I get this rejection a lot in bars As in I open a set of girls and then the 'leader' always tells me 'just keep on going buddy.' Last night I put my drink down to go to the bathroom and came back to pick it up and this girls just put her hand on it and was like 'keep on going buddy.' I actually held it down and told her the truth - that it was mine - and she called out for help and then a bunch of white knights and bouncers just came and threw me out. This sort of thing happens a lot.