Learning to cold read- which materials to use?

HappyJerk · 2014-02-18T17:33:03+00:00

The approaches involving 'mind reading' and 'the cube' seem most suited to me and my personality, and is definitely something I could see myself doing.

Don't do that crap. Just walk up to girls and talk about whatever the fuck you feel like talking about.

You sound like you're becoming one of those "readers" that reads a bunch of shit but hen never approaches. Just go approach. All the books in the world won't help you with that shit.

pegases13 · 2014-02-18T22:14:04+00:00

Enjoy:

http://westsidetoastmasters.com/resources/book_of_body_language/toc.html

cdemikols · 2014-02-18T23:39:23+00:00

Try truisms, things that hold true for most people or are intentionally vague.

"You seem different from most people, like there's more to you than what's on the surface. "

" I like how you seem like you know yourself instead of all the people in here trying to catch somebody's eye. "

Make up your own "Cube", I do one with a deck of cards. Tell them to pick any card (Not actually have Cards, just name them.) tell them what the color means (black means you have a solid foundation of yourself, red means you can get extrememly passionate about things, but not everything) then what the number means (2-10 is a measure of how guarded they are. Whatever they pick make that the more guarded side of the scale. Everybody likes to think they're guarded so even if they're open tell them that they are open with everyone but only a few people see what's really inside.) face Cards I normally say something about them being innately better than everyone else. Others are afraid to pick face Cards, etc.

But remember, this is about having a plan to feel confident in talking, it's not about regurgitating lines. After you use these, toss them into casual conversation. Try using the opposite technique on a girl who seems to be calling your shit. (I straight up told a girl once that Yeah, I just say that shit to girls to let them know I pay attention. You're too smart for that so I'll be honest, come outside and talk with me.)

Also through best advice I can give you is to talk to older women. At random, in supermarkets and in line and at stop lights. I don't know how old you are, but for me talking to moms and 40-60 year old women about whatever made it easier to approach. I had no anxiety because I certainly didn't want them (Ok, maybe a few.) but I was able to flirt with them in the same way I would with younger girls. It helped me tons.

chris1227 · 2014-02-18T20:51:08+00:00

Im pretty sure just making things up will get you the same results as studying for hours and hours.

Title	Learning to cold read- which materials to use?
Author	Mortson
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Date	February 18, 2014 4:08 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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