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[–]dasanman69 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When it comes to women seduction is never over. A guy has to get her to fall in love with him over and over again.
[–]Minute-Lie-2287 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
The hilarious part is she ranted based on her own assumptions, then when she she says "do you want to know what's seductive?" and answers, she spits out the exact kind of advice you actually see on this sub.
Just says it it in an entitled, and demanding way.
OP you should look at this and all your posts. I notice you use almost exclusively what is called passive language. This where the subject of a sentence is not the one commiting the action.
It indicates that you're likely someone who doesn't make things happen, just waits for the world to happen to them. It's a one way ticket to victimhood and probably explains a lot about why you are where you are.
You have nice-girl syndrome.
[–]yourfreecheesybread 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for your insights. And you are correct. I do feel like a victim to the person that I wrote about in an unsent letter sub. So your assessment on my statements would be accurate. I don't believe I'll be suffering from nice girl syndrome any longer.
[–]Minute-Lie-2287 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I hope you won't. You know you have much to offer, just take action to make sure the next person deserves it.
Best starting point is don't invest more in anyone than they invest in you.
It's multi faceted. If you do that you'll be sure the person deserves what you give and you won't feel they owe you for what you have given, that way it's all just enjoyment and you never set yourself up to be a victim. Among other things.
[–]yourfreecheesybread 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I would completely disagree with your logic. But I guess that's why I'm hurting huh? Because I was the person that made the investment. And I'm the person that lost out on the return. I put more in first, in good faith. Because somebody has to make the larger investment for the other to match. Everybody has been through something like this I know I'm not an exception.
[–]Minute-Lie-2287 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
You're not wrong. The statement is just an oversimplification.
In the investment category ...let him lead...guys are totally fine with that. Give a little more back than he gives first.
Yep we all do it sometimes, I'm not chastising you for it....just trying to help.
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[–]yourfreecheesybread 4 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
You first douchebag
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You're right. But it probably happens more frequently to women who hook up with guys that are actively trying so hard to achieve seduction. Guys that are totally desperate to pull in as many people as they can. Men that want to pat themselves on the back for tricking women into caring about them.
[–]Orange11a -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hey you women set the standard. Us guys just adapt to it. I bet your feeling for him are shallow. There's nothing special about you, the same tricks he pulled on you worked on the 4 others. Admit it, you love the idea of being with a man that's desired by others. If he truly acted the way YOU wanted him to then you wouldn't be as head over heels in love with him as you were back then. Make me sick!
[–]yourfreecheesybread1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Exactly. It worked on me. And he got what he wanted. He got everything from me. I personally don't want a man who is desired by others. It's not animal planet. I didn't need the alpha. But he was to me.
[–]EducationalWish8520 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve been there and know how you feel. Which is why I’m interested tk hear your story and share mine as well
[–]Milkman2966 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I never lied to you. You were always enough for me. You let your past experiences influence your present situation. You were the only one. There was no one else. Weather you believe me or not. I only wanted you. We were in a coffee bar in San Francisco when I made the decision to stop the bullshit with every other person and commit to you and I told you as much. You never believed me. I was consistent and I still ended up getting cheated on and lied to. You only lost out on the return because you never put any faith in me. You made up your mind fairly early that I was a piece of shit and you one upped me!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The timeline is blurry. Was that before or after the dick pics to the friend? Because I'm positive that you bumped this timeline again a few months later when you said that it was for real for the second time. It doesn't matter anymore. You can have all the cake you want - you just have to eat it by yourself now.
[–]Grouchy-Discussion53 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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