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1

I wished I had known a better way to deal with my very turbulent home life.
/r/seduction31/07/17 04:11 AM
63

Rule of thumb, if a girl is too "busy" for you, she's not interested. An interested girl MAKES time for you, even if she has to ditch meetups with friends or family.
/r/seduction31/07/17 04:10 AM
1

She's about to be exposed to 1000+ Chads at her new college, I doubt you stand a chance in the long run.
/r/seduction31/07/17 01:26 AM
2

She's a club girl, they see the dating world in more black and white than you may. She may have just been nice and friendly so you don't freak out, follow her home and break her windows. Some guys are weird and creepy. Blocking you from afar is much safer than rejecting you in person. Women have to think of safety, they're the weaker sex.
/r/seduction31/07/17 12:13 AM
2

Hurry you don't have much time, the friendzone is ahead.
/r/seduction31/07/17 12:11 AM
1

Be a reliable person and always be thoughtful and supportive. Women like the fact that no matter how crazy their own life is, they can rush into the arms of a man they know is there for her.
/r/seduction31/07/17 12:10 AM
2

Have both of you laying prone on the carpet playing video games. just for fun lay on top of him while he's playing and challenge him to play while being distracted. wiggle on top of him and try to make him laugh. if he's receptive he will eventually stop playing and make out with you.
/r/seduction30/07/17 09:15 PM
3

It only attracts gold diggers.
/r/seduction30/07/17 09:09 PM
2

Do you enjoy the fucking? Then go along with it, she wants the full boyfriend experience, give it to her. She may even start to think you're too clingy and then she will break up with you.
/r/seduction30/07/17 07:23 PM
1

Well then you can be a sith, they cheat and look what always happens to them.
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:53 PM
1

the rules really don't apply to texting. I've had chats with people and there are 12 hour gaps, no big thang. you can't text while driving legally here so what if you get a text while on the drive home? Thats at least a 1 hour gap before responding. What if the other person fell asleep or left their phone in the other room. more time gaps.
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:17 PM
1

do you want to talk about being a jedi, or do you want to be a jedi?
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:15 PM
1

its a good idea, but my advice is don't worry about getting the hottest girl in school, just find a prom date you like, quit worrying about others. prom is a vital introduction to chicks and future adulthood.
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:13 PM
1

Lay off the weed. nobody likes potheads. it sounds like your emotional crutch too.
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:11 PM
1

Pick ONE thing, one thing only to improve. Focus on it, make a plan, stick to the plan, SUCCEED. 1) Overweight 2) anxious 3) scared of women 4) depressed 5) self-conscious Pick one, work on it, research, get professional help if you need it. SUCCEED.
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:10 PM
1

Invite her to go get drunk together. If any of her feelings are there for you they will show themselves with liquor. Just don't fuck if she does make a pass, use that drunk time to establish intimacy, and hope she isn't a blind drunk that forgets everything she did the night before.
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:08 PM
1

its a standard thing girls say, ignore it. it means absolutely nothing.
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:07 PM
1

Don't use candles! Unless you want to explain to the cops why you burned down the apartment complex. Women like clean and neat, because filthy and smelly is the "norm" these days, you will stand out as a guy who takes care of himself. Don't keep extra toothbrushes out in the open, she will get highly suspicious of that, trust me. Keep ONE in the drawer, preferably in its shrinkwrap. Stick to modern/contemporary in bedroom. A woman will think you're odd if your bedroom is in french provincial, co…
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:03 PM
3

Go to the doctor! ED often is more of a symptom of serious issues such as heart/circulatory. 30 is young, you may have some hidden medical problems that could become serious.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:56 PM
1

She's being honest and forthright, a bit unorthodox as many girls hate to reject a guy openly and would prefer to do the "too busy" approach hoping you go away. I think you're done here. Chad has won this round.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:55 PM
1

A small set of free weights should be sufficient. Easy to stow when not being used and inexpensive. Supplements for the most part are garbage. In the western world few if any of us are missing vitamins or minerals. Steroids and androgens have horrible side effects which is why they are restricted to medical use only by a physician. The best solution is good old fitness work, yes its dressed in overalls and doesn't look like fun but you will succeed if you do it. The reason few people are actuall…
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:53 PM
2

Its called "livin in the ape world". He established his dominance in a less courteous way than most guys would. If he had punched you though I would have had the full force of law enforcement on him since there are laws against that.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:49 PM
-1

Really what makes a man successful in dating is not keeping up with all the PUA materials out there, but actually talking to women. In psychological circles its called "Exposure Therapy". Basically facing your worst fear and getting your mind to realize that you won't die and the world won't end if you talk to a girl. Then after a time your stress level goes down to someting less than 10 and you get used to it. After a while you hardly even get nervous or its such a low level that its highly man…
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:46 PM
7

Women generally see a flashy car as a substitute for something else, like short penis, personality flaw. Unless you love flashy cars because you like working on them or have a good story behind it (your dad collected them or its been in your family, etc...) then a woman will suspect that you are compensating... I've gotten more chicks talking to me when I drove my chihuahua around in the car going through drive throughs (she loved french fries). My advice, get a chihuahua.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:42 PM
1

nervous quiet bothers most people unless you're dating and generally both of you are used to quiet gaps in conversation.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:39 PM
1

If you have insurance by all means get your teeth fixed. did you know many general health problems are made worse by bad teeth (heart, circulatory, bone/joint) when you get older? You really should care more. I'm an old man and have a near perfect set of choppers, thanks to good livin'
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:38 PM
42

Women think too much. They are physically attracted but then say to themselves "the age range difference is not right" or "he comes from a elite family why would he like me" or "he's too tall/short/fat/thin/too little hair/too much hair". You just have to give them time to make up their minds. Its not like men where you basically want access to her vagina within the first 3 seconds of knowing her.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:33 PM
2

I think you lost her, you waited too long.
/r/seduction30/07/17 04:54 AM
5

She won't look back at you and she will walk away suddenly.
/r/seduction30/07/17 04:51 AM
2

There's always tomorrow at the gym.
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:46 AM
3

Well you want to minimize the amount of damage you do. yes you can get away with just about anything if you are really really good looking, but really how many of us are?
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:40 AM
1

Quit playing mind games with her, you're already dating, so stop the PUA tactics. Don't you kids ever face to face communicate anymore?
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:32 AM
2

I've seen a dog that can skateboard too. Doesn't mean all dogs can.
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:29 AM
1

Are you 13? Then its probably okay, and its okay to take your date to mcdonalds too.
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:03 AM
3

Skinny, too short pants, those awful brown oversize suede things with thick soles, a biker jacket with a logo if you are over 25 years old. Any sort of t-shirt advertising video games or anime. Fedoras, vapes, canes, poet shirts, fur cowboy hats. Chuntarito boots. Baseball caps with gold on them worn crooked, cargo shorts with sandals, baggy oversize anything. Ties that aren't solid, simple pattern or rep.
/r/seduction30/07/17 02:48 AM
1

Go to corporate and get her fired. Problem solved.
/r/seduction30/07/17 01:25 AM
1

Do you talk to girls
/r/seduction30/07/17 01:21 AM
2

Relax, people have lives and schedules to keep.
/r/seduction30/07/17 01:13 AM
1

Probably about 5 weeks at the most.
/r/seduction30/07/17 12:26 AM
4

Don't worry about it. She is justified, she doesn't like guys shorter than her, she doesn't have to explain why. Find a chick that doesn't mind. My GF is 2" taller than me.
/r/seduction29/07/17 11:52 PM
0

Look at his infield videos, he's horrible, he bores the shit out of women so the only ones left are drunken mexican chicks who anybody could score with.
/r/seduction29/07/17 09:26 PM
1

Two hours? I've driven 3 hours for pussy.
/r/seduction29/07/17 09:25 PM
1

Don't wait 3 days to contact her again.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:55 PM
1

Write a small script, more of an outline of things to talk about.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:54 PM
1

Well treat them like guys but have some decorum. I too have extreme views of things but I know how to adjust my conversation skills to suit the atmosphere.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:53 PM
1

Mystery is autistic, thats why his "method" is so mechanical and detailed. Autists like little details, perhaps too much.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:51 PM
1

Its a bar, lots of folks are there by themselves, the usual thing is if you're alone you sit at the bar, if you are with friends you sit at a table or booth.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:50 PM
2

What are you waiting for?
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:49 PM
1

There are few women at metal concerts, go to see bands that chicks like, more women in the audience.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:48 PM
1

I was 33 and dated an 18 year old once. The age gap can be problematic, mainly because teen girls think differently than adult women.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:46 PM
1

Pretend they are guys. Ever notice how relaxed you are around your guy friends?
/r/seduction29/07/17 06:58 PM
3

Going after 16 year olds? Creepy!
/r/seduction29/07/17 06:50 PM
1

Okay thats legitimately creepy.
/r/seduction29/07/17 12:06 AM
4

Why did you leave, its no big deal to show up un-announced. Dating a month is a long time.
/r/seduction29/07/17 12:05 AM
3

You think too much. DO
/r/seduction28/07/17 11:35 PM
3

next time phrase it as a STATEMENT. "We should go out sometime".
/r/seduction28/07/17 11:27 PM
4

How old are you
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:43 PM
1

Pussy
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:18 PM
1

Meh, she has no chance with her crush anyway.
/r/seduction28/07/17 06:27 AM
1

Ask her to hook you up with her friend, women love to do that.
/r/seduction28/07/17 06:22 AM
2

Forget about those guys who claim "don't shit where you eat". Office romances (in your case restaurant romances) happen all the time, moreso than you would think. The only real rule is don't date your boss and don't date a subordinate, and definitely don't date the boss's daughter unless you have plans to marry her. Other than that go for it.
/r/seduction28/07/17 06:08 AM
2

You're not entertaining a japanese businessman, you're on a date. Why not wine in a hot tub, jetted tub or plain tub if you're poor.
/r/seduction28/07/17 06:04 AM
4

You probably thought you had done better than you actually did on such dates. You did sound a bit pissy on that 2nd text chat. It makes you come off as a weak man if you don't get what you want over something as minor as her bringing a friend.
/r/seduction28/07/17 03:47 AM
1

You sound rather feminine, that turns off a lot of women, well nearly all of them unless they have a dominance fetish. Male romanticism is based on power, strength and treating the women like she is something extra special in his mind, to be protected and cherished.
/r/seduction28/07/17 03:39 AM
2

generally I don't, unless she does first.
/r/seduction28/07/17 02:48 AM
2

Force yourself.
/r/seduction28/07/17 02:47 AM
0

No its because you're 20. Facial hair looks terrible for the most part, women prefer clean shaven.
/r/seduction28/07/17 02:16 AM
1

Just be mature for your age, eventually you will find a woman that isn't too worried about a tiny 2 year age gap.
/r/seduction28/07/17 02:15 AM
1

sure, why not. My present GF used to be my platonic friend.
/r/seduction27/07/17 06:16 AM
8

No shit test she was just trying to be cute. Don't be mean, be clever, funny and sexy.
/r/seduction27/07/17 06:00 AM
9

Attraction isn't always just the physical. When you get older you find this out.
/r/seduction27/07/17 05:59 AM
1

Naw thats a good weight. Enjoy it now, you will get fat when you are over 30.
/r/seduction27/07/17 05:58 AM
1

Target store, between noon and 4pm. Older women shop a lot in the afternoon.
/r/seduction27/07/17 05:57 AM
5

She was drunk and needed some dick. I doubt you will get much more.
/r/seduction27/07/17 12:07 AM
1

Just wait a bit, and pretend it never even bothered you. If you see her again wave and say hello. If she realizes you don't "need" her she will want you.
/r/seduction27/07/17 12:05 AM
1

You are not intriguing her sexually or romantically. If you don't want to be her gay shopping buddy then don't act like it. If she doesn't want to go out, make yourself scarce, just say "okay, I was interested in more than just friendship" and then don't message her anymore. Girls want what they don't have, and if they didn't want you in the first place there's little you can do.
/r/seduction26/07/17 11:39 PM
5

You just need some sex. Like oxygen, its no big deal unless you're not getting any.
/r/seduction26/07/17 11:35 PM
7

Try not making out with her on the 1st date or not having sex with her right after you meet her. I have this thing I do, it always works. I just tell her to take off her shoes, i take off mine, and we turn all the lights off in the bedroom, and we both get into bed fully clothed in complete darkness. Sometimes the radio is on at a low volume. Then, we just talk about anything and everything. No rules, you can kiss, snuggle, hold hands, caress hair, etc. This kind of intimate behavior will lock a…
/r/seduction26/07/17 02:48 AM
3

Girls are not rational, what else is new.
/r/seduction26/07/17 02:43 AM
0

Lousy sex maybe. Girls lots of times don't openly talk about it, so like when they eat at a bad restaurant they just pay the check and never come back. I've always been good at sex, so relationship loyalty has never been a problem. Girls get addicted to quality cock easily.
/r/seduction26/07/17 01:54 AM
1

And you still haven't established enough of a relationship with her that she doesn't bail on you? You are doing something really wrong.
/r/seduction26/07/17 12:45 AM
0

After seeing the guy my sister married, I am pretty sure leagues don't exist. I have no idea why she was attracted to THAT.
/r/seduction26/07/17 12:31 AM
3

