics with you and these girls doing fun things, smiling, laughing, playing...post to social media so the first girl (or her friends) can see. Bingo.

SteveDaygame · 2017-08-04T20:09:10+00:00

didn't read the comments so someone might have mentioned it already but in case nobody did... some girls these days are literally addicted to texting and messaging and the attention / good feelings it provides MORE than they're into actually meeting up.

LaurenceB · 2017-08-04T20:40:59+00:00

Invite some friends, including other women. Don't invite her then post pics on Snapchat. Play the game, bro.

NeverLace · 2017-08-04T20:55:05+00:00

Next her.

zbf · 2017-08-04T14:59:00+00:00

Has she asked for an invited before being invited?

_valtiel_ · 2017-08-04T17:13:21+00:00

You need to realize people not just women are retarded at that age.

I'd like to live in a world where people do what they say they're gonna do or want to do because I personally keep my word and I wants to expect others to do the same

But that's not realistic, and selfish of me. So she says she wants to hangout, you ask her to chill, and she ignores your texts.

This speaks of her character. In short, she doesn't like you and you shouldnt like her for ghosting you.

Lizard008 · 2017-08-04T20:56:31+00:00

That's kinda harsh to say. This girl in particular has been tough to get over. We have history. We dated. We split for reasons unwanted but she had ptsd cause of rape before we dated. I'll save the details buy u get the jist

BirdGameCrazy · 2017-08-04T16:32:44+00:00

Ignore her and snap all your other friends at the lake. It may show your indifference.

Rock2Rock · 2017-08-04T20:58:58+00:00

Just send her a text mid afternoon on a Saturday with something like "We're out on the lake come by" Don't try to make plans ahead of time with her. Its shows your considerate enough to invite her (interested) but that your schedule doesn't bend to her.

Title	This is next level girl shit
Author	Lizard008
Upvotes	139
Comments	72
Date	August 4, 2017 12:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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