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Probably the most non-sensical question I saw on here...love it!
/r/seduction09/06/19 07:39 AM
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agree mostly, thanks for the advice
/r/seduction12/05/19 06:17 AM
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could you go into the detail on what I should do instead of 2-3? There are quite a bit of videos, so I just don't my spend time watching irrelevant to the situation material
/r/seduction12/05/19 06:17 AM
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Yeah you should do all of that... but it means nothing when it comes to talking to girls, unless you are in the extreme of those things. ​ Its the body language, its the ability to make her comfortable with you and being confident. Best tactics to use to grow your game immensely is to go out into the field while not pristinely dressed or groomed or shaven and approach. Cause when you do it usually and you look good you will have a much easier time. ​ Appearances matter to our self confidence onl…
/r/seduction16/04/19 08:28 AM
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Its interesting to me that you reject that "society is to blame", while being on the seddit forum, which is effectively a collection of posts with opposite to mainstream romance guide. I don't think the society is to blame per se, but society does cultivate nice guys who often end up being rejected. I am all for taking responsibility for ones life and actions, but thinking that "you are to blame for nearly any problem in your life" is again simply not true, cause life is often more complicated. …
/r/seduction18/02/19 06:57 AM
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Silence is not a bad thing. Be confident in being able to hold the silence. They feel pretty much the same. Talk about things which spike emotions. When she asks something don't give straight answer but say something what spikes her emotions, then say its a joke and go back to answering her original question. Stay away from resume questions. Where do you study, what do you for work, today I did.... Talk about things which require the use of imagination and presence in the conversation, rather th…
/r/seduction17/02/19 08:06 PM
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Hey! Whats up? *smile* Whats the best drink in this place?
/r/seduction17/02/19 08:01 PM
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Hey, I think in all that comments, just wanted to say that no matter others opinions, the main and best part is that hopefully you two are happy and everything going great) In the end friend zone and such terms are not real and just words some guys use to conceptualise what is going on with them. Everybody has their own definition. I for one don't agree with your thesis, but it doesn't make your personal experience invalid somehow.
/r/seduction17/02/19 07:59 PM
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Your choice to friendzone or not to friendzone. But the last part is blatantly not true. Being in the "zone" sucks because you have feelings for someone, and the way society tells you to express them is counterproductive to creating attraction in that other person. Many girls consciously know the guys they friendzone, just watch many interviews on youtube about that. And many guys have hope instilled in them by societal notion of courting someone and they wait, instead of often to just move on. …
/r/seduction17/02/19 07:51 PM
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Every time there is a post by a girl, its not that I disagree, its just I feel they fundamentally do not understand what we as guys have to go through when it comes to approaching, friend zones and etc.
/r/seduction17/02/19 04:30 PM
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Hard to hand out advice like that. Me personally, one day I just got tired of it self bashing one day. Next day was completely different.
/r/seduction11/02/19 09:05 AM
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APPROAAAAACH
/r/seduction11/02/19 08:59 AM
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I don't have a specific question. I was interested how is everyone else sees them. As for me, I dont rely on enviroment to talk as well. That said I do have certain dificulty becoming more physical without being awkward when walking because it feels forced to me. Also hard to establish eye contact. I try to make walks more interesting like making up activities such as photoshoots or whatnot.
/r/seduction10/02/19 06:01 PM
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don't sell yourself short
/r/seduction10/02/19 05:47 AM
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Just a response to guys not knowing where to find the girls. They are all around you, and even if you disagree with me, you can find your perfect ten literally anywhere and for the most part, anyhow.
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:03 AM
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Why would you feel ashamed? Its just a way to internalise. You can think of it as zooming out of a google map to like get a broader picture or whatever. Point is its all about your perspective. Like ZincMan said.
