I'm at a crowded bar right now and with some friends. There are a few things that I notice. Obviously your friend group talks to you, girls guys everyone. The bar is crowded. How do you engage any girl? There are some groups that are like 11 girls and some that have boyfriends other groups do not. Some have friends with close groups and others have groups of 3 with a guy. Who how do you fit into a group? What I see, a lot of the girls even with no boyfriend have strong guy friend ties which makes it difficult to approach. How do you win over the girl?? How do you interest a girl that has plenty of other options? What sets you apart from other guys?