Well, my story is as follows: Went out 3 times with this girl, we can say the first one was a normal date (went out for a few drinks on a thursday night). The following sunday night, we went out for some tea, we were talking and one of her friends met us there and we actually had a good time the 3 of us (besides listening to normal girl gossip) and the third time (following Tuesday) we went to the movies and dinner later. The 4th time (Thursday) I met her at church because there was a ceremony because her grandmother died like 1 month ago, her parents invited me to dinner, and basically we didn't have any meaningful conversation that day, so I consider it does not count towards our progress. During these days, we exchanged a few texts, just to basically know how her day was. Next week she went on a trip to check on a Graduate Program and I didn't text her often, just one day to check how her University Interview went, she replied and said fine, but when I asked for small details, I didn't receive any replies. I know she came back this past Saturday, so on Sunday I decided to text her about how her trip was, you know, just to make small talk and maybe set up a date, but I didn't get a reply. She is not a heavy texter, and since we use What's App, I could tell that she has not been "online" since Sunday, but she definitely saw my texts. I don't really mind if she does not reply to the one I sent her on the weekend, but the one I sent her after her interview is what caught my attention, she saw the texts and she ignored them. So my question is: Is this some sort of shit test, maybe a way for her to know that I am into her and trying to expose some "neediness" or she just doesn't want to know anything about me. I know there were several IOI's during the times we went out together, but I failed to escalate. Also before her trip, we made future plans together, you know, going to dinner to certain places, being her the one saying that when she comes back, we should go out again, so that is why I am more inclined into the "shit test" idea to see if I am really needy or IDNTGF. So, should I keep trying or just move on? Any advice/critics are welcomed as always. Thank you