You might get 1 inch out of it, any more and your legs will look odd and out of proportion.
/r/seduction26/07/17 12:29 AM
1

I just am nonchalant about it. I say my size is pretty decent, to pique their interest. Girls hate not knowing. The confidence in your reply indicates to her you are packing more than just a vienna sausage down there.
/r/seduction26/07/17 12:26 AM
1

5 weeks? By then most guys have already netflixed and chilled with her.
/r/seduction26/07/17 12:01 AM
1

Its tinder, which means you can reject with absolutely no regrets, its the digital age mon. Girls may have multiple guys they chat with at one time, and you just failed the cut for whatever reason.
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:50 PM
1

Just go see a shrink, most of the time they can figure out everything about you in an hour.
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:48 PM
1

yes its weird and borderline unethical
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:48 PM
5

Well there's this: 1) your interpretation of how the date went 2) her interpretation of how the date went Perhaps its something you do that turns them off, you might just want to be honest and ask one of those girls who decided against dating you further. They probably will be brutally honest.
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:45 PM
1

Nope. I just give them a surprise. When you have a big dick you generally don't talk about your dick, and you tend to not drive a car that compensates for small dick syndrome. Mine's just 8" it isn't a porn monster or anything but its effective. I have small feet and hands too, guess that blows that theory out of the water.
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:43 PM
7

As a skinny guy you should NOT wear skinny pants. Wear slim fit tailored pants, and for gods sake don't wear oversize shoes. Dress better, your frame is more suited to something other than t-shirts and ripped jeans. http://i01.i.aliimg.com/wsphoto/v0/32240358973_1/Spring-Autumn-Men-s-Fashion-Slim-Fitted-Blue-Denim-Blazer-Coat-Formal-Business-Unique-Stylish-Casual.jpg Thin is in, don't worry about your weight trust me you will get fat like the rest of us when you get older, enjoy being light now.
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:39 PM
4

They're not nearly as successful as they claim to be, and frankly most of them look like retards and dress like retards. The secret to picking up women: Talk to them. There I just saved you $3000.
/r/seduction25/07/17 05:35 AM
1

"Hello" yes its that easy
/r/seduction25/07/17 05:34 AM
1

Thats more than some guys in a lifetime. Don't sell yourself short. Keep at it, it gets easier. Just don't go overboard and ask 100 women a day, thats like trying to bowl 100 games and you get a sore arm, you will inevitably suck at it the remaining 90 games and will learn nothing about technique.
/r/seduction25/07/17 05:32 AM
1

Remember what you did when you romanced her that first year? Do it again.
/r/seduction25/07/17 05:30 AM
1

Maybe that says more about you than about them.
/r/seduction25/07/17 05:30 AM
3

They tend to be more defensive, you may misinterpret that as self-esteem when she's just trying to protect herself. Yes they've heard fat jokes and fat insults before, so negging is not a good idea in their case.
/r/seduction25/07/17 05:29 AM
6

If life was that black & white nobody would have problems. PUA is a scam BTW don't give them a dime for their "bootcamps".
/r/seduction25/07/17 05:27 AM
6

You chase them like you chase any other kind of girl.
/r/seduction25/07/17 03:44 AM
2

Dump her, she wants something more than meaningless dick
/r/seduction25/07/17 02:01 AM
1

How much money?
/r/seduction25/07/17 01:14 AM
1

She was a blind drunk, one of those people that go nuts when drunk and forget everything they did. I once had a psychotic mexican guy drunk off his ass at a bar invite me to go shooting deer on his ranch, gave me directions and everything. I doubt he even remembered what he said the next day.
/r/seduction25/07/17 01:12 AM
0

Watch a lot of porn, so you at least know the basics.
/r/seduction24/07/17 11:38 PM
1

Be nice to her friend, and don't worry about it, chaperones are making a comeback, mainly because of perverts, rapists, and serial killers making a comeback as well.
/r/seduction24/07/17 11:37 PM
1

Snag the guys fast, its a buyers market for them. Go after the technical major nerds, they're desperate for anything female.
/r/seduction24/07/17 11:36 PM
1

5 women isn't bad, its not a race and there is no grand prize for sleeping with the most women unless you like venereal disease.
/r/seduction24/07/17 11:35 PM
1

Don't kino at dinnertime, this isn't "50 shades of gray". its a time for talking, interacting, having fun with her and making a real connection.
/r/seduction24/07/17 11:34 PM
2

A baby is the coolest thing ever, you will find out.
/r/seduction24/07/17 11:33 PM
1

Be bold, direct and act mature for your age. Older women aren't all that interested in wasting time with dating rituals.
/r/seduction24/07/17 11:31 PM
3

Looks get your foot in the door much easier, but your charm has to kick in immediately after that.
/r/seduction24/07/17 11:31 PM
2

Dress well, dress maturely and avoid wearing anything that feminises you.
/r/seduction24/07/17 05:49 AM
13

Sure, just ask them how to use a particular exercise machine properly as an opener.
/r/seduction24/07/17 05:01 AM
2

the flaw is kino. Sometimes you just don't do it. She felt like you came on way too strong. Or....maybe she just didn't like you. Thats the part you can't control.
/r/seduction24/07/17 02:27 AM
9

"Okay" She doesn't like you, you did yer best.
/r/seduction24/07/17 02:21 AM
0

How old are the women you are talking to? If you're 50 and trying to pick up 30 year olds, just remember its an uphill battle, you are in their eyes a secondary choice compared to someone their age. Cold approaches are difficult, you are basically intruding on a person who does not expect you to. Most approaches actually start with a visual cue given from afar, a look, a nod and a smile or a few multiple glances. That is the actual opener and it is more successful because she is waiting for you …
/r/seduction23/07/17 10:28 PM
1

Forget about obsessing over IOI's. Most people have nervous habits that they do without realizing it and have nothing to do with what they're thinking.
/r/seduction23/07/17 10:24 PM
2

Go for longer hair to make your head seem less elongated and clean shaven face. Makes you mysterious and edgy. Remember to smile more and use your eyebrows when you look. I always have this habit of raising my eyebrows when listening to people, gives them advance notice that I'm locked in and interacting with them.
/r/seduction23/07/17 10:19 PM
1

She already likes you, ditch the negging. Establish your dominance by being a man, not a beta harasser
/r/seduction23/07/17 09:28 PM
2

It means you have a good photo. Nobody reads profiles
/r/seduction23/07/17 06:30 PM
6

Shower before you go out. The human body gets stinky and gross surprisingly fast, plus think about it, what if you go out, get a chick and you end up straddling her chest for a titfuck and you got a nasty smelly asshole that leaves a turd stripe on her stomach? That is why you shower before you go out.
/r/seduction23/07/17 05:22 PM
2

Thats not one of them, sorry. Perhaps you're not boring, you're just a bit too ethnic for the kind of girls you are after. You hitting on mainly white girls?
/r/seduction23/07/17 05:19 PM
11

Why do you care? With emotional maturity comes the sense of self that you don't have to use a girlfriend as a prop for your esteem.
/r/seduction23/07/17 05:13 PM
1

Do you have an accent? Only some accents are considered appealing and sexy.
/r/seduction23/07/17 04:48 PM
3

Its like speed dating, you will see 20 chicks in rapid succession but its very likely you will only connect with 1-2 at best and 0 at worst but you keep going.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:29 PM
1

Nothing wrong with being clingy, a shy girl is very sensitive to anything you do that might be interpreted as not liking her. I've dated shy girls before, one was terrified on a date because of a short (like 2 minutes) period where we didn't talk, she thought I was rejecting her. Its that kind of a thing, shy girls will need reassurances. Another good thing is to convince a shy girl to take a risk, albeit a minor one. Not rob a liquor store, but more like try a mega-banana split when she ordinar…
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:09 PM
1

Fuck gender equality, thats what has made this society turn into a bunch of effeminate vaping guys with man-buns, skinnypants and momma issues. Men are men, forget what feminists and SJWs say, women don't want nu-males with beards and gauged earrings that attend Hillary rallies.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:05 PM
2

A girl will look right at you a lot longer if she likes you, because she's fishing for a reaction from you to see if you like her.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:01 PM
1

You don't know unless you have further contact with him. A guy can say you're beautiful to your face but around his friends he can call you that 'stupid slut he fucked last night'.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:00 PM
3

I think you just waited too long, she shrugged and found another guy.
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:58 PM
4

Tinder gives people plenty of options and absolutely no regrets for rejecting people, dating without the emotional shit. Its just a numbers game so if you play you will have to deal with that.
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:48 PM
1

She's shy, yes you came on too strong. Shy girls have romantic needs, not necessarily sexual ones that they want to fill. The sex comes later because you will end up teaching her what sex really is, she doesn't even know all the aspects. You have to make her feel relaxed around you and not threatened, but protected. That makes her want to come back. She's not some horny bar girl that just wants to get ploughed and then sent home.
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:45 PM
3

Yep, bragging about his high paying job then being a selfish creep.
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:42 PM
3

The man pays, always. She's only a gold digger if she starts demanding things from you and berates you for being selfish when you're not. She also will insult you or make fun of your appearance, so at that point its time to bail. I never let my GF pay for dinner, she offers to pay but I refuse but sometimes I let her tip. Its how I establish and maintain my dominance which she really likes!
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:41 PM
1

Might have something to do with the fact he's fat, dressed poorly and has an ISIS terrorist beard. Cold approaches benefit more from a guy who is good looking or at least dresses properly and doesn't look like an autistic moron. The girl evaluates you in the first few seconds of the approach whether she wants to either escape or spend a minute talking to you. Only at that point does your pickup skills actually kick in. He's obviously too much of a tard to improve himself physically. He might try…
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:39 PM
3

"Super logical thinker". You probably are just too mechanical in your technique. You have to make a girl feel relaxed, and the only way is to "be a natural" or at least fake it. You might try a test approach/date with a female friend if you have any, and have her rate you honestly. Ever wonder why certain guys can pick up chicks so easily? Its not their technique, its their attitude, the way they compose themselves, the way they talk. They even "seduce" guys, thats why they have so many male fri…
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:33 PM
2

Remember your youth and attractiveness is a plus for an older woman, but you must temper it with maturity, because if you act like a teenaged doofus you remind her of her own kids and thats not a good thing.
/r/seduction23/07/17 06:58 AM
2

My idea of an older woman would be 30+ compared to your age. a 4 year difference is nothing. Just don't act like a teenager.
/r/seduction23/07/17 06:57 AM
-1

Whatever, ignore my decades of experience with women at your peril.
/r/seduction23/07/17 04:29 AM
1

Well its called "a girl liking you". If it bothers you then find another girl who doesn't like you.
/r/seduction23/07/17 04:07 AM
1

The hot girl always gets the most attention, deal with it.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:56 AM
1

Girls like guys unafraid to do things like that. if you're good at karaoke it can give you extra points in their book.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:55 AM
1

Blast from the past, you should have plenty to talk about from your high school days. Just stick to that and let your personality go to work. If she likes you, you will find out.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:54 AM
2

Clingy because they text you? thats a new one. Maybe you need to grow up a bit and have a more mature approach to women
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:52 AM
1

You are in the friend zone because you waited too long to act. Two years is a long time.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:51 AM
4

You just haven't found the right one yet. Perhaps you don't even know what you want, it might be time to sit down and think about that by yourself, or discuss it with a friend over a beer.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:50 AM
1

Just say you love cars and are into the technology. If you are one of those guys who do drive a muscle car just to show off then they automatically will put you in the "small penis" category. You don't wanna be there.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:49 AM
1

Ick, negging. Sounds like you did well despite that, she probably liked the way you looked. Negging is just plain silly.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:42 AM
0

She doesnt like you. Girls will suddenly become absentminded about their boyfriend if they do like you.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:41 AM
2

I have better success by NOT getting into the fuck talk so quickly. girls are so used to overly horny guys sending them bizarre messages, a guy who acts normal stands out, and seems to be more mature and appealing in their minds.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:34 AM
0

Forget about highschool, its a tiny microcosm of life and you will quickly forget about it in college. Just remember that college is where literally thousands of horny chicks go to to find dudes. Unless you hide in your dorm you will meet girls, so don't be afraid to just say hello.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:31 AM
1

If you feel relaxed and happy around her, just be relaxed and happy and the IOI's come out automatically.
/r/seduction22/07/17 08:00 PM
-3

You didn't create a real emotional connection before ramping it up, so she was surprised and stammered out an excuse. Its better to chat with her awhile and get to know her first. Generally if a girl makes a bond with you she will be the one asking for your number. If a girl you just met suddenly said "I love you lets get married", you would freak out.
/r/seduction22/07/17 07:58 PM
1

I've never had first sex on a first date, except with one girl who I had already known for 10 years. What's the hurry, a fuck isn't a close, and if you pressure her into sex you won't get a 2nd fuck or any future fucks.
/r/seduction22/07/17 07:09 PM
1

Depends. The cheek touch is a good alternative to hugging which may be too intrusive in most situations.
/r/seduction21/07/17 12:55 AM
1

Yeah there's a reason why chicks loved Patrick Swayze
/r/seduction21/07/17 12:53 AM
5

RESPONSIBILITY. That is what makes a man. Everything else is just window dressing.
/r/seduction21/07/17 12:51 AM
1

