I wanna discuss being able to exploit things you're good at- things that will separate you from every other gent in the room and help catch the eye of every fine lady in the room and more. These are the things we can brag about that make women want to know us, other men want to be us, and the internet wanna hear about us.

My own personal niche is singing. I was blessed with a nice singing voice that i well.. i exploit the living hell out of. Being a natural male Alto that can hit a female Soprano on command is a nice talent to have and turns more than a few heads at any given time. When at the club or in a karaoke bar, i'm the first one to grab a mic and let everyone know that a star is in the room, and you should come find him. In the car with some nice women? you better believe i'm putting on a song that i can belt that will surely melt hearts.

My personal preference on my methods. Only bring it up in conversation if provoked. If a woman (or even a third party individual for that matter) mentions singing, karaoke, ANYTHING that involves melody- i usurp the conversation. With simple and non confrontational mention (don't challenge them like "I can sing higher than you, want me to prove it?!") of my talents usually prods a conversation that will later turn into a show. Casually talking at dinner/at the bar? save your voice for the ride home, in a club or at an event? let it fly when you are comfortable.

Final note: if i'm ever in a group scenario (for example in a car with multiple women and another/other man/men, own the show. You're buddy should be well aware of your skill and know not to challenge you at your own game, and if he's a stranger- screw it YOU ARE ALPHA in your home court. In my personal experience we have a line where our friendship stands and usually allow one another to feed off of our own strengths/weaknesses. If you're buddy is willing to subjugate himself- take lead and FORCE him to strain his voice and take him out of his comfortable range. Or even better: WORK WITH EACH OTHER. my buddy is a large man who has a half way decent male Baritone/Tenor. I have yet to meet another duo who can sing 90's boy bands like we do, and for some reason women our age EAT THAT SHIT UP.

Anyway. What are your talents you like to exploit and how do you do it?

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