I learned something today that I never would have thought of last month or even year. I'm new to the dating game late bloomer is what I like to call myself never even kissed a girl [20m]. But I realized after asking a coworker out. She was caught off guard and what not which I mean I can see that. But she hasn't said a definite yes and I was just thinking about how I am so lonely and her not saying yes right away made me feel alone and shitty. But just now I realized why the FUCK do I care if she says yes or no. If she says no she isn't worth my time. I need to find someone who finds me amazing how I am. To all the late bloomers who maybe going through a rough patch like me realize this if she doesn't see how AMAZING you are someone will, and that is the person you want to be with/pursue.