Watch actors like George Clooney and imitate
/r/seduction21/07/17 12:51 AM
13

You're only 20 dude. You might start to worry if you're 30 and it hasn't happened yet. Girls from 18-24 are horny as hell and want to hook up/relations/hitched. Keep an eye out, quit worrying about you so much, if you are too inward you will miss opportunities. Went out friday? Cool...do it every friday.
/r/seduction20/07/17 06:38 AM
1

You had feelings for her and you realized she didn't have feelings for you back. She most likely moved on, you should too.
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:55 AM
1

most cities have an asian district. I'm in the south central USA and in my city there's an asian district full of vietnamese, chinese people, asian-owned businesses. They have their own little social culture right in the middle of town. Look for it in any nearby city.
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:51 AM
3

You may have been a bit too eager, it gives off a desperate vibe. Work on your delivery which is a little cheesy. One thing too is your looks, none of the chicks may have liked the way you look so nothing you say can help, its no big deal, move on.
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:49 AM
1

Learn to control your orgasm. Most girls need more than 2 minutes to come.
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:44 AM
1

Thats the whole point.
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:42 AM
0

That comes later, when you decide to stop fucking random girls on weekends and stick to a girl you like
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:41 AM
0

You sound like everything is about YOU. Well its not. If you want a girl it has to be about her. Thats the hallmark of creepystalker guy, everything is about him.
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:40 AM
6

There's no such thing as sealing the deal. A date is not a close, a kiss is not a close, a fuck is not a close. You have to establish a vibe with her, a type of emotional connection that wants to make her be close to you. You're not even at that phase yet because you're afraid of even making your intentions known.
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:39 AM
1

Natural Selection, its cruel but its necessary
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:37 AM
-4

It helps to be good looking.
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:33 AM
2

Be honest about your age, it will come out eventually
/r/seduction19/07/17 04:25 AM
1

She's shy so YOU have to do all the hard work. She's waiting for you, don't disappoint her. Make decisions, she will let you.
/r/seduction19/07/17 04:24 AM
4

nodding, raising eyebrows on a point you agree with, blinking, quick look down at her hands, look at one eye, then nose and eye in a triangle, smile if something is humorous or clever, touch your face with your hand, rest face on fingertips with elbow on table. There are many ways to listen without the 1000 yard stare.
/r/seduction19/07/17 04:23 AM
2

Make her comfortable and she escalates. The standard chick move is for her to lay her head on your shoulder, then you respond by hugging her closer. She generally will nuzzle your cheek and you kiss her, then at that point you forget about the movie and make out.
/r/seduction19/07/17 04:21 AM
1

Its not really a bad idea, if she's attracted to you it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction19/07/17 12:58 AM
1

Isn't that the point, or do you want to go mindlessly from random partner to partner for the rest of your life until you're old and living in a 1 bedroom apartment by yourself.
/r/seduction18/07/17 02:48 AM
1

Well sounds like she never took you seriously then, if she wanted to spend more time with you she would have adjusted her schedule.
/r/seduction18/07/17 02:26 AM
1

Why did you leave? Why not just cook her breakfast or hang out with her a bit, whats the hurry? Does your dick turn back into a pumpkin after 5am? You just marked yourself as "just another dick" that comes and goes, so she doesn't think you're anything special to her. You blew it bigtime.
/r/seduction18/07/17 02:01 AM
1

learn to cook learn to do your own damn laundry you have to start acting like a man before you can be a man
/r/seduction18/07/17 12:57 AM
1

You don't need to jabber on to fill the silence. Sometimes silence is good, especially if you're doing something else like smiling at her, holding her closer or putting your arm around her and whispering "ya wanna get outa here?"
/r/seduction17/07/17 11:47 PM
3

Be good looking
/r/seduction17/07/17 06:25 AM
3

If you're nervous around her, she will be nervous around you. Work on fixing that first before escalating.
/r/seduction17/07/17 04:14 AM
2

Elliott Rodger took the attitude that if he stood around and posed, wore the best clothing and waited for women, they would come. They never came so he went on a shooting spree. I would spare you of that future.
/r/seduction17/07/17 01:30 AM
8

She's like Amy Schumer but funny
/r/seduction17/07/17 01:24 AM
1

Maybe she's actually sick. Just let her contact you when she's better.
/r/seduction17/07/17 01:09 AM
2

Just find another GF its an easy cure.
/r/seduction17/07/17 01:06 AM
1

Invite her to go get some ice cream after class.
/r/seduction17/07/17 01:04 AM
3

You look at the ones you want, and you go talk to them. Women haven't approached men for 100,000 years and they won't for the next 100,000 years. Thats your job.
/r/seduction17/07/17 01:01 AM
2

don't wait a day thats just dumb
/r/seduction16/07/17 10:04 PM
1

Chat her up while you're on break between dance classes. I chatted with a chick in a dance class once and ended up dating her within a week. Just show interest thats far more than just "whats going on", she will get the memo.
/r/seduction16/07/17 09:57 PM
8

Go to a public park but watch out for serial killers
/r/seduction16/07/17 09:38 PM
1

Generally its not a shit test its a leave me alone. If she has a boyfriend and is interested she will say something like "He's just a friend" if she mentions him at all!
/r/seduction16/07/17 07:59 PM
1

She was 9?!? Just kidding
/r/seduction16/07/17 07:49 PM
1

Work on your own self-image first. Improving your appearance and dress can work wonders for confidence.
/r/seduction16/07/17 07:45 PM
2

Nope, every decade provides you with new dating possibilities. You are now moving towards MILF age, where women care less about dating rituals and more about real action.
/r/seduction16/07/17 07:40 PM
4

Ask your friend who is she and get her info through intermediaries
/r/seduction16/07/17 03:47 PM
-2

Go to a seedy motel that charges by the hour
/r/seduction16/07/17 03:22 PM
1

They're not testing you they're evaluating you, just like how guys evaluate chicks.
/r/seduction11/07/17 04:24 AM
1

Dating multiple women: Good luck!
/r/seduction11/07/17 04:23 AM
2

Strauss is a bald short guy with a nasally voice and a stutter. Come on folks he's just a scammer like the rest of'em. The ONLY reason you are having success is because you actually went out and talked to girls, not because Neil had any magic wisdom nuggets to share.
/r/seduction11/07/17 04:22 AM
1

Any town with a party college
/r/seduction11/07/17 04:21 AM
1

That didn't go over too well with Congressman Anthony Weiner. Give her an abs shot, if you don't have abs, get abs. chicks go nuts over built chests.
/r/seduction11/07/17 04:19 AM
9

Be nice to her, get to know her. The more you realize she's a real person rather than pussy on a pedestal you will be less worried about standing near her.
/r/seduction11/07/17 03:33 AM
3

Mongamy ain't bad in short timespans.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 03:04 AM
2

Live in the moment, its far to easy to pull inwards and live in your own bubble in your head as you go through life.
/r/seduction11/07/17 12:14 AM
1

You are perceived as a ladies man and hot women want exclusivity. if you're pulling 35 chicks a year don't expect much from the more demanding 10's.
/r/seduction11/07/17 12:13 AM
1

You want what you can't have. The cookies in the jar tasted better because mom said they were off limits.
/r/seduction11/07/17 12:11 AM
1

Don't ask for a date when you're dropping her off, do it before, and don't ask for it, make it a statement. "I want to see you again..." It never hurts to hold her hands in yours when you say that.
/r/seduction10/07/17 04:05 AM
5

Maybe she is too good for you, introduce her to a friend you feel is sufficient to match her worth.
/r/seduction10/07/17 04:03 AM
6

date girls with single horny friends. girls generally don't want to bring strangers into a 3-some. I had a threesome with an asian chick who had a single cuban best friend, I just brought it up in casual convo and she almost immediately thought of somebody, her friend. They both were reasonably attractive, flexible and had serious stamina.
/r/seduction10/07/17 03:56 AM
23

Him: What if he is 6' but his dick is 2"
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 03:49 AM
2

Is she digging a hole in the backyard?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 03:45 AM
33

its similiar to picking up chicks. In a bar, just say "sup, man" to a guy sitting next to you, strike up a convo, say something like "where are all the chicks around here?" etc. Just don't have sex with him.
/r/seduction10/07/17 12:51 AM
0

Just keep doing what your doing, eventually she will want to do it. Just make sure to keep a survival pack handy when she does (condoms, spermicidal cream). Don't force her to do anything she doesn't want, unless you want to be a rapist.
/r/seduction10/07/17 12:49 AM
12

Get a nick name, whats the big deal.
/r/seduction10/07/17 12:41 AM
1

Don't use liquor as a crutch, wean yourself off it
/r/seduction09/07/17 10:00 PM
2

Girls prefer sunken cheeks, it indicates low bodyfat and a higher possibility of visible abs and a small tight butt. Look at all the male models faces what do they have in common.
/r/seduction09/07/17 09:31 PM
3

I wouldn't call a girl every 20 days a success, do they even hang around or do they leave you 3 weeks after knowing you?
/r/seduction09/07/17 03:58 PM
3

Lots of folks are blackout drunks, you just don't know until you find out the hard way
/r/seduction09/07/17 03:20 PM
5

I can't find any rape culture, because I've yet to find a place to send my membership fees.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 02:50 PM
3

Generally, no. Your skull doesn't change very much after adolescence, but your face fat does. You can recover your younger jawline by simply losing weight.
/r/seduction08/07/17 11:25 PM
2

Not really, I did a 45 year old chick who never had kids, her pussy was as tight as a 17 year olds. its the babymaking that makes it loose
/r/MGTOW08/07/17 10:35 PM
1

Basically what I'm trying to say is if you don't know what you want, you won't bother looking. I like professional business type women, nerdy women, light skin goth types, short with glasses, shy girls, smart girls, or a combination of any of those. That allows me to filter out any chick I really don't care about. I dont like bleach blonde party chicks, country girls, black girls (sue me) or leftwing hippys. Why approach a girl i know I will never like after I get to know her?
/r/seduction08/07/17 03:10 AM
2

I'm talking about a "type" not just physical. Nerdy girls, party girls, fit girls, girls with dreams, wears glasses, has a ponytail, bookworms, poltically active, etc and/or a mix of various types together. Form that in your head, then look for a girl that seems like that, then approach.
/r/seduction08/07/17 03:04 AM
1

That picture solidifies in her mind who you are, so make it a good one. I once posted a pic of me wearing a biker jacket (it was a gift, sue me) and chicks asked me "sexy, you ride?", "a harley man eh?". I don't even own a harley but you can see the power of just a piece of clothing that presents a strong masculine image.
/r/seduction08/07/17 02:55 AM
1

I never introduce myself, I'm not selling her a car. If you chat with a girl and things go well you will end up doing the name things eventually. The opener really has a true purpose, to give HER time to evaluate how you look, your poise and confidence so she has enough information to make the decision to keep talking to you. Looks count, always, don't be fooled by PUA coaches. Heck, the whole reason you even approached her was because you thought SHE was good looking. Forget about kiss closes, …
/r/seduction08/07/17 02:52 AM
1

she may have not updated her profile ya know!
/r/seduction08/07/17 02:45 AM
1

What kind of girl do you like? You should have at least a kind of mental image of her.
/r/seduction08/07/17 02:44 AM
1

Some advice: One thing at a time! If you want to go to the gym to improve your body, work ONLY on that, don't get distracted with worries about learning pickup or social mores and how to pour a drink and what music to like and whatnot. Do one thing, do it well and then move on to the next. That stairstep of goals is self-rewarding and enables you to move on to the next thing with successes behind you that motivate.
/r/seduction08/07/17 02:39 AM
1

Public libraries, mainly in the romance novel section. I dated a librarian who was a total nerd, picked her up in the library actually...
/r/seduction08/07/17 02:34 AM
3

Girth over length, thats what short dick guys are told. LIES ALL LIES.
/r/MGTOW07/07/17 11:12 PM
10

Girls will dump a 6 ft. chad for a short guy with a long dick. They're even more superficial than you think.
/r/MGTOW07/07/17 05:18 AM
2

Crushing society that does not reward individuality or family. The suicide rate is pretty incredible in Japan, there is even a suicide forest popular with people who want to kill themselves.
/r/MGTOW07/07/17 05:16 AM
1

First day of class, wave to her to sit next to you. One thing about the beginning of the semester is other guys are on the "hunt", so claim your prize now.
/r/seduction07/07/17 05:11 AM
-1

If you truly enjoy her company then there's no need to be scared of a bit of commitment. I figure you're in your teens or early 20s so "commitment" means something different than if you are like a full blown adult. Just get her a nice necklace and tell her that as long as she wears it, she belongs to you. Girls really like those little mementos with meaning. You're not marrying her or anything, don't freak out, girls like having a guy mean something more to them than a dick and balls.
/r/seduction07/07/17 05:10 AM
2

Next time just relax and let it happen.
/r/seduction07/07/17 12:18 AM
1

Bucket list item: double suck
/r/seduction07/07/17 12:15 AM
7

in your stateroom, what are you a stowaway? if you have a room-mate give him $10 and tell him to disappear for an hour, you're busy with a chick.
/r/seduction06/07/17 08:24 AM
1

What if I don't want a 10/10 babe I just want a nice girl.
/r/seduction06/07/17 08:23 AM
2

Cruises are great, the chicks want to find guys. Hang out at the pool, the bar(s), do the karaoke, sometimes you get paired up with chicks at the captain's dinners where they have groups of people sharing a table, there's usually a disco too, a cigar bar or a cabaret. hang out by the railings look for chicks.
/r/seduction06/07/17 08:21 AM
1

