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Yeah I think that's the key point, when I'm sober in the club I'm a lot more in my head. It's all about getting into a fun vibe. There have been a few times where I've felt drunk even when sober, just due to social momentum.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 06:26 PM
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Totally agree with this. It's so harder sober, and although I'm still in the transitional period of trying to transition into sober game, I feel I'm getting a lot higher standard of girls in the club. When I was smashed I'd literally just go with any 5/6 that would initially give me attention.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 06:20 PM
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I have a shirtless gym photo, can confirm I get a lot more matches and girls complimenting me on my physique.
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:17 AM
40

There fun to be around. Attractive girls, like anyone, like to hang around with fun, cool people.
/r/seduction19/08/17 11:24 PM
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Yup that's golden.
/r/seduction15/08/17 11:28 AM
4

I imagine it would be do able if you had decent pictures and spam it for 6 months to a year.
/r/seduction14/08/17 07:06 PM
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Exactly, if you hang out with hot girls, you may still want to bang them but they can bring a lot of social value even if you don't bang them. Just being seen hanging out with them on a night out, can spike other girls interest. As long as you have abundance, I don't see why being friends with some girls is an issue. The guys who I see complaining about friend zoning themselves are the guys who lack abundance and know they will get needy by just being friends with a girl.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 10:58 AM
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I don't think that's quite true. Physique is a big part of looks. For example a ripped muscular guy who's 5 ft 9, all things equal, would be more attractive than a skinny 5 ft 10. Being a muscular guy brings value, just like being a skinny girl is valuable. You're also ignoring the mental benefits of the gym. The endorphin rush, healthy body and more valuable physique. Makes the individual feel good and more confident with themselves. As I said you're right mental game is probably more important…
/r/seduction17/07/17 10:23 AM
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You need to own it mate. If your a bodybuilder, you're either ripped or huge. Live the swole life and own it! Girls love confidence and if your aesthetic you should be proud/ confident AF.
/r/seduction17/07/17 10:04 AM
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On one hand you say looks matter on the other you advise to stop body building and just focus mentally on why you don't think you're a 10. That's contradictory. I wouldn't advise anyone who are looking to pick up more girls to not work on their physique. I've been hitting the gym 4 years, so have abs etc and I get a lot more attention from girls/ can sense more girls are naturally attracted to me then when I was a skinny twig. I now get girls touching my biceps and quite a few drunk girls have a…
/r/seduction17/07/17 09:56 AM
3

Just wait until she texts back (in the meantime forget about it and get on with your life, it really isn't worth wasting your mental energy). If she doesn't text back in a couple of days send another message if she replies go for the meet up within 2-4 messages, if she doesn't move on.
/r/seduction03/07/17 12:33 PM
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I've found if you get an instagram close it's much stronger then a number if you have a good instagram as she can check out your life and not just see some digits on the screen. It shows good social proof. You're kidding yourself, if you think girls don't check out guys on social media these days.
/r/seduction28/06/17 11:38 AM
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Mate, I see this in the kindest way possible. You need to stop being so needy and seeking validation from this girl.
/r/seduction23/05/17 05:08 PM
1

What are your thoughts on DT?
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:35 PM
2

