It's very likely that I'll be completely blasted for this, (if that's even the right word in 2019...) especially in this forum, but I've been vocal about what I perceive as a ton of "trickery" in what I see in groups like this. I joined to learn "seduction". Not how to get laid. Getting laid is the easy part when you just BE who the girls wants to be with.

https://preview.redd.it/z2zfm01knqr31.jpg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5782781d922ea46ff26fea2d5c3c402408d1512c

</sidebar>Granted, I see LOTS of you looking to overcome paralyzing shyness - I'm in your camp, my brothers - *fist in the air* </sidebar>

<rant>I'm married. and over time, I've begun to suck at keeping my wife horny for me. I know that i'll be happier and she'll be happier if I exercise that muscle a bit more. ...so Reddit has become a resource for me to re-parent my-self, and figure out all of the shit I never figured out in life because of short comings in a array of areas. </rant>

this meme says it perfectly, even if it's a hard truth to accept. A guy has an on and off switch. Usually switched on.

I am at a constant battle between letting the little head decide what I'm going to do today. I've let him run the show for too long.

</thoughtIWasThrough\_sorry>

Girls know that they can probaby get a yes with flashing a litle cleavage, a little leg... a smile. Shit. He took over again.

It's simpler than we think.

Trust me.

Listen to the women. They're telling us what they want. it's all about noticing. Just fucking listen.