I've always had trouble escalating from normal conversation to actual flirting. How could i fix this problem?

Yodiax · 2019-01-07T08:36:35+00:00

No filters. Talk what is exactly in your thoughts. If you think she’s sexy, say it without hesitation.

At first, it may be unusual/weird and your vibe will not be on point. With time and experience, it will adjust properly and be extremely effective.

Say what you mean, be honest, be a man and even if she dislikes it, calibrate and go from there.

It’s better to be rejected for who you are, instead of for who you are not (same with successes).

Express your emotions as well which helps build a deeper genuine connection - if you feel nervous tell the girl that. You’d be surprised how insanely effective it is, and girls really appreciate it.

MuriloSoad · 2019-01-07T01:43:38+00:00

Good question, I have this problem too

nofapisfake · 2019-01-07T06:52:03+00:00

I’m reposting this on this sub cause it’s a great question and other people have this problem, including myself.

mr305pr · 2019-01-08T03:55:30+00:00

“Kino Escalation” you have to start touching the girl relatively quickly once you open her. Now by touching I mean not in a sexual way, but start putting your hand on her shoulder first for example (don’t leave it there for too long or it will be weird), after all, you are a “touchy guy”, then later maybe put your hand over her back etc etc, if you don’t touch from the beginning, it will feel weird to her that after a 30 minute conversation all of the sudden you “make a move”.

WrenchFriess · 2019-01-13T06:20:07+00:00

one problem might be that a lot of people are aware that you’ve been looking at milf and maid hentai

rata2ille · 2019-01-11T15:10:34+00:00

Try going outside and having a conversation with a real human woman for a change, that'll help

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Marvel2002 · 2019-01-07T08:36:07+00:00

You actually have to build sexual tension. Even if you talk about random stuff, keep a good eye contact and get close physically, you have plenty of ressources on this sub about it.

Title	I've always had trouble escalating from normal conversation to actual flirting. How could i fix this problem?
Author	hammerfan12
Upvotes	17
Comments	9
Date	January 7, 2019 1:09 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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