[warning: kinda long] This past summer I met a pretty cute girl who's dad works with my dad. Our first few interactions were just friendly and nothing more, because I didn't want to game her around her or my parents and make things awkward. I admit I am a total noob when it comes to seduction, and usually end up in the friendzone. But, I've been reading this sub and trying to improve myself and work on my inner game the past month or so.

We hung out several times, and she did show some IOI's like being flirty, teasing me, and asking me about previous relationships. She hugs me very affectionately when we say goodbye, and have definitely formed a solid emotional connection.

Quick background - she is 21 and finishing up her last year of college now, and I'm 24 and working a solid job in the city she will hopefully move to when she graduates next spring. When we said our goodbyes when she left for college a couple weeks ago, she gave me a long hug and said, "I love you". I said "I love you too."

Since she's been back at school, we've been snap chatting each other a lot and have had some normal and some flirty text conversations. She drunk face timed me at 2am on the night of her birthday, but I was asleep and didn't pick up. I'm flying out to see her in a month or so (not solely to see her but also seeing family for about 4 days).

My end goal is to build more physical attraction and hopefully have sex with her while I'm out there. She is single and I want to start a relationship with her. I admit I've had some one-itis with her every since she left. I'm trying to focus on myself and talk to other girls, but I want to keep the spark alive while she's across the country. Any tips?