Kino!!

rich55555 · 2012-09-14T11:36:55+00:00

Climb your way up the ladder. Start low and progress up it.

Low Level Touching

When introducing yourself, shake hands and hold hers for an extra second.
Give her a high-five in excitement.
Gently touch her elbow to emphasize your points. If she’s going outside with you, you can grab her coat and help her put it on.
Touch her shoulder when she is opening up and sharing something with you.
When saying goodbye, give her a hug.

Medium Level Touching

Stand close to her and let your arms touch.
When leading her to the bar or to grab a seat, hold her hand or guide her with your hand on the small of her back.
Stand to her side, lean close to her, and whisper into her ear.
Rest your thigh against hers when sitting next to her.
As she laughs at something you said, say something like “You’re so cute/adorable/such a dork” while placing your hand on her stomach and playfully push her.

High Level Touching

Play footsie under the table if sitting across from her.
Place your hand on her thigh when sitting next to her.
Brush a lock of hair off her face and around her ear.
While standing close, lean into her and smell from the base or her neck to her ear. You can say something like “Damn, you smell amazing.”
When talking, lightly play with her hand or fingers.
Run your fingers through her hair while looking in her eyes.
Grab her around the waist and pull her hip against yours. You can also pull her directly towards you and have your waists touching.
Touch a necklace she’s wearing while brushing your fingers on her neck.
While sitting close, run your fingers toward her inner thigh under the table. Continue talking casually. Getting more intimate while keeping your cool will drive her wild.
Pause during conversation, look deeply in her eyes, and kiss her.

Setsa · 2012-09-14T02:25:45+00:00

Many men may disagree with me on this, but I find making the first contact in a "cutesy" context to be quite effective. Go for holding a hand or an affectionate hug when the context seems appropriate for it and try to maintain proximity to her. People have a general perception of appropriate distances for specific social relations, and by simply skootchiing yourself closer to her in just about any context will set the stage for initiating physical contact. As I've seen others mention here, escalate slowly and initiate with something that isn't grossly provocative. It may seem like common sense, but a lot of guys try to jump the gun and throw down some serious moves as soon as they get the chance. For some people that may work, but in most contexts it won't unless there has been quite a bit of build up prior.

2012-09-14T03:47:45+00:00

http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/the-dicarlo-escalation-ladder-vt16552.html

Personally, I have tried it and it works really well. Obviously if you start off by grabbing a girls tits she won't be happy about it. You have to escalate up to it.

As for the nervousness part... I don't really get nervous around girls, so I guess we're kind of in different mindsets. For example, I went on a hike with a girl that I knew liked me. Throughout the walk I did small stuff like accidental brushing up against her, helping her down from logs/small drops, etc. We got to a log and sat down on it, and after the escalation I wrapped an arm around her. If I hadn't escalated, and if she hadn't been receptive clearly I couldn't have done that.

Title	Kino!!
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	7
Comments	4
Date	September 14, 2012 1:09 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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