For the most part, no. Girls want to be left alone to exercise. They are working out so they can be pretty later on after they have showered and dressed up. The gym tends to be more of a gay hookup place.
/r/seduction06/07/17 08:18 AM
1

plus his dick is huge, paprazzi found that out
/r/seduction06/07/17 08:17 AM
5

I think small dildos should be BANNED. They represent boy penises and women are buying them, because they are pedophiles and want to enjoy a tiny penis dildo inside them rather than a regular man-sized penis dildo.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 07:38 AM
3

You did great.
/r/seduction06/07/17 05:58 AM
1

Makes sense. In a reverse scenario, a guy notices a girl that is surrounded by other guys chatting with her, because they are wondering what makes her so great and they want to get in on the action to find out why.
/r/seduction06/07/17 05:56 AM
2

Get to know them first, if a girl likes you she will give you the "vibe". learn how to detect a girl who's crushing on you
/r/seduction05/07/17 11:38 PM
9

You're 20 you can fight in a war and you are worried about getting a motel room? Just get one, its great for quick lays.
/r/seduction05/07/17 11:35 PM
1

Just give them money. https://youtu.be/W25_jgiY51I
/r/seduction05/07/17 11:32 PM
1

She may like you and is just shy.
/r/seduction05/07/17 11:32 PM
3

Do exactly what a girl does when she friendzones YOU.
/r/seduction05/07/17 11:31 PM
1

Replace it with a bottle of wine and it becomes a date a chick would want.
/r/seduction05/07/17 11:30 PM
2

Telling her off is a pure beta male move, don't do it. Just wait for a response, if you don't get it, move on.
/r/seduction05/07/17 07:18 AM
0

You acted a little bitchy. Chicks don't like that.
/r/seduction05/07/17 04:12 AM
1

Go for it, you can't get her pregnant so the sex will be condom free and as much as you can handle. The pills they take for hot flashes make them extremely horny.
/r/seduction05/07/17 04:09 AM
4

Natural selection favors the bold.
/r/seduction05/07/17 04:07 AM
6

Act mature, be confident, and don't worry about gaming, negging, IOI's or other PUA tactics. They don't have time for that garbage, they want what they want without all the giggly teen stuff. Just remember they have seen a lot more of life than you, so don't try to impress them with your travels, just use your youth and vigor to your advantage. They initially may find you amusing and not treat you seriously but if you continue to communicate with them they will get the message.
/r/seduction05/07/17 04:06 AM
2

She might be a single mom, watch out
/r/seduction05/07/17 03:41 AM
1

About 25% in terms of getting a girl to be my GF.
/r/seduction05/07/17 03:39 AM
1

Strippers are generally hookers on the side, she was drumming up business.
/r/seduction04/07/17 11:29 PM
2

She will evaluate you during the date.
/r/seduction04/07/17 09:08 PM
1

he's israeli not italian his real name is Eben Pagan and he's a marketer
/r/seduction04/07/17 07:59 PM
1

She turned me down....all women are the fucking same! bitches
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 07:47 PM
33

Women always get a pussy pass in the legal system
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 07:47 PM
1

DeAngelo sucks, just my honest opinion. his video series was about 10 minutes of useful information spread out over 6 hours.
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:56 PM
2

You're in the cereal aisle, she has a box of cereal in her hand, walk up to her and say "oh man that was my favorite cereal as a child". Boom an opener, non threatening and it makes her think and give her the opportunity to chat with you about your childhood. Now if you walked up to her and said "do you like vodka spritzers" then she would think you're a psycho
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:54 PM
1

Remember the Fonz from the TV show Happy Days. he was a kid from a broken home and lived alone (remember the thanksgiving episode) yet he was popular and feared. He never actually fought anybody because people were scared to (could he actually fight?) and he was legendary with women....because he was legendary with women. Nobody disputed it. Mind game.
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:51 PM
1

build yourself a mental list of small talk topics and integrate it with your dynamic "situational conversation" topics based on where you actually are. this means you must be very aware of where you are at and paying attention to things around you, which can be tough for the uninitated. That means if you're at a supermarket you talk supermarket you don't ask her what kind of mixed drinks she likes.
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:47 PM
2

hear, hear. PUA has always been a scam, and like the white van scam it keeps working because there's a new crop of suckers every season. 99% of a guys real success comes from the fact he actually talked to a girl rather than stayed at home and played X-box. The other 1% came from when mom introduced him to a daughter of a work friend. The good thing about this site is not the PUA scammers but the large group of guys willing to give practical experiences and teach the naive about what NOT TO DO, …
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:45 PM
4

Well i did forget most of the guys here are teenagers.
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:21 PM
5

I go to Applebees, the 2 for $25 is high quality food at low prices in a family friendly environment.
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:14 PM
1

Sell your console to a friend who doesn't want to date girls. Buy a nice big-screen TV or some things for your apartment to modernize it and make it more appealing to women. Throw away your nudie posters, clean everything, change the bed sheets, scrub the toilet, make your bedroom look like something a woman would want to sleep in. This will help you prepare to get into single guy hunting for women mode. 1 Corinthians 13:11 "When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thou…
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:13 PM
3

If your relationship is tight with her, she will just think its comical anyway that some other dude is macking on her and you two will share a smirk as the loser PUA trys his routines on her. If your relationship is tenuous at best, then you really need to work on that much more, not get into fisticuffs with him.
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:08 PM
5

Don't be embarrassed about such a thing.
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:05 PM
2

Don't go in with lofty expectations. This is what people mean when they say "just be yourself".
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:03 PM
6

Live and learn, thats how ya do it.
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:03 PM
1

downvote them?
/r/seduction04/07/17 06:02 PM
0

well if she didn't respond you obviously didn't number close. Why would you think a number is even a "close". Girls hand out numbers all the time because they know they can ignore/block or just give you a wrong number or the # to the radio station's "loser line". 15 minutes is not enough to establish a real communication with a girl. You went in, got the number and bailed. She forgot you 10 minutes later. A better strategy would be to go in, get the #, hang around a bit and invite her for coffee…
/r/seduction04/07/17 05:59 PM
2

20-30 bucks? Do you live in nigeria? 30 bucks doesn't even get you dinner for 2 at Chili's.
/r/seduction04/07/17 05:54 PM
1

If she hangs around you for the entire occasion you're in good shape. Don't do any escalation, you're in the communication phase. The best way to ruin it is to grab titties. If you two genuinely like each other then there's no need for games.
/r/seduction04/07/17 05:53 PM
0

Wait until her internship is over, then date her. Its okay to office date, but never date in your chain of command.
/r/seduction04/07/17 05:51 PM
1

Naw the work world offers many opportunites for dating.
/r/seduction04/07/17 05:49 PM
1

Did you have fun? cool.
/r/seduction04/07/17 05:48 PM
4

Well they're escorts. If you think they have anything to do with a real actual human interaction you're deluded. They exist to get you off and take your money. Thats why the "girlfriend experience" costs so much compared to a basic screw, and the escorts hate to do it and most refuse. In fact, she was a middle school teacher and only did escort work on the side because "she needs to have sex every other day" and her partner doesn't do it often enough for her. And you believed that BS? They say l…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 01:47 AM
1

How can a part-flip guy get with the white chicks.
/r/seduction04/07/17 01:41 AM
5

Drop enough acid and you can become president too
/r/seduction04/07/17 01:15 AM
1

Its hard to get a cashier unless there's already an attraction and that is all nonverbal interaction.
/r/seduction04/07/17 01:05 AM
2

Not if your technique is terrible. The methods he uses guarantee failure.
/r/seduction03/07/17 07:07 AM
2

The mall, its where young girls who can't drink yet go to find guys. Women love to shop so they're already in a good mood, surrounded by a neverending fantasyland of stuff to buy.
/r/seduction03/07/17 04:12 AM
3

Dating multiple women is a nightmare if you are over 21.
/r/seduction03/07/17 04:10 AM
3

You can't get a homerun if you refuse to swing the bat at all. The trick is not to get the number but establish a real communication. Numbers mean nothing, thats why so many on here are happy when they get a number then are confused when the girl "flakes" and blocks them or never calls back. If you can establish that communication, she will hunt you down even if you don't demand the digits from her. You may end up with a friend telling you "oh by the way so and so told me her friend wants to get…
/r/seduction03/07/17 04:09 AM
5

its just a common tactic of making yourself scarce, not really friend zoning. if a girl seems to be not wanting you around, quit interacting with her. it makes her curious as to why and she may very well desire the attention she no longer has.
/r/seduction03/07/17 04:01 AM
1

I wouldn't be too concerned about foot position. People have body language they do out of habit. I am pretty relaxed when I eat but I cross and tuck my legs in very tightly when I sit down, it has nothing to do with stress its just something I do without even thinking. Some girls cross their legs and bounce because they are nervous or they always do that when texting, it doesn't necessarily mean their foot is pointed towards you because they like you. I guess FBI tactics will work on a girl if y…
/r/seduction03/07/17 03:59 AM
1

why do nerds form chess clubs?
/r/seduction02/07/17 08:26 PM
2

Club conversations tend to always be the same, so just get good at those topics. (talking about drinking, dancing, clothing, friends, partying, etc.).
/r/seduction02/07/17 08:25 PM
2

Search for what you want, don't be content with what you have.
/r/seduction02/07/17 08:23 PM
1

Don't read too much pickup stuff it will clutter your mind. Pick one and follow it.
/r/seduction02/07/17 08:22 PM
1

If life was fair I would be a rich physician, have a blonde trophy wife and own a Lexus. So far the only thing I have is the Lexus.
/r/seduction02/07/17 08:21 PM
1

Gotta have the right attitude, for example Approach 2: Girl is dancing near me Me: Hi. You're cute. Her: You've got no chance!! Me: "Okay!" wild eyed then dance off. I don't approach on the dance floor, its hard to not be awkward. I do what animals have been doing for millions of years, I do my dancing in front of them to impress, like how some fish wiggle to show off their shiny scales to prospective females. I may point at them to say "Hey look at me". Its outrageous and sometimes comical but …
/r/seduction02/07/17 08:14 PM
1

Turn off ALL the lights, pitch black room. I've dated girls that were fine with the lights on (I prefer seeing them naked) and a few that were self-conscious so the lights had to be completely out.
/r/seduction02/07/17 08:06 PM
1

If a girl came up to you and grabbed your balls and said lets fuck would you think of her as a possible romantic girlfriend to take to italy? or would you be offended and weirded out.
/r/seduction02/07/17 08:04 PM
1

tinder gives girls huge opportunities for multiple dates, so they often "triage" aka filter out the dates they would rather not go on to save time. You probably got triaged.
/r/seduction02/07/17 08:03 PM
2

If she likes you she will lean towards you to try and reduce personal distance, so you should do the same. Even a shoulder touch is meaningful. If you have a drink you share, have you hold the cup as she sucks from the straw, its more sexy, make sure you are looking at her too. Sharing candy also offers the opportunity for hands to touch, and anything involving the mouth can be very sexy, such as her chewing on a twizzler or her offering you a piece of candy as she puts it in your mouth.
/r/seduction02/07/17 08:01 PM
1

Meeks actually is a smart guy but he came from a crappy family and grew up in crime. With his success he states he's turned his back on his checkered past and looks forward to the future. Maybe his wife is part of that checkered past, who knows. BTW chicks like that, guys who are positive and optimistic.
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:57 PM
3

You've had sex, you darn well better give her a bear hug and a romantic kiss when you two leave the next morning. Sex is a transition to a more serious level of relationship, or at least its meant to be, unless you are one of those mindless folks going from bed to bed desperately looking for personal validation through numbers of women you slept with.
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:55 PM
1

No, surprise her with big benis. Don't reveal your prize beforehand
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:53 PM
1

I like women, even the crazy ones. Not all of them like me but they're missing out on 8" dick.
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:44 PM
2

You are doing it wrong, you have to be "sexy" about your refusal. I once denied sex to a girl, but I told her NEXT week, an implicit promise. I didn't give a weepy emotional reason for it I just made it a tease, so she flicked her bean for a week until I finally laid down the man-pipe. Sex is a very emotional thing, its not just the mechanics of in-out. It can bring 2 people very close together if they're willing.
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:40 PM
1

She just didn't like you. Attraction isn't rational otherwise we would trade GPA averages, salaries and family tree diagrams on dates. I've been on many a date that was just meh, i could call to tell them i had fun but I knew nothing was going to come of it. No spark, no fire.
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:37 PM
2

I still can't figure out why "Campus Police" exist. Campus is nothing special compared to non-campus, its not a special district with different rules. Campus police are often less trained to deal with crime too compared to regular beat cops.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 11:08 PM
5

When these things happen ALWAYS lawyer-up, and don't talk to the school, let your legal counsel do it. Something as simple as legal hate mail can be more than enough to dissuade any accuser if they know they're lying. This pretty much goes for everything, don't talk to the cops, don't talk trying to defend yourself without some legal advice first, its a minefield for the innocent.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 11:06 PM
14

Its not the beard, its the fact he can kill 23 guys attacking him at once.
/r/seduction01/07/17 10:53 PM
3

