Believe me, it's not that bad. In my case, it is actually a good feeling since I always ended up with girls that are into me and gave me obvious signals. I changed my view towards approaching women and realized that I need to get denied until it feels so natural and normal. I end up with girls that are mostly no good for me.

I messaged a girl from my Uni that I had a conversation with a few times. She is hot as hell and we flirted a bit when we met (maybe 3/4 times) . She didn't even respond and who even knows why, there could be a million reasons, and one of them could be that she don't really like me. Who cares, I don't feel discouraged, I feel great that I tried it with a really top girl.

There is also my language professor that teaches us at school of foreign languages. She works as a student since she is native speaker and after our semester ended, I asked her out because I will not go to that class anymore and I don't feel that it could get awkward. She told me she's sorry that she has a boyfriend. Again, a great feeling just because I would feel shitier for not trying than for getting denied.

Third case, I have this girl that I was chatting with for a month and we would meet to smoke some weed. I am not really into her but I realized that she is initiating so I started getting interested if maybe we could work something out casually. Last friday we smoked some, joked around, had fun and I asked her openly if she wanted to kiss because I felt some distance and could not just initiate. I was right, she told me that she is not ready because she broke up with her boyfriend just at the time when we started hanging (she initiated with hanging). Again, I don't really care because I tried and she has a pretty valid reason for not wanting anything. I respect that.

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It's like a whole different world to man up and approach a girl not knowing how she will respond. As you probably heard million times - you never know the reason why the girl is not interested in you in that exact moment.

I know that there are different types of guys on this subreddit, some are successful and just want to help others, some want to improve their game (me) and some are really bad and want to learn. If there are guys similar to me who want to change their game and start with action, just do it!