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[–]Woujo 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You probably didn't sound confident in your texts. She texted you, so you didn't need to ask her if she wanted to hang out. She obviously did.
You can give it another shot but you need to do it as if you know she will say and she is lucky to come along. You should be like "hey I'm doing X at Y time, you should come join!" And if she doesn't respond move on.
[–]R0b36 -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That's what I tried today. I said " hey I'm gonna go that bar I told you about tomorrow night, wanna come? Thanks for the reply though
[–]Woujo 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You still need to be more direct and confident in your text. And you need to do it again.
Let this one die and try again in a week.
[–]R0b36 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks. I'll probably do that. I just don't want to text her multiple times in a day and sound desperate.
[–]Woujo 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
that's good thinking
[–]richardspanther 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Oh you must ditch. She's a stripper, and strippers tend to be hip to every kind of bullshit men try to pull. Strippers also hate dudes who come in, monopolize their time, and hardly buy a fuckin thing, which is what you did. If she wanted your number, it's most likely because she thinks you'll give her money/gifts, which unfortunately means she sees you as kind of pathetic. Most strippers have oodles of losers they string along to get gifts and cash.
[–]Woujo 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dude strippers are people too. I've lots of good flings with strippers. stop being a judgmental prick.
[–]richardspanther 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah how much did you pay for those flings?
they were free, I met them outside of work
[–]R0b36 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see what you're saying. I mean, she could have walked away when she was done with the dance but never did. Even when her dance was done on stage, she still came back to me.
[–]savagesteve_13 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Strippers are generally hookers on the side, she was drumming up business.
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