Lifehack on texting needed.

cyniko · 2012-08-27T02:53:08+00:00

I think textgame can be interesting and fun, but I think the number one rule is this: keep it short

If you have text anxiety (a lot of guys do) - the key is to not be too chummy (playful/teasing is obviously great) and to be assertive. If you have any concerns about a text, ask yourself why you're sending the text. Is there a purpose (setting plans for the night, etc) or are you just texting just to keep the conversation going? If it's the latter, nix that and get a strong purpose. This is a good ground rule to start with.

Delaying texts is often recommended, as corny as it is. Any girl who has interest will wait for your response just like you do, so a little delay here and there is usually good.

ActAct · 2012-08-27T02:59:13+00:00

There are no lifehacks for confidence

hethathasnolife · 2012-08-27T20:28:54+00:00

cyniko I thought you pointing out some great points and would agree. Just thought Id share a few of my tips that tend to work for me but may not always.

First, Unless I have something important/funny to say I wont text her first. Typically unless they are really into you they wont text you first the next day or even the same night. I like to bring up things we talked about in person, plans we made, things we enjoy, etc. I try not to text her more then once a day unless the conversation is continuing.

Second, Make yourself sound busy. I like to make to this because they wont see me as boring and uneventful but instead busy and like I do more then just lope around my place. If what you are doing does come up make sure to really sound like you are enjoying what you are doing. You could be cleaning shit off the floor but as long as your exemplify your excitement she wont thing what you are doing is lame.

Third, after a while we all notice that the convos start to die. Question seem to be a good indicator of how committed to the interaction she is. Ask her a question like " What you up to today?" (If you dont know already and the convo is going smoothly) She should typically respond and if she is interested typically she will ask you the same back. If she doesn't then dont take back.

Fourth, concerning time between texts. I like to not text anyone before 1 PM just cause people seem to be in better moods in the afternoon instead of morning. If it takes her more then an hour to respond I try to not respond in the first 5 minutes. Ill wait 20-30 minuntes. I Don't like seeming to eager. As she will find it unattractive. If she responds back quickly then I will text her back around 10 minutes later. Again I like to seem busy.

I hope this all helps. Again I am not perfect and like many others my "game" is always evolving. Good Luck and Have fun!

Title	Lifehack on texting needed.
Author	stankyschub
Upvotes	6
Comments	4
Date	August 27, 2012 1:58 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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