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Kino advice?

A_Snuggly_Cat · 2015-12-16T08:04:19+00:00

I know basic Kino, but sometimes my mental image of doing it to certain people is just painfully awkward. I'm in high school, and going out with a girl...

A_Snuggly_Cat

December 16, 2015

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Title	Kino advice?
Author	A_Snuggly_Cat
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	December 16, 2015 8:04 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3x20um/kino_advice/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/kino-advice.1399206 https://theredarchive.com/post/1399206

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[–]dreaq21 points 10 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]A_Snuggly_Cat 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]dreaq22 points 10 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Well in that case I could summarize what the ladder says. The first step is eye contact, which is essential to show social awareness. Next, you'll want to use incidental touches that are very usual and subtle. These are done mainly with hands and arms. This helps the building of initial comfort. Examples : Handshakes, arm brushes, high fives, lightly touching her arm to emphasize a point, stuff like that. Afterwards, comes the more obvious kino: hand holding / arm in arm escort. This conveys yoyd interest. And it must be preceded by the subtle kino. Now comes another set of subtle touches that take place on her torso or legs. These are more intimate, however not reaching erogenous zones. Examples: standing very close with your legs touching hers, lightly touching her with your palm while you talk to somehow pull her closer etc Next come more obvious touches, preferably done while sitting down : placing her leg over yours, frontal hugging, escorting her to the bar with your hand on her lower back, placing her hand on your thigh, etc The next class of subtle touches include her face, neck and neck. Do this only after the others. Doing this too soon is a common mistake. Kino examples: brushing something off her face, in loud environments talk really close to her face, playful cheek pinching, touch her necklace while lightly touching her neck. Last set of obvious touches before you can go in for the kiss. This is meant to prepare for the kiss and it is very direct. Examples: her head resting on your shoulders, run your fingers through her hair while maintaining eye contact, lightly stroking her face witb your finger. Hope this helps to get you started. The book itself is more detailed and it covers kino up to sex.

[–]A_Snuggly_Cat 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]dreaq21 point 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link