/r/seduction26/01/19 06:49 PM
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Well its not a trap mate, but yeah sure go ahead and use it
/r/seduction26/01/19 05:11 PM
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Make an artificial construct in your head - Date Doctor. Imagine he exists. Yes this sounds dopey, but bare with me. So you are at an impasse. Ask what the Date Doctor would say and do it. Dont think what would I do, but what would the cool guy who has all the answers do. PS: dumb question
/r/seduction26/01/19 03:43 PM
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Stop thinking about the line. Abundance is the best option by far. That said, say you are already in early stages of talking to a girl. She asks a question. Reply with a negative or a positive joke. Spike emotions. Then get back to logical conversation. This makes her interested. Then calibrate based on the girl. DOnt just talk to set up dates, this is an antiquated notion, as most of our conversations nowadays is through messages. She will just think you are weird to not actually talk to her an…
/r/seduction26/01/19 03:40 PM
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Recent strategy I been using. I get a match with a girl. If I super like it works surprisingly less effective, but still does nonetheless. Opener. "What are the three words which best describe you." She immediately gets invested to qualify herself, even if the conversation will not lead anywhere further. So you get "I am A,B and C" or a variation of thereof. If it is something close to her heart, you immediately get a combination of 4 emotional things you can get her to talk about and they all g…
/r/seduction26/01/19 03:31 PM
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paragraphs dude
/r/seduction25/01/19 01:27 PM
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its free access to a group on a messenger dude
/r/seduction18/01/19 04:12 AM
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Okay I here you. In this situation specifically you are saying better to just not do anything and move then or otherwise I enter the point where I devalue myself? EDIT: And she just texted me on her own again about some stuff. lol
/r/seduction10/01/19 01:40 PM
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Then why text independently later (a week or so) saying: (paraphrasing) "Hey I am in the city till X so we will still be able to see each other. " Or before that I asked about a place. Literally just what is the name of that place which I needed to get to and knew she was there. And she responds. "Oh its that, give me a couple of days we will go there together." I am confused and dont want to overthink. Thinking might as well drop a text and see from there, I am definitely not loosing anything.n…
/r/seduction10/01/19 01:02 PM
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We live in 21st century, having social media should be a given. It is not a choice but rather a fact of life in our world. ​ That said, we should all cultivate the ability to make new social circles and not give up like many do after college. where your social circles are maybe a hobby, work and couple of friends from before.
/r/seduction10/01/19 08:29 AM
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Well yeah, but she also texts me the dates she is in my city and says that we will meet without my initiation. Which,if courtesy, I find incredibly annoying.
/r/seduction10/01/19 08:13 AM
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Whatever is the case in your situation, I find it hard to believe that you cant do something with it to turn the things in your favor. If you wish for it to be so.
/r/seduction24/12/18 12:15 PM
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Why are you not capable of having a social circle/work? By "weirdo" I mean acting creepily next to the girl. This is a choice, frankly.
/r/seduction23/12/18 07:37 AM
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There is NOTHING wrong. With the society, with the girls and most importantly with us. At least in a sense of interpersonal relationships. I would argue philosophically there are certain... oddities in our society. If anything, we are gifted with two awesome things. Ability to share knowledge at light speed between many different corners of the world and be the best versions of ourselves when the whole collective experience of the world can be out experience and we can feed into it. Choice. More…
/r/seduction22/12/18 10:32 AM
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Drop her!
/r/seduction15/12/18 06:40 PM
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It feels like you are talking about your experience only. As you said, its important to understand the other side, which you only partially do. Men, especially now, find themselves in a tricky situation. The society skews towards women having it better. Men are ever more being misguided in approaching and interacting with women. Women, while physically frail and hence more protective of themselves, are often very bad in communicating their feelings. It was said once, that women can feel a larger…
/r/seduction11/12/18 10:01 PM
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First. Paragraph please. ​ Second. Its fine, just give her a little space. Sometimes when life gets in the way you may not have the time or be in the right mindset to answer the text. If she is a sensible human being she will answer it, just dont go round pulling your hair out cause she takes longer than usual.
/r/seduction09/12/18 09:32 PM
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Welcome to the internet, buddy)
/r/seduction08/08/18 06:45 PM
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Perhaps. I may need to improve on my writing more than anything, but dont invalidate my life experiences. Time may equal experience, or it may not.
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:27 AM
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Not native speaker and exhausted af. But yeah gotta put more thought other than ramble like I did.
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:23 AM
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Essentially.