One other thing don't approach from behind, if you're walking up to her say at the mall, walk up to her so she can see you and look at her with a smile as you approach. This gives her a few seconds to prepare for you. Nothing is more jarring than somebody sneaking up behind you.
/r/seduction01/07/17 10:51 PM
4

Never say 'excuse me', you're apologizing for existing to a stranger, and she probably thinks you're a salesman so she immediately pops into defensive mode (as we all do when somebody wanting to sell us something approaches us) If you really want to do the swooned european guy approach, just walk up to her and say "hello, you are amazingly beautiful (give her a bit to soak that in) my name is ________. Compliment her hair, or clothing, etc then do some chit chat but DO NOT ask for her name or ph…
/r/seduction01/07/17 10:37 PM
1

Tinder is short attention span dating, deal with it.
/r/seduction01/07/17 10:31 PM
3

Don't get so angry, she may very well be a busy person. If you see her on a regular basis anyway just keep saying hi and being that guy she chatted and had fun with. Remember "nice guys" are the ones that get all evil and mean when things don't go exactly according to their mental scenarios. Even if a girl turns down your romantic overtures, many of them will still be friendly as a way of letting you down gently, although you may interpret it as some sort of devious trick and joke. In other word…
/r/seduction01/07/17 10:29 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction01/07/17 05:56 AM
2

If you believe in feminine penis
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 04:31 AM
4

I have a friend that does this, he's a real goober, but he pulls off this shy guy thing and can get a ring of girls around him in 10 minutes after arriving at a club. I'm a bit different I'm more the laid back guy and I introduce him to girls, then he does his shy guy magic. What kills game is a shy guy locks up mentally, when he should be using his shyness as a positive aspect.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:58 AM
3

These days that really is a concern.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:50 AM
1

Many of them are uber-nerds so they will love any attention you give them. The ladder of attraction still exists though, you will do better if you are more handsome than the guys around you.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:50 AM
2

Hands is not too much, in fact that should be your first "kino" ( hate that word ). if you refuse to touch her you are sending a bad bad signal. If you are afraid of hand to hand contact do the elbow thing so she can grab onto it. its classic and girls rarely refuse it.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:48 AM
3

Any girl that does this is either trying to sell me something or is preparing to stab me.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:45 AM
1

You're 25, sheesh you are a toddler. Wait until that number is doubled then you can say you have a real life. You're still in your awkward young guy phase, trust me it goes away and you become a man, usually kicks in around 30.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:43 AM
1

Musta been good I missed it
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:42 AM
1

Start talking about your life and share some of your experiences, even if its dirtbikes, but I recommend something more interesting, such as travel or stuff you have done recently.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:41 AM
2

Go for flan instead. One problem with creme brulee is it is greasy. You don't want to get mealymouthed on a date. A good basic picnic basket is crusty bread thin sliced dried ham (spanish or italian) hard cheese semisweet wine (most chicks hate dry wine) fresh fruit A nice dessert like flan, the smoky flavor contrasts with the sweet egg custard. Girls like picnics. I even had a picnic with a girl once on my living room floor.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:37 AM
3

Responses to when she wants to see you: "Sure, id love to see you. When are you free?" What days are you free? Let me know when you're free. Not recommended, set a date day/time/place first and see if she says ok. If she's interested she will counter with a different day/time/place. Girls will make time if they like you unless its something they can't get out of. I ask my GF when she's free ONLY because we have been dating awhile and we do both juggle schedules, and I don't have to worry about s…
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:33 AM
9

JUST BE A SHY GUY, don't be embarassed. Lots of girls like the aw shucks shy kind of guy. Just remember to smile and affirm your shyness rather than be stonefaced like a robot.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:23 AM
1

She can block you too, a number trade means nothing.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:22 AM
1

Not necessarily. Just don't disappear after she gets your number, continue the chat and build an emotional bond with her. Thats what gets you a callback. Example: I danced ONCE with a chick, I don't know what I did but she liked me a lot so she blurted out "i really need your number!" I had no pen so I scribbled it on paper with a car key which gives barely readable text. And yes she called. Her enthusiasm was a positive sign. Now if she seems very standoffish well thats a warning sign.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:21 AM
2

Not all women are the same, pickup is a crapshoot. One girl is a party girl, the other is shy, another is a relationship only type, the other is a lunatic, and another has sworn off men, unless they're cute. The truth is that the "game" is not really a game. The goal is pairing up, what men and women have been doing since we lost our tails. If you just PUA throughout life you will end up like those 60 year old male porn stars, who fucked 10,000 women but never got into a relationship that matter…
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:16 AM
7

You have to be funny and clever and since you are a guy avoid writing small novels and don't ever use emojis. Also stay away from sex talk, girls deal with that almost daily from horny guys. I once had a girl date me BECAUSE I didn't start talking about sex, I actually showed genuine interest in her.
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:12 AM
1

Good approach but a suggestion, don't introduce yourself and don't ask for her name either. me: Hey how are you, it sure is slow around here Her: sure is me: (order a beverage, say a hard cider) Not a beer person, but apple juice is good, alcoholic juice is even better. Her: (hopefully she smiles at this small joke) at this point the really small talk begins, after she is interested in you she will give you her name willingly and you can give her your name. 2nd approach: okay, but a little probi…
/r/seduction01/07/17 01:02 AM
1

You probably were a bit too forward. I once had a teller hit on me, she had moved to a different branch and I'm a roaming guy I tend do do all my banking only in person at various branches, so she saw me at the new branch and struck up a convo unrelated to banking and finance. I really didn't pursue it because I was in a relationship at the time, but the lesson to learn is if you will be seeing her regularly in an official capacity, just get to know her and be a "regular" before you get into ask…
/r/seduction01/07/17 12:55 AM
20

Have fun and don't PUA her you don't need to.
/r/seduction01/07/17 12:49 AM
2

Tell her you've been busy, but don't be mean about it. Ask her what she needs, to force her to fess up as to why she is messaging you. If she offers something without asking like 2 tickets to a movie or an outing just say you will check your calendar and get back with her. Wait about 6 hours then say okay. let her take you out on a date, lavish attention to you. Don't outright ignore her though, feed her little bits of attention so she's being rewarded for her behavior like a Pavlovian dog.
/r/seduction30/06/17 05:03 AM
3

She wasn't shit testing you she just didnt like you. Welcome to the world where not everybody bends over backwards for your feelings
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:31 AM
1

I'm saying you need to work on your conversation game. You can't just delude yourself thinking you closed a girl by getting a phone number. A dozen texts doesn't offset the fact you didn't actually make a real connection to her, you are just this guy who keeps texting her.
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:17 AM
1

Well basically you're a secondary choice for a young woman. Since you're nearly 50 you have an uphill battle if you're trying to pull a chick in her 20's. Is it bad, well she doesn't have to justify to you or anybody if she doesn't like older men, so I suggest moving on. I'm no young pup either and I've come to the realization I can no longer get young chicks no matter how young I still look.
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:15 AM
1

16cm isn't huge but these girls have either seen a LOT of penises or few, so the chance is either they won't notice the difference or they will just chalk it up as an average one and go to town on it anyway. Just chill dude, bring some alcohol, food and tunes and let them welcome you to their house, be a good and courteous guest and remember its like a party, but its YOUR party.
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:11 AM
1

I did try and stay longer, I just ran out of shit to say or felt what I said want good enough. There ya go...
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:08 AM
1

You tend to gain friendships through work circles after college.
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:08 AM
2

I don't think she's up for it, knowing you will be gone in less than a week.
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:08 AM
2

Nothing is a slam dunk, we are talking about women here. You have no idea what her situation is, she could have a BF and is cheating, or she is in an LTR and they're temporarily apart and you're the "other guy" blah. She could have just changed her mind, people do that. If its been 3 days then its possible she doesn't want to see you again. Hit her up with one last text but not a needy one, if she doesn't respond or gives you the "dear john" text then you know.
/r/seduction30/06/17 01:04 AM
2

Your parents
/r/seduction30/06/17 01:01 AM
2

Were you a victim of abuse as a child?
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:59 AM
1

Women get a bushel of chats per day, so it can be tough to be treated like chaff when you hoped you were wheat. The chat itself must be something special to them. If your chats are too generic you sound like every other guy they talk to and you get rated solely on your picture (you did pick a good one I hope). Don't get into sex convo too quickly, girls don't like random guys already saying stuff like they want to munch her muffin 4 minutes into the convo.
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:58 AM
1

Funny face game
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:53 AM
3

I think in the gay world rules are probably different.
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:52 AM
1

She means nerdy as in cuteguy nerdy, not nerdy as in level 70 mage red neckbeard wearing a fedora, cape and sucking on a vape. just roll with it, its working.
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:51 AM
1

this I gotta hear
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:49 AM
0

Be bold, walk right up to her when she lets you in her apartment and look straight into her eyes (close distance) and say "hey what's goin on". make sure you have an mischievous look on your face. If she doesn't want to deal with the time wasting particulars she will definitely escalate immediately. Don't kino though! Intimate closeness distance is more than enough for this tactic.
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:48 AM
6

Yes women get nervous, and if you can make them relax and feel good about themselves just by being around you, your success rate skyrockets.
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:45 AM
2

What frustrates me is that women rarely know what they really want.
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:44 AM
2

There's this general perception that asian guys are more feminine, and for the most part they are. Thats not very appealing to a white chick if you're trying to go for them. You have to be more mysterious, more male, more confident. Most asian guys I know give off a weakness vibe, like they're never sure of themselves. There are exceptions though... https://nextshark.com/korean-president-bodyguard-choi-young-jae-shirtless-photos/ You need to have that perfect mix of mystery, approachability and …
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:42 AM
1

So you got her number and then bailed on her, you lost her from that point on regardless of your "number close". Why not hang around her longer and try to build more of a memorable connection in her mind. As David Wygant says, girls hand out numbers like they hand out tampons to their friends, do you want to be a tampon?
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:37 AM
1

Don't think anything of it, some women flub lines intended to be humor just like guys do.
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:34 AM
1

You're sucking face with girls that only want that, a bit of action and then go home to their cat. If you want something more you have to give something more than just an ass rubbing and a tongue drill.
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:32 AM
3

Put your hand in his face and say "No thank you I don't want to save 20% on my car insurance".
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:21 AM
1

She's just a ho. Its a job for her, she's not doleing out life lessons to young inexperienced men, she's draining their balls and getting rent money. You think too damn much.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:18 AM
2

Closets can be fun, or garage attics.
/r/seduction29/06/17 07:14 AM
1

Some chicks like virginity because there's a zero chance you will give her AIDS or vaginal warts. its practicality in their minds
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:02 AM
1

He was really really good looking http://i.imgur.com/p9iZjO3.jpg
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 04:36 AM
11

Its a matter of giving her less than what she needs. People want what they can't have, and they want more of what they don't get enough of.
/r/seduction29/06/17 03:01 AM
1

Don't do it again. You obviously don't want pointless loveless sex, you want something more. You aren't going to get that from an escort.
/r/seduction29/06/17 03:00 AM
2

Older women like the direct approach, they're not giggly teens.
/r/seduction29/06/17 02:10 AM
0

its more fun with friends
/r/seduction28/06/17 08:05 PM
2

Thats a toughie, your competition are a bunch of young, very fit men. Women have a buyer's market. Just toss your hat into the ring and hope for the best.
/r/seduction28/06/17 07:13 PM
2

Drop the gauntlet and say you want more, you want a real commitment. You will either get a yes or a no but at least you will get something. You don't want to be stuck in a Dr. Strange time loop of ennui forever.
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:37 PM
1

Exposure therapy is good, but it can be tough.
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:34 PM
1

Tell the girl you were jumped by bikers and you hurt your leg.
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:41 AM
1

Fedora, or just daygame on cloudy days
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:39 AM
1

Think of yourself as a lion. Focus on her, not yourself, which is why you're freaking out. Get into 'romance mode'. Be bold but be fun.
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:38 AM
6

I think you're being far too negative in your mind. You have way too many expectations as to what should have just been a night out with a chick, no big thing. You needed to relax, have fun and not be so tense around her, she felt it and got cold as a result. Your big screwup was when you ASKED her "Do you want to cuddle?". Say what??? You didn't make any attempt to draw her closer (its not a physical thing its a mental thing) and she felt your negative nervous vibe. Best thing to do is just wat…
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:33 AM
2

Get into an approach mindset. If you start living in your own little bubble you shut people out, whether intentionally or unintentionally, and you end up doing exactly what you are describing.
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:25 AM
1

"Hey girls..." its that easy.
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:24 AM
1

Hopefully she didn't see your boner
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:22 AM
6

Sit as far away from her as a joke, when she gets angry just smile then park your butt close to her while munching your popcorn
/r/seduction27/06/17 06:28 PM
2

I've dated a few shy girls, they're fragile but its well worth it.
/r/seduction27/06/17 06:15 AM
2

No I was just contrasting how men and women differ when describing sex. Woman: "We made love all night and hugged" Man: "Fucked the shit out of her, dude!"
/r/seduction27/06/17 02:59 AM
2

Well that was romantic
/r/seduction27/06/17 01:23 AM
2

Fat chicks need lovin too
/r/seduction27/06/17 01:21 AM
5

SMILE, be nice, never neg a shy girl and remember you will have to carry the conversation until she loosens up, which may not even happen the first time you talk to her. Don't worry about lack of IOI's, shy girls have a real problem with giving off negative body signals unintentionally. Thats what makes them tough to deal with, because its a lot harder to know if they really want you to go away. Once they get the message though that you are showing GENUINE HONEST interest, they will open up sudd…
/r/seduction27/06/17 01:18 AM
3

