i realize this post isnt really the essence of seddit but id love to hear wise words.

i've been using seddit for a month or so and it's done wonders to my life. women have come and gone and i truly love the new me. however, these women have always gone only on my accord. for the first time i'm basically being rejected after two weeks of hooking up with this chick. we started hooking up while i was also seeing someone on her dorm floor and there was a kind of forbidden fruit effect that created mad sexual tension between us, but after 2 weeks (mind you, i stopped seeing said girl about 5 days in) everything has sort of died down. it culminated in her sending this text:

"Hey so this is rather awkward and I just didn't have the balls to say it before which is why I am taking the texting way out, anywho you are wonderful I am sure you know but I'm not really interested in hooking up because it just feels weird and all of that.

Also you are not allowed to stop being friends with me"

utter rejection. and i can't help but feel sad about it, i really had no idea i had feelings for her, but i'm the hopeless romantic type at heart i guess.

i don't think i want to make any attempt at getting her back, i mean we're in the same social circle kind of but that shouldn't be a big deal.

what i do want is advice on getting back on my feet for people in this type of situation... i can't be an alpha when i feel shitty like this.

i don't know if this adds for context or anything but without givin locations i'm on my gap year visiting a state far away from where i'm from and i come to Killmyselfthrowaway University every weekend to hangout with one of my best friends. i live and work near another major city in the same state on weekdays, but most of my social life exists here. -----quick tip: simply being from another state is a really attractive DHV, girls seem to love a guy with a long backstory rather than "oh i'm just another student (or ___________) from this university (or whatever is the most common thing to be in your setting). ALWAYS game when traveling if not all the time!-------- Part of the loss of attraction was the fact that for the next 5 days after hooking up, i was limited to texting game. I HATE NOT TEXTING BACK RIGHT AWAY, SO HARD TO RESIST WHEN YOU KNOW YOU COULD JUST RESPOND RIGHT THEN AND THERE.

but i digress.

ah, yet another seddit post that has turned into a rant... fuck, this text came like an hour ago and i'm just dying in my friends dorm while trying to save face and pretend i'm loving the league (a great show nevertheless may i add).

TL;DR: When in this situation what has helped you(/what do you suggest) for shrugging a girl off and getting right back to gamin?