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:22 AM
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thanks, I hope so. I will work on getting to abundant mentality
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:27 AM
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Never said I love her( kinda wondering what love is for the red pill society) and I agree that there is some obsession. I am pretty sure that like a little parasite eating a way. Just not sure how to get rid of it. I guess the problem I have is putting her on a pedestal and blaming myself for pushing her away. Which was not the case. But then again am I a horrible human being? Thats the damage she done as to make me self doubt. And I had girls since her and want to get back into dating game,, ju…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 09:04 AM
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You know what, its late where I am at but it seems we are arguing the same thing from different sides. My first post was putting what you said mildly anyway. Then again, I dont really understand the need to go for someone else if you have strong feelings for someone in question. But I get what you are saying. There are so many GIRLS, dudes each one of them is happy to meet you. Dont close yourself to one. Dont pledge your life to someone till its serious from both sides. Keep your mind open what…
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:56 PM
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No offence, but from how I was raised this is just wrong. What works for you, works for you, but let me explain my point of view. If you want to go and sleep around, and you meet this 9/10 girl. Yeah your method works. In the "go out" scene most people want to get laid and have sex. And its awesome when you get that. But I dont want a girl who sleeps around to be my girlfriend. And if I want the girl for dating, I will probably treat her with the same respect I expect back. Which I dont proclaim…
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:24 PM
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Well I think its a mindset which is highly exaggerated view of the reality. If you become needy and therefore pushy before she does, she may be rejected as it will feel like you are forcing yourself on her. If you actually give it sometime and dont obsess over that girl after your first meeting and let things evolve gradually, so that you pledge yourself to her only once it is reciprocated, then you will get your win. If it is not reciprocated, than tough luck. Not all people are meant to be a c…
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:55 PM
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Kind and true words, what do you mean by the last part though, your friends spending nice time together and you are alone?
/r/seduction11/02/18 04:43 PM
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Honestly I just never been in a situation where I had to snap out of thinking about someone. Rationally I know its not a good idea.
/r/seduction11/02/18 10:31 AM
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Ability to take responsibility for their actions, the rest is window dressing
/r/seduction31/01/18 12:05 PM
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I really need this to be voiced by CT Fletcher or Terry Crews, that'd motivational gold
/r/seduction16/01/18 10:02 PM
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I find it hilarious that most "macho" guys see the men in that book as the pinnacle of masculinity while there are so many homosexual undertones, so yeah I agree, this book unless thought about is very easy to misinterpret.
/r/seduction25/12/17 08:57 PM
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As is the amount of people who take any philosophy literally, its a book its fiction its very quotable its very "cool", but there are some truths to it. If not for the fact its based on established philosophical teachings, the state of society at the time and a real event which happened to Chuck Palahniuk and all of that deconstructed in his work.
/r/seduction25/12/17 08:18 PM
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Very cynic way of looking at conversation is that it is an exchange of value, you obviously have something you want from a girl, but put her on your place and ask what she wants. Maybe talk a little less, cut down on needless texts, smile a little more and live in the moment, no need to tell a girl about your tree cutting business when quite obviously she is not into that, but talking about somethings which resonate emotionally with you both will work. PS: I dont like looking cynically at it all…
/r/seduction25/12/17 06:12 PM
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Nice one Tyler)
/r/seduction25/12/17 06:10 PM
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Yeah... kinda reminds me of the last chapter of Niezche Zarathustra book. Paraphrasing it, it goes something along the lines where Zarathustra tells all his "padawans" that they need to forget everything they learned from him and go to find their own way. Honestly I just take all this information for consideration, and the rest I just go do me. So go out into the world and do you. Whatever feels right, something doesnt work dont come here for an immediate answer but try to autocorrect and so on …
/r/seduction06/08/17 04:27 AM
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Great analogy!
/r/seduction05/08/17 09:13 AM
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I wanted to answer to one of the previous posters, and I dont think I can give some unique advice, all things considered you seem to handling it all well, but just to summarise: a metaphor i am quite proud of, if I may say so myself Live your life, do fun shit, enjoy it and treat girls as a topping to an already delicious meal. if its there, great, if not oh well the meal is already delicious. But remember, each topping is still different.
/r/seduction04/08/17 05:42 PM
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"it's really shitty for the girl to think she had a friend who liked her for her and it turns out he was just friends cause he was infatuated with her" yeah that hurts their feelings so much... sure. Unless its your best friend who you been friends for years and one day you come up to her saying you want to date her, all of the sudden, yeah maybe.
/r/seduction04/08/17 01:55 PM
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Maybe dont invite her sister though, or you wont see that girl again probably;) Other million girl yeah sure.
/r/seduction04/08/17 01:50 PM
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