There is no competition, bronies are gay and male cosplayers are usually married anyway.
/r/seduction27/06/17 01:00 AM
1

KNOW what the costume is before commenting, ask her how much time she spent on it and find out how much she loves the cosplay or is she just in it for fun, etc. Then ask for a selfie with her. See if she will be in the costume contest or does she do it as part of a group, etc. If she wants to keep talking she will "park" (not look like she wants to walk away) and chat with you. If she invites you to see her friends, you're in! Alternatively just sign up the for the cosplay singles speed dating. …
/r/seduction27/06/17 01:00 AM
1

True dat. I read a story once of a syphyilis outbreak at a retirement community. Apparently they were having orgys.
/r/seduction26/06/17 06:26 AM
1

I suppose if you're 16 years old this makes no sense to you
/r/seduction25/06/17 06:30 PM
1

Obsessing over "escalation", a PUA's biggest flaw. How many times do I have to say this, a woman wants safety and security. If you don't establish that on the 1st date you won't get a 2nd, period.
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:45 PM
-11

You guys are all kids. You don't know how old I really am.
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:42 PM
1

She was probably just being courteous.
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:40 PM
-4

Get a hotel room, give her a special evening with formal dinner, wine.
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:39 PM
-4

Just ask her what she doesn't like about herself. Suggest changes but don't be snarky about it, you're not in junior high.
/r/seduction25/06/17 04:46 PM
1

Your really don't want to be funny for extended periods of time, lest you end up to be a clown or harmless dancing monkey in her eyes. Humor in small doses.
/r/seduction25/06/17 02:45 PM
2

How successful are you for warm approaches, if its working then quit worrying about cold approaches.
/r/seduction25/06/17 02:41 PM
1

graduating highschool opens you up to a new world, as you realize highschool is just a tiny closed microcosm of life.
/r/seduction25/06/17 02:39 PM
1

True dat, those singles groups have predatory chicks just wanting to hook up.
/r/seduction25/06/17 02:38 PM
2

Who cares about followers and friends over the internet, none of it is real. What really matters is what you do IRL.
/r/seduction25/06/17 02:36 PM
1

Give him $20 and tell him to get lost for an hour or so
/r/seduction25/06/17 02:35 PM
0

Go to /r/amiugly and post a pic, free reassurance (or not)
/r/seduction25/06/17 02:32 PM
2

Alcohol is your real problem.
/r/seduction25/06/17 02:32 PM
-4

Don't tease?
/r/seduction25/06/17 02:28 PM
1

God what a terrible movie, my GF made me see both of them in the theatre.
/r/seduction25/06/17 08:26 AM
2

Because they're women. Its also why you like them. If they acted like men you wouldn't even want them.
/r/seduction25/06/17 08:25 AM
1

How long before you escalate? How do you escalate? Are you even trying to get to know her or are you running canned routines and PUA checklists?
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:50 AM
2

You suffer from depression. Its not them its you. See a therapist.
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:49 AM
1

all tiny towns have places where people hang out, find them. its not like you're the only one that isn't looking to people-watch. Go to every social event held, barn dances, church meetings, festivals
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:47 AM
1

you blew it. move on.
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:45 AM
1

practice by yourself telling the story
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:44 AM
3

An hour is nothing. heck I once drove 3 hours regularly for some chick, totally worth it too.
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:44 AM
1

How many women have you dated?
/r/seduction25/06/17 04:00 AM
1

I'm sorry but I just can't make that level of commitment, I'm seeing another browser.
/r/seduction24/06/17 08:52 PM
1

Any girl who is truly interested will MAKE time for you.
/r/seduction24/06/17 08:51 PM
1

Build comfort and safety first in her mind. Even a girl that wants to get laid that same day still wants to have a guy make her feel safe and comfortable. Women have to deal with kooks, serial killers, rapists, and plain weirdos. We rarely have to worry about psycho women because its pretty rare. Look at the serial killer and rape statistics, very few women engage in that.
/r/seduction24/06/17 06:45 PM
2

What are you saying? Let me know so I don't use it
/r/seduction24/06/17 06:42 PM
1

Give her really good sex with all the trimmings, foreplay, post-sex cuddling and a meal at the pancake house. then tell her "I really enjoy these times I spend with you". See what her response is.
/r/seduction24/06/17 04:38 PM
1

Girls like guys who bake. Just don't make it a centerpiece, just happen "to be baking something" as she is over. And hope you bake good stuff, if its crap she will not look upon you highly and probably will tell her friends about it.
/r/seduction24/06/17 04:37 PM
1

She needed dick, and you disappointed. I don't think a random Tinder girl who just needed some is going to reconsider you.
/r/seduction24/06/17 04:35 PM
1

Whats wrong with a relationship? Maybe you should just use escorts.
/r/seduction24/06/17 04:33 PM
2

Women are not robots, they're emotional creatures. You could have done everything 100% right and still she may change her mind about you for reasons you may not even know about.
/r/seduction24/06/17 08:13 AM
1

don't go overboard with "sexual healing" by marvin gaye just yet.
/r/seduction24/06/17 08:11 AM
1

Yeah you can't go wrong with the 50 shades of gray or the 50 shades darker CD.
/r/seduction24/06/17 08:11 AM
3

It depends on the girl. One GF I had loved to have country music playing, i tolerated it because I got sex. My present GF hates music playing while we do it, so its just a quiet room, well she isn't so quiet. Some chicks like classical, others like speed metal, it all just depends.
/r/seduction24/06/17 07:54 AM
1

Exclusivity. She has to know you want that from her and you are willing to give that to her. She has to know you want to spend time with her and only her. If you can't do that then you won't get a true relationship because she won't invest emotionally in a guy that won't do it in return. There is no playbook, no Mystery Method to do this. You just have to take the risk first and demand a commitment. Thats why in the old days girls loved being "pinned" (aka given a small piece of jewelry to wear …
/r/seduction24/06/17 05:10 AM
3

if you don't want to take my advice do it at your peril. Another tidbit from a pro (me), when you do kino of any kind do NOT do fingertips, its creepy and it feels like aliens are probing. remember to use the entire palm of your hands when you are caressing or stroking, it feels much better
/r/seduction24/06/17 04:52 AM
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Decent/Attractive girls get approached a lot. Fat girls are almost invisible to men, yet they keep eating, go figure. Black guys often go after the chubbies because well they like'em.
/r/seduction24/06/17 04:11 AM
8

Harassing a chick for not replying is a total Beta Male move, bordering on Omega Male.
/r/seduction24/06/17 04:10 AM
2

You underestimate the power of hands. One thing my GF loves to do is fiddle with my hands, they are surprisingly intimate parts of the body. You should quit concentrating on butts, boobs and other parts of the body and work on hands. Do you know hands have far more nerve endings than a butt?
/r/seduction24/06/17 04:03 AM
1

What do you do after the hookup, do you just part ways after getting a phone number or do you spend time together after the club, say in a 24 hour restaurant and just chill with her? Are you really establishing a real connection with her or do you treat her as just another club girl (and she treats you as another club guy)?
/r/seduction24/06/17 04:01 AM
1

Excuse me just puts her on the defensive, its an indication you are 'selling something' and in your case that product is you. Nobody likes salesmen, we all just tolerate them as we go through life.
/r/seduction24/06/17 02:21 AM
1

Whats with all this jumping in front of a girl. How about standing next to her if shes say, looking at a store display and then chatting?
/r/seduction24/06/17 02:21 AM
1

The Mall
/r/seduction24/06/17 02:19 AM
1

you may have serious mental issues, see a qualified therapist. I read that "people don't match up to your expectations" and saw that as a clear warning sign.
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:56 AM
1

This is why you should never smoke weed and drink, you should always be ready for the unexpected.
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:56 AM
1

bring a chick next time to the class and see if she gets jealous
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:55 AM
1

Get one of those dirty romance novels and type it out. guys dont' read those (straight guys anyway) so he wont' know you're actually sending him somebody else's dirty prose.
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:54 AM
1

Essentially you have had ONE girlfriend. A good start, you're way ahead of others here it seems. So its time to get another girlfriend. Quit worrying about how many chicks you want to do or rating women with numbers. Also quit worrying about what your friends may say about a girl you date. Its not what they want its what you want. And stay away from the weed, it does not win friends and influence people. Talk to girls, they want to get to know you.
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:53 AM
3

Is there money in it?
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:49 AM
1

1) You intrigued them with a combination of looks, intelligence and social skills 2) You really really gave them outstanding sex, the kind they call their girlfriends up about next day and discuss 3) You fit her mental image of a "keeper". Who knows what that is, its always a crapshoot. preferably you get all 3 bullet points checked off, and she will see you again. If she interprets your actions just as a PUA fuckboi, then she treats you as a dick in a glass box to use only in emergency, and she…
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:48 AM
3

Its called being a human. Only robots and crazy people are happy 24/7. A lot of times a guy gets rejected by a girl because she's not at her best either and doesn't wanna be bugged, not because of something he did.
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:45 AM
1

Grow up kid it isn't a race and people aren't taking score.
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:44 AM
3

Women want to follow, even feminists have secret fantasies about a guy who dominates them. Its 200,000 years of evolution baked into our genes. Men lead, women follow.
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:41 AM
1

Not as much as you think. Lots of girls just make out with guys and forget them the next day, just like how many guys do the same. A number isn't a close, a kiss isn't a close. Unless you make a real connection with her, she will forget you the next day. A connection takes time, it takes effort and it takes your undivided attention. Just because you rubbed a girl's ass doesn't mean she has formed an emotional connection to you.
/r/seduction24/06/17 01:40 AM
1

Get naked and check each other for ticks. Seriously, what is it with you young people and weed. Modern life isn't hard, my dad fought the japanese, thats hard. Don't be so damn self-absorbed, time to grow up.
/r/seduction24/06/17 12:34 AM
0

She's talking to a lot of people. Girls can do that they're communication addicts. It may be hard to get her attention, and at this point what you're doing isn't working. Unless you intrigue her she won't give up chatting with others just for you.
/r/seduction24/06/17 12:32 AM
2

NEVER talk about your EX, hopefully she will never talk about hers. If she still talks about it, she still has feelings for him. Warning sign if that occurs. Look to the future, hopefully she will too.
/r/seduction24/06/17 12:30 AM
2

work on yourself first. Mind and body are linked. If you feel bad because your body feels bad you will not succeed in what you want. you may even wish to forget about girls for awhile and concentrate totally in your fitness to get the change you want. Once real change occurs, girls will notice!
/r/seduction24/06/17 12:29 AM
7

a girl flakes because you think you succeeded when you get a phone number. you didn't succeed, maybe because you got the # and then ran off. you broke that connection, severed that chain of intimacy because you were in a hurry to your next conquest. the best thing to do is during the discourse, you get the number, you put it in your pocket and then you continue interacting with her like nothing happened. it indicates to her you are genuinely interested in sharing time with her and not just some …
/r/seduction24/06/17 12:24 AM
5

Never "reach" for a kiss (aka lean your head in to her). If things get quiet and it looks like you will kiss, have her reach in to you for a kiss, she is more likely to accept that if she feels like she is more in control. If she feints, no big deal, don't get angry, its part of the game.
/r/seduction24/06/17 12:02 AM
0

Guess what you probably will be obsessed with sex until the day you die, so you had better get used to it.
/r/seduction24/06/17 12:00 AM
1

See the ball....BE the ball.
/r/seduction23/06/17 11:41 PM
1

Not sure blocking a person's path is a good way to go about it.
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:39 AM
1

When you get into a relationship that is serious, you both drop all the pretenses and all the gaming. there's no need for it anymore. both of you are fully invested in each other. If you want to get to that point you drop the games. Ever wonder why a woman puts in her personal "no gamers please". Thats why. Now you still have to take care to be appealing, such as fitness, grooming and clothing. Getting sloppy means you have become careless and uninterested in the relationship. Lots of guys get p…
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:25 AM
1

Definitely, knee bend imparts a better fulcrum effect. And don't forget to extend your other arm straight out, it keeps your shoulders square and stops the urge to drop your shoulder and mis-time your release.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:41 AM
1

No, no, don't base a relationship on jealousy. no just don't do that. that social proof stuff is only for the attraction phase.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:33 AM
1

people get married there, some folks find success
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:32 AM
1

I knew this guy that had a "thing" about him. he would be talking to a girl, whether a friend or more, he would stare at her give her a bit of eyebrow, or a goofy smile, didn't say a word. chicks loved it because it was fun and confident. its like he would share a special bond between him and her without saying anything. Remember to use your nonverbal skills they're more powerful than your verbal ones.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:31 AM
1

Anything relating to where she lives, works, who she hangs with in anything other than very general terms, and be prepared to have a response where YOU give her info back thats slightly personal about you, equalizes things. If you start establishing a stalker pattern you have already lost her.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:26 AM
1

3 years? whoa stay away from dat granny, she will hit ya with her crooked cane. The universal advice for any guy is act mature no matter what her age.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:24 AM
2