This is spot on. One thing I would add about the topic of newbies struggling with what to say for the opener and the pursing conversation is... 100% do have some lines/ topics prepped. You should have 10 minutes worth of material. Does this go against what the community is going towards which is "natural game", yes. But in the early stages when you aren't confident you're going to freeze up and just end up saying something awful or nothing at all. You need scaffolding. Do you just chuck a guy in…
/r/seduction29/03/17 08:08 PM
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This is why you need abundance. So you are not outcome dependent. You approach girls because you want to see if she's a cool girl and possibly get to know but ultimately don't care either way because you have plenty more options and you realise there are plenty more cool girls out there.
/r/seduction21/03/17 07:40 PM
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Lol as I expected
/r/seduction21/03/17 07:23 PM
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I've read your comment and all it says is get a hobby and you will become interesting and then you magically get laid more.... That's what 90% guys do in their lives and most aren't getting laid? Is this your revolutionary method? You've also completely neglected the fact that guys can set aside 2-4 hours a week to approach girls and still have plenty of times to do hobbies and be interesting...
/r/seduction21/03/17 07:04 PM
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Okay so what's the best way? Would absolutely love to hear.
/r/seduction21/03/17 04:32 PM
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If that's your view fair enough. Some people say going to the gym is miserable, some people love it. I actually really enjoyed it. Probably because I met a lot of cool girls and the rejections really aren't as bad as made out. Most girls were more than happy for me to approach them. Why would that be miserable? A lot of guys already socialize a lot with groups/ hobbies, so advising joining more hobbies really isn't efficient. The fact of the matter is, the quickest way to improve approaching gir…
/r/seduction21/03/17 04:22 PM
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Well in turn I don't agree with that at all. When I first started out, I'd read next to no theory and approached 200 girls over the course of 3 months. I can tell you I was a lot better after those 3 months purely by analyzing my approaches and seeing what worked and what didn't. Additionally a large part is getting used to it so you become less nervous and more confident. Which in itself increases your attractiveness and success. Define rejection? I'd say out 10 approaches only 1 would just wal…
/r/seduction21/03/17 04:01 PM
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Not OP. But I'm sure it will have change his mindset to that he is good enough to approach any girl/ go for any opportunity. Then he went out and did just that.
/r/seduction21/03/17 12:55 PM
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Well I think the key is the more you do it, the better you get and the more enjoyable it become. Just like with everything.
/r/seduction21/03/17 12:47 PM
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I have a few good looking friends who get "attention" from girls however since they aren't that confident, the girls run a mile as soon as they pick up on their personality. Where I have some mates who aren't that attractive but constantly pull girls because they don't give a shit and are high energy. Does looks make it easier, yes. However, guys who aren't traditionally good look can still pull attractive girls. Tinder is designed to be based on looks so that's not a very strong argument.
/r/seduction16/03/17 07:33 AM
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You only get that through experience though. You don't just read a few Reddit comments on social awareness and then wake up the next day fully socially aware. It comes through experience and trial and error. That's where some general examples of what to say can be useful. Even if it's just to give someone a nudge in a certain direction for them to say "that doesn't quite work for me".
/r/seduction10/03/17 12:45 PM
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You can't get to know her through text on tinder. Tinder really isn't a long term relationship thing and it isn't awkward to ask a girl out. Generally after you've matched send 4 to 5 flirty messages and then ask for her number or set up. meet up. If she says no, that's fine just move on. Forget about getting to know people online.
/r/seduction15/02/17 06:01 PM
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You need abundance mate. You focusing on this girl as you have no other options.
/r/seduction15/02/17 01:56 PM
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It's called being a teen mate. Chill out while you can. Trust me, when your 26 working 50 hour weeks and having to pay rent you will regret not letting loose while you were young.
/r/seduction02/02/17 08:16 PM
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What tactical elements?
/r/seduction02/02/17 02:57 PM
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Yeah I think you've hit the nail on the head regarding taking conversations down more risky routes. The issue for me is, if I get 5-6 blow offs in a row (I.e they don't engage with me at all) then when I do get a conversation going, mentally my main thought is to try not to lose it so I've at least had some sort of interaction. Which as you say is a bad way to approach things. I think I need work on teasing. For example a girl I approached mentioned she was on the way to the gym, my immediate re…
/r/seduction23/01/17 02:55 PM
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Just anything really. Feel like I've hit a bit of a brick wall. I can more often then not get a 5 minute chat but getting numbers still seems very hard. There's always an excuse.
/r/seduction23/01/17 02:07 PM
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Yeah that's one thing that's been at the back of my mind. I've noticed if I suffer 6-7 blow outs in a row my next approaches are a lot less playful and a lot more formulaic e.g more interview like questions like where do you work etc, which makes matters worse. Do you have any tips on how to make conversations more random?
/r/seduction23/01/17 02:06 PM
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My man!
/r/seduction03/01/17 08:53 PM
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Wasn't having a pop just highlighting some tweaks you can make to help you improve. I wasn't saying your needy, but if it's coming across that way then maybe that's why she pulled back? Next time think, am I putting more effort in then her? Apart from the initial interaction where men are expected to make the move the effort levels should be equal or she should be more invested in you.
/r/seduction06/12/16 02:54 PM
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I have to say a major issue is your messaging style. Your sending 3 to 4 messages at a time before she replies. One even had 7 texts in a row! That screams neediness. You need her validation. Also I didn't like "I guess the balls in your court", again screams neediness. If she doesn't reply to a message don't reply back. You even get frustrated when she doesn't play ball which shows emotional instability. Chasing her up for a response shows that you care more about her response then she does wri…
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:05 PM
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Why call her out on it though? You need to realise that most girls won't be interested in you or any guy. That's why you need to learn that rejection is a good thing. It gets you to the girls who are interested in you quicker. Thank her for her time and just move on to the next one, who may be interested. You "pulling her up on it" makes you look and sound needy. You barely know her and you are already way more invested in the exchange then she is (the definition of needy). If you had an abundan…
/r/seduction01/12/16 10:57 PM
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Weirdly it's the same for guys- girls.
/r/seduction15/11/16 07:44 PM
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Any other must reads guys?
/r/seduction14/11/16 11:14 AM
2

