Hey guys, just started lurking. Anyways, I totally f*cked up with a girl. Had a girl have feelings for me and basically ask me for sex. Some time went by (month long christmas break) and I started to have feelings for her. Let's just say I lost my opportunity with this girl. I've been trying all year to get with her and I might have been a bit clingy and not well-intentioned. I definitely learned my mistakes. So I guess what I'm trying to get to is 3 things:

  1. Don't pass any opportunity especially if the girl is fun/attractive and you're single.

  2. Don't be a little boy and make confident decisions (kissing, asking her out).

  3. If you want something more than friendship, make sure she finds out EARLY ON.

Time to get over this and meet some new women. I believe in all of us. We are all ladyslayers at heart.