You're getting too technical, its intimidating. Just give her a snippet of boxing technique, just a tiny bit. then move on to other topics, like her. Women love to talk about themselves even if its a piece of jewelry they bought at Hot Topic.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:23 AM
1

Talk to her like you talk to a buddy. Women are far more perceptive than guys, she most likely will get the message. One big problem though is if you are that relaxed you may unintentionally be so that you give off a uber-fun vibe that women really like and interpret as 'date material'. Thats why so many married guys get hit on, they are relaxed because they don't feel the pressure of single guys, they got a wife. It also is why women are drawn to them like magnets....married men don't give off …
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:21 AM
1

No peacocking is equally silly, and Mystery is autistic. Dressing well with care on the other hand is a good thing. Look at "hot" chicks, ever notice they take great care in how they dress? Thats because it works, you're lusting after them every day.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:18 AM
2

its easy sex, you're just being lazy. Hunting for meat is an adventure, but putting a frozen burger on the grill is not, but it is easy. Do you want adventure, its going to take effort and risk.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:16 AM
1

Phone sex is far better than text-sexting. it helps to be a visual person, imagine what she is doing and have her be descriptive. If she's touching her pussy, ask her how she does it. hopefully you know what a pussy looks/feels like and how it basically functions so you can correctly describe stuff. lower your voice, say things slower, more deliberate, and encourage her to touch herself while she talks. issue her challenges, such as to put on something sexy while she's on the phone. Sure you won…
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:12 AM
3

How to seduce a beautiful woman, same as seducing an ugly woman
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:05 AM
1

No topic is boring if you enjoy conversation with that person. Ever talk to a longtime friend. If you analyze what you talk about you will realize its pretty boring stuff, and probably things you have talked about before, but its still fun because its your friend.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:03 AM
2

Force yourself to be genuinely interested. You are focusing on yourself too much. Be comfortable in your skin, focus on her, listen, let go of the conversation and try not to steer it. let her finish her sentences before you respond. you will eventually get the skill of listening and forming your own responses at the same time.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:02 AM
1

Don't give up on Christianity yet, you can still be a secularish christian, many of us are! Atheism can be a pretty negative thing on a person's life and it tends to radicalize a person and make them rather unhappy but they don't know why. Stick to your ideals, do you want a good girl, then look for good girls! Don't worry about what others think, and for gods sake don't get into that trap of mindless sex, its a soul killer (figuratively). As for waiting for a woman, think about this joke. Three…
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:57 AM
1

yeah, a girl I knew toyed with me for a few weeks in text and in person, but she was just stroking her ego. I didn't really think much of it when I realized she had no real interest so I broke off contact. It bugged her but she wasn't going to do anything about it. In retrospect it was a good thing, she was a basket case with severe baggage.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:52 AM
2

"I wish you were here for longer." boom you should have acted on that one. The moment you change from harmless and friendly to warm, seductive it gives her the signal....and its almost all nonverbal. You could have smiled and said "oh really, and what would we do if I stayed." Give her an opportunity to play a bit and get frisky. It happens that quickly, you have to be ready.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:48 AM
2

She just likes contact, women are socialization addicts. The electronic age is like social crack to them. Just quit talking to her for awhile see what happens. Everybody wants what they can't have. Thats why people rob banks and men go to war over a woman.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:45 AM
3

The world doesn't hate you as much as you think. Bitterness isn't sexy.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:43 AM
2

You know the conversation doesn't HAVE to keep going. Sometimes a simple pause, a smile and a look and maybe hand squeeze or taking her necklace in your hand can have a dramatic effect on her, because its ramping up the intimacy. if you keep blabbing nervously because you're afraid of a little silence, she will want to bail on you.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:41 AM
1

Do you want to be a submissive in the relationship? Its possible if she actually enjoys having a sub rather than it just being a job for her. You just have to lay it out and say it openly. When you're talking about a woman that whips guys for a living, there's no need to be subtle, just be honest.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:38 AM
1

Talk as long as you need to, let the conversation flow. If the chick is into you she will guide it into what she wants. If she likes you she can wander off but she will be back later, don't fret. Don't beg for sex, its pathetic. Your objective is to get her comfortable enough for her to take the bold step of hinting she wants....more. Then you act on it.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:36 AM
1

Don't dress like the other guys. Look in those chick mags like Seventeen and Cosmopolitan and look at the cute guy pages, dress like them, look like them (well try anyway). Then go out.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:35 AM
3

A date is a job interview. nothing is 100%, she evaluates you, you evaluate her. There are no slam dunks in real life.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:34 AM
1

don't use mIRC its got spyware
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:33 AM
1

its las vegas baby, how can you not get laid. The chicks at the casino hotels are looking for eligible guys. now maybe if you hang out in the desert you may have issues finding women. Casino clubs are great places. Is the RA club still open at Luxor?
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:31 AM
3

One thing that drives girls away are a bunch of silly guys acting like 12 year olds, making star wars quotes and funny faces at each other. Maybe you guys can form a pact that when eligible chicks are around you all conform to a more masculine, mature attitude.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:30 AM
4

Always carry a spare charger.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:28 AM
1

Drop all the pickup artist stuff. How you enter into an LTR is to show interest outside having sex all the time. Show some enthusiasm for spending time with her doing other things, even mundane ones. I'm pretty good at it, because I make a girl feel comfortable, and like a fluffy comfy pillow she looks forward to snuggling, knowing I don't come over just to flip her on her knees and elbows and pound her snatch.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:25 AM
1

No real tips, just run your usual routines. If she strays she strays.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:21 AM
1

And toss the ball between the 3rd and 4th arrow or alternatively use the dots. the target dot depends on whether you toss a full roller or semiroller. Make sure you are consistent with your approach, most use a 3, 4 or 5 step approach to the line.
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:26 AM
1

jack off and work on extending your time before orgasm. When you get close just slow down and "edge", keeping yourself on the other side of finishing. Do that until you can control it reasonably. I'm sure you do a lot of jacking off anyway so make good use of that time.
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:23 AM
2

You don't really close women, you open them and keep that door open. Lots of guys literally close a woman and basically shut the communication down, no wonder they don't want to come back. Same thing with kiss closes, you aren't closing her, you're supposed to be using the kiss as another doorway open to her with the promise of future adventures. Thats why so many guys think they're in the bag with a kiss and a phone number only to find out they've gone nowhere with her.
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:21 AM
1

Whats wrong with her? Why not just hang with her for awhile.
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:18 AM
3

Escorts are not giving you what you really want, so don't go to them. Its like going to the arcade and playing videogames you hate.
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:13 AM
2

You're just too needy and impatient and you joke a lot. You also ask too many probing questions, nobody likes to be interrogated. Try relaxing and just having a conversation and quit trying to control the narrative so much. Women are used to fending off horny guys going sexual on them within 60 seconds of starting a chat, don't be that guy.
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:11 AM
1

Too needy. You should have been more svelte. Instead of obsessing with having her come over your place you could have just have her make a suggestion, it puts the control in her hands. Women have to worry about basic safety, you're a strange guy she just met and lots of serial killers have human heads in their fridge at "their place". Thats what the neutrality of hotel rooms are for. Don't be a skinflint jerk, wedge that wallet open and buy a hotel room. CS people make good money I know because …
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:22 AM
1

Just say to yourself "I'm gonna do it, I'm going to meet a woman.". Its a risk but its a worthwhile one. These days with people in school well into their 30s and school costing tens of thousands per year, living at home is not unusual now for students.
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:17 AM
13

just say something simple like "Dammmmm!" That may encourage her to send more, so go along with it and make little jokes like "thats a lucky rubber duck behind you" or "wished I was that bar of soap". Gotta be quick on your toes, she's taking a HUGE risk so you have to reassure her she didn't make a mistake and embarass the crap out of herself sending you an intimate photo.
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:13 AM
2

Sure why not, it goes so fast you might not have time to get self-conscious. Just remember its for fun, so be fun and friendly.
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:13 AM
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no you just look like an idiot when wearing baggy basketball wear, and even worse you look LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE.
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:12 AM
2

negging (facepalm). come on guys lets dump the mystery method already. just because you managed to recover from it doesn't mean it had the desired effect or any effect at all.
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:04 AM
1

I only do a pull-away for sex. I deny a girl sex and make her wait, but I do set a schedule, telling her not this time but next week on a particular day. Drives em crazy and they will just masturbate every day until then waiting for the day.
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:03 AM
2

well if you're out to dinner with your girlfriend, don't be in single guy mode, women are paying attention. Your eyes should be focused on her, your interest focused on her. The moment your eyes wander to a butt walking by she will get pissed off and all of a sudden the sex stops. The whole point of having a single girlfriend only is to establish a trust, a trust that you won't "wander" and she won't suck a random cock the moment she gets tipsy with the girls. You establish that trust with your …
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:00 AM
4

Don't get defensive about it. If she thinks you're not the boxing type don't challenge her on it, just say "yep, let me show you a move or two". Thats called making it fun and interesting, versus making her feel bad for even having an opinion about it. Thats what "nice" guys do, get all moody and insult a woman and wonder why she doesn't come back for a 2nd date.
/r/seduction22/06/17 03:57 AM
1

Why are you so concerned with rating a woman's looks, why not be more interested in enjoying a relationship with a girl rather than thinking she's some trophy to parade around. What makes you think she will even marry you someday? She may just want her muffin buttered a few times before september.
/r/seduction22/06/17 03:55 AM
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Dress well, don't wear basketball gear and a crooked hat. Likewise don't wear jeans and a t-shirt unless you are already insanely good looking, but if you are you wouldn't be here anyway. Dress for your sexuality, dress like a person that is looking for sex (no not sans pants).
/r/seduction22/06/17 03:53 AM
1

Well it is FREE advice after all. Even free beer is almost always busch or milwakee's best, don't expect small brew craft beer made by ex-germans.
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:31 AM
1

As long as you aren't her boss and she's not your boss, play ball. Forget about the virgins here that say don't date co-workers. People have been dating and marrying co-workers for decades, it happens very often. I've been an office worker forever and have dated many women. Heck my present GF I work with. Its good because you tend to know a lot more about co-workers than random bar sluts. The only real rule is something codified in employee manuals, don't date in your chain of command.
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:19 AM
2

forget about love for now, work on just establishing a communication with a woman. the trick is pretty simple, focus on HER, not you. when you are talking to her, have GENUINE interest, actually LISTEN to what she's saying, the less you think about yourself the more your conversation will be natural and enjoyable. Just the interaction itself will help you learn how to be comfortable in your own skin and after awhile you won't even remember at time when you couldn't talk to a woman.
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:07 AM
1

its the internet, a girl gets 100 messages a day from guys. its always a buyers market for them. Make sure you have a really good picture of yourself. Grainy selfies in a dirty mirror are not good pictures.
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:03 AM
1

Your "friend" just needs to move on. she already transmitted her feelings via the grapevine.
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:58 PM
2

take a beta blocker
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:56 PM
2

Women hint, men are supposed to take up on hints and go in for the hunt. You may be giving off the harmless vibe when you should be giving off the sexual and mystery vibe, the kind that makes women think to themselves....what if... Being funny is fine but don't be a clown, clowns are interpreted as harmless (well they actually murder you in the night but thats a whole other story). Also act like you want her attention, you want more than just friendship. You may be stuck at the friendly phase be…
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:55 PM
1

A little liquor can loosen those inhibitions (I don't recommend both of you getting stinking drunk and doing the monkey hump though). You might just tell her during a cuddle session a thought question like "why haven't we done it yet?"
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:50 PM
1

Women tend to think in the long term, but they get horny too. They're just saying they don't like PUA guys, they want a guy who appeals to them longer than 24 hours. Doesn't mean they won't fuck you and dump you next week though. They also say those things because of the slut syndrome, they generally don't want to be perceived as sluts or loose sexually even if they are. Don't be dissuaded by such talk. If you are a PUA you probably wont't make it past the 2nd date anyway.
/r/seduction21/06/17 11:48 PM
1

Look at his youtube videos first, they're free.
/r/seduction21/06/17 04:17 AM
1

You can't get all the women you go for. A 1st date is a job interview, you don't always get the job. You are probably running routines or worrying about kiss closes, IOIs and kino. Try this instead....listen to her, take geniune interest, think about her, not yourself and enjoy her as a person. Girls can smell a fake a mile away, its like they're genetically programmed to. If you're relaxed around her she's relaxed, if you're nervous or acting like a used car salesman, she's gonna be courteous a…
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:35 AM
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ross jeffries - straight to the trash. david deangelo (eben pagan, he uses a fake name to hide the fact he is israeli, not italian), ditto to the trash. What you need is to work on your attitude first before you go into canned routines. try david wygant he doesn't teach game he teaches you to learn how to like yourself first. I don't work for the guy I just like his demeanor and you can pick up a lot of that by observation.
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:32 AM
5

Just remember a kiss is not a close.
/r/seduction20/06/17 07:59 AM
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here's a tip: Set up a script. Basically an outline of stuff to talk about, and jump around the outline as you see fit. After awhile you can dump the script when you become comfortable. I tend to have the best phone conversations when my eyes are shut, no distractions so I can concentrate.
/r/seduction20/06/17 06:16 AM
1

Join a club, its easy to find friends when you have similar interests.
/r/seduction20/06/17 03:44 AM
1