Going up to girls approaching them and being interesting that's what sets you apart. Sounds like your just making excuses. Literally just approach some girls and say hi, you may get rejected but it sounds to me you have approach anxiety and the only way you will get over it is by approaching and being rejected.
/r/seduction13/11/16 03:50 PM
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Commenting so I can check this out when I get in later.
/r/seduction10/11/16 07:23 PM
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Yeah but the secret is not to have limiting beliefs or give a shit about stats. It's a very weak mindset to have and will ironically cock-block you more than the actual height issue. Just improve your game and approach girls you find attractive. You can just as easily get rejected from a 3/10 who "statistically" you could pull 80% of the time or whatever.
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:46 PM
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Well exactly it's still possible. If you don't give a shit about your own height and come across as confident you can still get good results. I've pulled girls taller than me.
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:19 PM
2

Sounds like you're just making excuses.
/r/seduction30/10/16 02:53 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:52 AM
13

That's probably worse to be honest. Really? The vibe I got from the video was that you were marketing yourself as some sort of "PUA" coach, you even have a website. Why would someone pay to take lessons on picking up girls from a virgin? That's like the last thing you would do haha.
/r/seduction24/10/16 09:36 PM
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That's was not great game at all. Okay so some big mistakes for anyone watching this: You should have put a time restraint when she was initially nervous. I.e I also need to bounce soon but... The leading her to sit down was not very convincing at all. You needed to build way more rapport to do that or be ridiculously boss, which you weren't. Which resulted in a situation where she was physically and metaphorically looking down on you. You came across as super needy. Like asking her if she thoug…
/r/seduction24/10/16 09:04 PM
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He obviously has some serious issues himself. Cuts ties he will only bring you down with him.
/r/seduction23/10/16 07:43 PM
1

Thing is though not giving a fuck is not a logical thing, it's illogical. You can't write a step by step logical thesis on how not to give a fuck as that would be using logic. Approaching a complete stranger and telling her your interested in her in some way is illogical. The only way to do is it to get into a illogical mindset and not give a fuck. This becomes easier through experiencing what illogical means. Anyone who tries to think their way out of AA are totally missing the point and will p…
/r/seduction19/10/16 11:40 AM
1

So your saying there are no social pressures on women at all?
/r/seduction11/10/16 10:21 PM
6

They can approach but due to social pressures they rarely do.
/r/seduction11/10/16 11:30 AM
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Oh this one I wasn't broken up over at all. Been chuckling at it all afternoon. I probably could have given a witty response but after the comment I just wanted to get out of the conversation as soon as possible and not waste anymore time!
/r/seduction10/10/16 04:45 PM
1

How do you have the stamina to go out every day for 6 months? Do you drink/ work the next day? Also do you go by yourself? Sorry for the amount of questions haha.
/r/seduction08/10/16 05:30 PM
9

My only guess is the guy in the vid is the OP and this is some sort of self promotion?
/r/seduction06/09/16 04:35 PM
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Hold the smile whilst looking down at their penis. Really gets me deep in the zone!
/r/seduction16/08/16 12:38 PM
3

Yeah that's true. I'd admire anyone who starts to take steps to improve themselves. The thing that slightly makes me roll my eyes at the "no fap movement" is the sort of super-power or holier than thou connatations that come with it. It almost is becoming a religion for a lot of the followers. In fact weirdly enough religion has been trying to control sexual desires and masturbation long before /r/nofap came along. Btw I wasn't bragging earlier. When I was younger I was like many on here. A intr…
/r/seduction15/08/16 11:09 PM
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The thing is I don't really need to. When I'm single I generally "fap" or have sex once or twice a week. I'm still very motivated and have taught myself to approach girls even when I'm not constantly blue ball'sed. It's like guys who will only approached girls when drunk, your replacing one problem with another and not really dealing with the underlining self esteem issues. Maybe if people admitted they didn't have a very attractive personality and that's why girls weren't attracted to them they…
/r/seduction15/08/16 10:01 PM
8

I don't think what any of what you said is true at all.
/r/seduction15/08/16 06:41 PM
1

Like everything in life, general the middle ground or finding a balance is generally the best, most effective approach. Why don't you just cut it down to once a week?
/r/seduction15/08/16 06:35 PM
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I would add to this work on life game. At 16 you should just be concentrating on getting good grades and building up a circle of friends. It will make things a lot easier and open a lot more doors later in life.
/r/seduction28/07/16 11:45 AM
1

Seems like your trying to find excuses, when the harder thing to admit is that your personality maybe isn't that attractive, and is holding you back. Have you not heard of guys punching above their weight before? One thing you have to remember that a lot of these top "PUA's" have been approaching girls pretty much non-stop for 10 plus years. Your right in a way that they do way over exaggerate how quickly and effectively people can pick these techniques up, but they are trying to make money at t…
/r/seduction28/07/16 10:09 AM
1

What's one game-changing tip (pardon the pun) that you wish you knew earlier?
/r/seduction25/07/16 02:34 PM
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