I am recently single out of a 3.5 year relationship and I'm just trying to start getting out there and I'm having decent luck talking to girls and getting #-closes, but I can never seem to find a girl who is down to go back to one of our places after the bar or wherever we are closes. I suggest it when the places close and we've been talking for awhile, but I always get the "I'm not a slut", or "I have to stay with my friends" or some sort of negative response. Even when the girl and I have been kissing and dancing for a few hours, I still get a negative response when the night ends. Ideas? Just wondering how you guys go about picking and choosing approaches, maybe there are signs I should look for when approaching? This sounds bad but I'm single for the first time in years and I'm just looking for sex (have been unsuccessful for the last 6 months so far).