Don't fall for short man syndrome (aka be bitter and jealous). Tall chicks can be even more self-conscious than short guys. If you can make a girl feel relaxed around you no matter how she feels about herself, you're in! She will get addicted to being around you regardless.
/r/seduction20/06/17 03:37 AM
2

stalking is just extra unwanted loyalty
/r/seduction20/06/17 03:33 AM
6

they arent, they just dont like you
/r/seduction20/06/17 02:10 AM
2

Going lone wolf at a club is an educational experience. Remember you may not have a wing, but you can talk to the bartender, to bargirls, the bouncers, and just random people you aren't even interested in dating. You gotta get that comfort down first before you go on the hunt.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:56 AM
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I don't even care, its not a race and I'm not trying to impress friends.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:55 AM
3

I've only had 1 GF in three years, but I've counted roughly we have had sex 675 times, does that make me promiscuous? Chicks lie, if she says she's had 5 its 15, not counting blowjobs and fingerbangs. Just roll with it and get her an HIV test if it bugs you.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:54 AM
1

I've had a girl do that when I was at a stoplight. Proof that just about any place is a good place for an opener.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:52 AM
1

"Who cheats more, men or women?" gets me some serious tail, guys, oh yeahhhh
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:50 AM
3

I can barely understand Matthew McConaughey, his Texas accent is so strange even for an Okie. Telling a story isn't a big deal, its best when its true. Telling lies sucks, and if you get caught in a lie well....
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:49 AM
1

You were scared by her aggression and you rationalized a way out to get back into your safe comfy zone of isolation. You also felt you weren't in control when really you could have been. Even a sexually aggressive woman is just opening the door wide, allowing you to take over and run the show. You could have gone as far or as little as you wanted, she wouldn't have minded. She would have gotten the acceptance she wanted and the male authority she craved. Better luck next time, remember she is ju…
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:47 AM
2

work on it, talk into a mirror as if the mirror is a date. imagine a conversation and pay attention to your voice and pacing. Don't worry if you say stupid things you're talking into a mirror nobody is writing it down.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:43 AM
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Women get disappointed easily when their signals get ignored or not noticed, thats what puts you in the friend zone. Its pretty much a given that if you haven't done at least something physical by the 5th date, she will start wondering if you're gay or you're just not interested. As for ramping up a romance with a female friend, well its pretty simple. Just don't be her friend on the date, treat her like she's a date. Make it obvious, she's not wanting friendsy stuff if you are taking her on a d…
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:41 AM
1

IOI's, forget about them. Pay more attention to HER, not her body movements. You may not realize this but more than a few women give off negative IOI's because of habit or shyness. Some people just have nervous habits. You should have fun with her and enjoy her presence, she will recognize that and enjoy yours. THAT is what gets you the 2nd date.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:38 AM
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Sometimes you just have to go for it. I notice that things tend to suddenly get quiet with her if she wants to be kissed, the conversation stops... Sometimes they give signals like taking off their glasses or moving their hair away from the face, unconsciously removing obstacles away from her lips.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:36 AM
1

its okay to say where you're from, just be prepared to give your impression of your hometown, its a great opportunity to give her a good story. Same with your job, she may actually be interested. I've had more than a few girls ask "what do they actually do" and such. If you have a boring job then its probably ok to admit its boring and move on. I had one friend try to impress a girl with his knowledge of car tires, he was a tire factory worker. cringe.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:34 AM
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If you're nervous on the date, they're nervous, if they're nervous, they want to get the hell out of there. The girl wants to be swept off her feet, excited and exhilarated by a fun and friendly guy. How is your dating attitude on a firstie?
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:32 AM
0

I see tiny mexican guys with a wife and 6 kids, apparently they have few if any problems finding a woman.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:30 AM
1

You weren't very good in bed, how long did you last, 30-60 seconds?
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:29 AM
2

its not about texting jokes, its about being humorous and clever. that unfortunately is something that is impossible to teach, its just something you practice doing. Some are naturals at it. In any case you don't want to go overboard then she thinks you're just this goofy harmless clown.
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:45 AM
1

You get what you pay for on here.
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:43 AM
4

Does it really? Or other short guys are looking at you with your tall GF and are thinking "What the fuck how did he score her?"
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:42 AM
1

Building attraction is not touching, attraction is a mental game. Read the posts on this sub, SO MANY guys fondle, grab, feel, suck face and then are confused when the girl pretends they never existed the next day.
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:36 AM
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The next Elliott Rodger
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:35 AM
5

I'm short, my GF is taller than me. Girls don't care when they're horizontal in your bed.
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:34 AM
1

You haven't lived until you have dated a tall girl. Love women, love all women. I'm a manlet, I don't care, neither do they it seems.
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:18 AM
1

No spark, no 2nd date.
/r/seduction19/06/17 05:01 AM
9

Read a book about bicycles, does it help you learn to ride a bike?
/r/seduction19/06/17 03:31 AM
3

Now you know what its like to be a girl, you are creeped out by stares and then you get hit with bizarre awkward questions.
/r/seduction19/06/17 03:27 AM
2

Go out and talk to girls, no pressure to date them, no pressure to get a kiss close or a phone number. just interact.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:39 PM
2

next day, but don't text her saying "remember me I'm that guy with the red shirt". If you need to do that then she obviously forgot about you anyway.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:38 PM
1

Shave the beard.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:36 PM
2

Don't treat her as being out of your league because she obviously isn't, she is going out with you.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:36 PM
1

Black men are more aggressive. Ever go to a brony convention, count the black guys, few and far between. While a white guy is jerking off to cartoons a black guy is out at the club looking for women. Women like masculinity, even if its pretty raw and unrefined. You also have the media pushing multiculturalism and women eat that propaganda up.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:34 PM
1

the legal aspects of hidden video almost guarantees infield footage is fake, like reality tv.
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:41 PM
1

Months? She is married, thats a can of worms.
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:39 PM
1

For a 1st date really the most escalating you should be doing is hand holding. That alone is a big jump. It doesn't sound like much but it is in her mind. Fondling her ass doesn't ramp it up more, she just mentally tosses you into the "no 2nd date" pile.
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:36 PM
1

Be friendly but not creepy, don't ask about her whereabouts or movements (stalk talk), and don't write text novels.
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:31 PM
3

The ultimate cold approach, just be prepared to explain how you got her number.
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:28 PM
1

She's a cheater then, if she cheats on her BF she will cheat on you too.
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:26 PM
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Women are not as attracted to status and money as you think. Sometimes that even works against you especially if you flaunt that.
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:24 PM
6

Taking all the mystery out of life. The girl assumes you are leaving out the part where you cut up her body and mail it to her family. No wonder it doesn't work. You have to be descriptive without the harsh mechanics of sex. An example response (favorite position). "I would have you sitting on top of me, you're feeding me chocolate covered strawberries and I'm sipping champagne. Women love romantic imagery where they are in control and not on their way to being murdered.
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:14 PM
24

Its a universal human trait, we want what we can't have.
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:44 AM
1

Keep talking, keep interacting, learn more about her, pay attention to details. The #1 thing girls hate about guys is they don't listen.
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:40 AM
1

She wanted more, you didn't. You won't get what you want.
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:14 AM
1

Hey ###! It's ###, that hot guy from yesterday :) . Let's meet around 20.30 on Sunday. At ##########. Talk to you later! :) Just a little too presumptuous and bossy overall your approach line was tired and uncreative. On the good side she gave you an earnest review of your approach method, so lesson learned.
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:12 AM
1

Sounds like they were just swingers and were trying you out.
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:08 AM
1

get her to lean or at least have her come closer to you
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:06 AM
1

No because you're basically denying your own self. You have lost control of your own personality.
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:05 AM
2

Girls are very social, so they're more interested in chatting with people in general. Talk to them and just have fun. Even Michael Phelps didn't know how to swim at first.
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:03 AM
1

You're getting older, it actually gets easier to meet women when you get older. You might be having psychiatric problems, something this board can't help you with.
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:00 AM
2

just talk to them, don't feel the pressure of having to impress or get their phone number. try to enjoy the conversation for what it is.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:58 AM
1

She probably asked her friend to rescue her from your boring conversation. If you were doing well she would have introduced her friend to you.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:56 AM
1

talk to them like they're guys.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:55 AM
1

How do you break up with a girl so you can date another girl she knows.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:54 AM
1

need more info
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:53 AM
1

HB: Hahaha. What are you doing tonight? So what happened with that. Sounds like you were distracted with a number close and blew the obvious.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:45 AM
1

This stuff is just being comfortable with yourself. Running routines won't be very successful if you rattle them off like you're a nervous actor reading a script.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:41 AM
1

There's no such thing as a number close. You went in and then bailed too quickly, thinking a few digits was a slam dunk. Whats your hurry, hang out with her awhile, give her a reason to want to see you again.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:40 AM
2

You wrote her a small novel in text, thats bad. Best response to friend zone talk is to simply say okay, but I'm not looking for friendship I wanted more, see ya. If it really was a test and she wasn't honestly trying to just be friends, she will be back.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:37 AM
1

That was just 1 night. Don't feel you need to approach every woman in the room. You have to learn how to feel comfortable in your own skin when you're in a club. Toss your Mystery Method of negging that stuff is just stupid. Quit running sets and routines and be more dynamic. Remember a conversation with a girl must FLOW like the jedi force. You were so cringey the asian chicks even gave you pointers to avoid such things.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:34 AM
1

Women give out numbers because they know they can block you, or they give you a fake number, because they know a PUA will just get the number and think they have "closed" her, so they wander off and she no longer has to deal with him. Do you honestly think girls don't know about PUA's, they can't stand them.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:26 AM
1

the trick is to get her to willingly give you her phone number without having to drag it out of her. the moment you start trolling for digits you are just another guy.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:23 AM
1

Then don't. You will have more success with women at the bar getting them to dance. Girls already dancing generally are either with a dance partner or are just chilling and moving and don't want guys to start ass bumping them out of nowhere.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:22 AM
1

isaac newton died a virgin, but in the meantime he created newtonian physics.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:20 AM
1

You might run into her again, the trick is to be prepared
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:19 AM
1

One of the great things about Tinder is rejection without regret. Thats why girls love it, they hate to reject a guy in person so over the internet its much less painful. Rule of thumb is if a girl likes you she will make time for you, otherwise she's just delaying hoping you go away.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:15 AM
2

I'm short, my GF is taller than me, so I wear taller shoes when we go out so at least I don't have to get on my tippy-toes when kissing her.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:12 AM
1

You didn't read her properly. You need to build more comfort because pushing her to a kiss doesn't result in a "close" it just makes you one of the many pushy guys she has encountered in her life.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:11 AM
1

No, its not a hobby. Its part of life to forge relationships with women if you ever want to become a whole person.
/r/seduction18/06/17 08:09 AM
2

Cringey: just blurting out you want a girls number brings up her defenses, you scared her and she did the boyfriend excuse and left. Don't even introduce yourself, you're not a used car salesman, a hello will suffice, and perhaps a comment about something in her basket to start up a conversation. Girls have to deal with issues we don't....like wierdos, serial killers and stalkers, so you have to show them you're not in that category before they will chat with you.
/r/seduction18/06/17 07:58 AM
2

Sounds like fun, go to some place where you can do stuff as a group obviously. Don't obsess with PUA tactics though, get to know all 3 of the girls.
/r/seduction18/06/17 07:55 AM
2

Having a woman inevitably makes you social, you have to go out to eat with her, to the movies, meet her friends, family. Even if you are dating a reclusive goth girl you will end up meeting her reclusive goth friends.
/r/seduction18/06/17 07:53 AM
1

Do you really wanna know? My bigger worry is guys out there that look at traps and still believe they are straight.
/r/seduction18/06/17 07:47 AM
1

Don't freak out, you're both busy people. Just get your schedule worked out with her.
/r/seduction18/06/17 07:44 AM
0

You don't necessarily have to escalate on the 1st date. The importance of the 1st date can't be emphasized more. You MUST build comfort and safety in her mind. You also must give her a reason to want a 2nd date. Just feeling a girl up won't get her ready for a 2nd date, it will just make her run away from that creepy guy who won't stop touching her. The moment you trigger her creepy detector you have lost the game. Pack up your stuff and go home.
/r/seduction18/06/17 07:00 AM
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PUA is bs, mainly profiteering off naive young men. Young men really need to learn more from their elders rather than other young men who have set up bootcamps and seminars based on ridiculous dating theories. One thing that is reassuring is young men here are willing to take the risk to ask the questions, to admit they just don't know how to talk to women. My hope is the older men here can give real useful advice without charging 3 low payments of $49.95.
/r/seduction18/06/17 06:31 AM
1

Work more to be an AMOG rather than act like a beta male trying to steal bananas from his pile.
/r/seduction18/06/17 06:14 AM
2

You just need to kick back and relax when you're dealing with a woman. You're a comedian, you're supposed to be as smooth in person as you are on stage. You have a mystique that other guys don't have, a talent. Watch Seinfeld, look how smooth Jerry is, then look at how terrible some of his other comedian friends are with women like Kenny Bania. Jerry is great at opening and closing but he's horrible though with commitment, but thats a whole other tale.
/r/seduction18/06/17 06:02 AM
1

Tinder is all about looks, and then about texting prowess. Girls get contacted dozens of times daily so they can afford to be picky. Best thing to do is flirt a bit, then leave them alone, if they come back they're interested.
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:52 AM
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